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[~IronRose~]

I've just been so... blech lately.

• I'm halfway through summer, and I thought I've gotten over my crush on [codename:] Tadashi. It turns out I haven't. It just... blech
• I miss my choral director ;-;
• AC:S is at SDCC and I just ;-;

First, I love the code name, Tadashi from Big Hero 6 was soooo cute lol.
It can take a while to get over some people, based on how big a part of your life they are. It's took me over a year to get over my first boyfriend who dumped me after a week, but I still did, so trust me, If you want to get over him you will.
Summer's coming to a close so do what makes you happy, dance, write, sing, anything, and you'll get out of the blech state of mind. It might be hard but just doing what you love can help.

[Dylan Klebold]

First, I love the code name, Tadashi from Big Hero 6 was soooo cute lol.
It can take a while to get over some people, based on how big a part of your life they are. It's took me over a year to get over my first boyfriend who dumped me after a week, but I still did, so trust me, If you want to get over him you will.
Summer's coming to a close so do what makes you happy, dance, write, sing, anything, and you'll get out of the blech state of mind. It might be hard but just doing what you love can help. :)

Yeah but the things I do involve some sort of things that remind me of Tadashi or smth

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[Starfalling]

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I'm so nervous. I don't know whether to ask her while she's online and cause myself a panic attack asking her or to do the chicken thing and ask while she's online and have a panic attack waiting for an answer. yucuerggvyhcjrbugvhdskjbgyvde. Opinions? Talking to her in peron is out of thte question. 0.0 O.O

(I'm referring to talking to my best friend about whether or not we'll still be able to keep in touch when she graduates.)

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Lately I've been feeling sad and unmotivated. I don't want this to happen again. I remember how bad it was a few months ago when this happened. I didn't want to do anything or talk to anyone. What should I do?? I feel so helpless. I can't prevent it because I don't know what's causing it.

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Also my ear ache came back.-.- Any time but this week would have been fine but not now. I have wayy too much going on with my cousins while they're visiting that I can't enjoy if I have and earache. (e.g. Going to a water park.)

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I'm sorry for posting this so much. I just feel really helpless right now.

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[~IronRose~]

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Okay, these are all normal things, I get panic attacks for similar and different reasons and I know how much the suck, but the best way to work through them in your case is to talk to her. You can do it, you will get nervous and the process will suck but once you do you will feel a weight lifted from your chest. The main thing is to not regret what you say, but you're more likely to regret not saying anything because you'll never know what they would have said in return. It may be hard but it's a big step I know you can take, you got this.

I've have hit spells where I feel sad and unmotivated as well, my mom mistook it as me being a lazy b**** ( which she called me) but you can work through it. I don't know what causes mine, because sometimes you just don't know, but the same can go for happiness as well. But don't worry, it's okay, it's okay to be sad, just ride it out and soon enough you'll be smiling again. Sadness is just another human emotion that can take us by surprise, but try not to feed into it, work yourself out of if by doing something you love, or even just listening to your favorite music can help.

I'm not sure what to do about your ear ache but based on how it " came back" may mean that you might be getting sick, just be careful and you'll be fine. Ear aches can come and go with allergies or if your stuffy. but if it gets worse ask an adult or doctor about it.

hope all this helps, you'll get through this

Yeah but the things I do involve some sort of things that remind me of Tadashi or smth

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Just because it remind you of him, doesn't mean that you can't get over him. My ex is a snowboarder and so am I, it reminds me of him but it doesn't bring up old feelings, I still love snowboarding. And my most recent ex (I found out he cheated on me yesterday) plays the video game Destiny, but I still do as well. I just focus on how that task or hobby makes me happy and not the fact that my ex's do the same. So just focus on you and what makes you happy.

