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Postby The Furry Fandom » Fri Jul 10, 2015 9:29 am

The old evil mother of the boyfriend / mother-in-law who thinks no girl is ever good enough for her precious baby.
God I hate those, you have those women in any relationship. I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Honestly it doesn't surprise me at all that he believes his mom over you, especially since he sounds like the class A "mama's boy", and is very close to her. I don't think there is any hope to try to get her to stop being a tyrant, so what you need to work on his him. Honestly I don't think texts are very good proof, you'd need something more solid to show him her two faced personality.
Is there anyway to talk to his brother about telling him what happened with him and his ex-girl? Maybe listening to his own sibling would be a good start.

Something else too would be to sit and be completely open and have a heart to heart talk with him about this without his mother's influence. Try to explain the situation without actually making him think you're attacking his mom so he doesn't get threatening. Make him see that the relationship was fine before she intervened, and after she did it went downhill because she is talking behind both your backs. He loves his mom, and there isn't any shame in that so don't make her out to seem like a devil woman because in her mind she's protecting her little boys from being hurt like a dad would be over protective of his daughter. It's a parent thing, just some take it to extremes like what she's doing.

And, even though you love him, if he doesn't budge on any of this and continues to be a jerk because he believes his mom over anything else.. Then as much as I hate to say it you might need to let him go. It is never a good plan to give "It is me or your mom", because usually the person will choose family first especially if they believe the lying. It'll only end up hurting you worse off.

And if at all possible if you've the time and money I'd suggest couples counseling / therapy. You don't need to be engaged or married to do it at some places.

Good luck to you dear, I really hope things work out for the best.

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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Starfalling » Fri Jul 10, 2015 9:46 am

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I'm so nervous. I don't know whether to ask her while she's online and cause myself a panic attack asking her or to do the chicken thing and ask while she's online and have a panic attack waiting for an answer. yucuerggvyhcjrbugvhdskjbgyvde. Opinions? Talking to her in peron is out of thte question. 0.0 O.O

(I'm referring to talking to my best friend about whether or not we'll still be able to keep in touch when she graduates.)

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Lately I've been feeling sad and unmotivated. I don't want this to happen again. I remember how bad it was a few months ago when this happened. I didn't want to do anything or talk to anyone. What should I do?? I feel so helpless. I can't prevent it because I don't know what's causing it.

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Also my ear ache came back.-.- Any time but this week would have been fine but not now. I have wayy too much going on with my cousins while they're visiting that I can't enjoy if I have and earache. (e.g. Going to a water park.)

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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby CucumberRandy » Fri Jul 10, 2015 9:56 am

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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby The Legacy » Fri Jul 10, 2015 10:04 am

I just got braces.
They hurt SO bad, and they're only going to get worse, I know that because I only got my top braces on today, because I already have bottom braces.
My bottom braces have hurt so bad, that there are literally 4 sores on my lip, and my tops are even worse because my lip is more sensitive.
I'm also completely paranoid that I'm going to break one.
I can't eat anything except for extremely soft food, like soup and Mac n' cheese.
I can't even eat bread if it has a hard crust.

AAARRGGGH. I'm so stressed out right now!
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby farewell » Fri Jul 10, 2015 10:11 am

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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Kaidaft » Fri Jul 10, 2015 10:15 am

The Legacy wrote:
I just got braces.
They hurt SO bad, and they're only going to get worse, I know that because I only got my top braces on today, because I already have bottom braces.
My bottom braces have hurt so bad, that there are literally 4 sores on my lip, and my tops are even worse because my lip is more sensitive.
I'm also completely paranoid that I'm going to break one.
I can't eat anything except for extremely soft food, like soup and Mac n' cheese.
I can't even eat bread if it has a hard crust.

AAARRGGGH. I'm so stressed out right now!

It's okay, I have already had both of my braces, and you will get used to it. After a month or so, my pain was gone.

And when I had mine on, I did break a bracket or two. For me, it was okay. It's expected to happen.
(I actually broke 4 ;-;)
I have a retainer now, it's not the best thing ever, but in the end your smile will look beautiful!
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby master of spaz » Fri Jul 10, 2015 10:16 am

The Legacy wrote:
I just got braces.
They hurt SO bad, and they're only going to get worse, I know that because I only got my top braces on today, because I already have bottom braces.
My bottom braces have hurt so bad, that there are literally 4 sores on my lip, and my tops are even worse because my lip is more sensitive.
I'm also completely