[Birchii]

Argh.
I really miss my boyfriend. We're long distance, so it's been a while since I actually saw him, as it's a lot of time and money to travel to see him. We message each other every day and usually skype every few days, which is good for us. I guess I'm at the down part of it all. I keep feeling sad and I just wanna go back to when we're hugging or kissing, or even just being near each other. I feel so upset and kinda that 'butterflies in my stomach' feeling. Kinda like you need/want to cry, but you know you won't. It sucks, because even when I talk about it with him, there's not much I can do other than going down there right now to get rid of this feeling.
I know it will pass, it usually does, but it's just a really strong one this time around. My pillow has been my hugging companion for the past few days yay

[~IronRose~]

Argh.
I really miss my boyfriend. We're long distance, so it's been a while since I actually saw him, as it's a lot of time and money to travel to see him. We message each other every day and usually skype every few days, which is good for us. I guess I'm at the down part of it all. I keep feeling sad and I just wanna go back to when we're hugging or kissing, or even just being near each other. I feel so upset and kinda that 'butterflies in my stomach' feeling. Kinda like you need/want to cry, but you know you won't. It sucks, because even when I talk about it with him, there's not much I can do other than going down there right now to get rid of this feeling.
I know it will pass, it usually does, but it's just a really strong one this time around. My pillow has been my hugging companion for the past few days yay

Truth be said, this is a good feeling, it means that you really do love him. I always say that if you can make it through long distance then you can make it through anything. I know it can suck, I was just in a long distance relationship (we broke up tho, guess it wasn't meant to be) and I felt this way too so it's normal, but the longer you both hold on the better those moments you're together will be. The feeling probably won't go away, I'm sorry but that's how it is. Messaging and skyping him is great, keep that up, laugh with him, simile with him, and the distance will seem shorter. You both must really be in love, stay in love and it will work out

[ProudHufflepuff]

Argh.
I really miss my boyfriend. We're long distance, so it's been a while since I actually saw him, as it's a lot of time and money to travel to see him. We message each other every day and usually skype every few days, which is good for us. I guess I'm at the down part of it all. I keep feeling sad and I just wanna go back to when we're hugging or kissing, or even just being near each other. I feel so upset and kinda that 'butterflies in my stomach' feeling. Kinda like you need/want to cry, but you know you won't. It sucks, because even when I talk about it with him, there's not much I can do other than going down there right now to get rid of this feeling.
I know it will pass, it usually does, but it's just a really strong one this time around. My pillow has been my hugging companion for the past few days yay

I know exactly how you feel, I'm in the same situation. It's hard I know, but stay strong, it will be worth it in the end. If you can make it through this, u can make it through anything. Feel free to pm me if u want to talk about it more I'm here for you

[chooch]

You don't have to reply I just have to let my feeling out.

Do I really suck at basketball? Matt what you said really hurt my feelings. I know your my brother but. You made me cry so much. What you said. "She is awful at basketball and people never pass the ball to you because of that." Do you mean that? *sigh* Then people rant about me too. I'm just crying right now. Dana You will be ok. breathe..

[~IronRose~]

You don't have to reply I just have to let my feeling out.

Do I really suck at basketball? Matt what you said really hurt my feelings. I know your my brother but. You made me cry so much. What you said. "She is awful at basketball and people never pass the ball to you because of that." Do you mean that? *sigh* Then people rant about me too. I'm just crying right now. Dana You will be ok. breathe..

It may have been out of a joking manner, my bother says that about me a video games. But even if it wasn't a joke, try not to feel bad about it, people can be mean, even family members. So do what you said, breathe... and stay calm. and you probably don't suck, I'm not half bad but when I played in p.e. no one rarely passed to me because I'm short and I'm a girl, so it's okay, it doesn't mean you're bad, you just haven't gotten the chance to prove yourself

[ProudHufflepuff]

I'm really scared right now...I have a ceiling fan light in my bedroom and both the fan part and the light are controlled by the switch. You switch it off, it turns completely off, whether it's just the light that was on, just the fan, or both....if it's on and u wanna turn just the light or just the fan off u have to pull the chain thingy....I'm in bed and the fan was on and the light was off....I'm laying here and the light turned on....I heard the chain thing click when it turned on....no one else is in my room....no one else is even upstairs right now I'm really freaked out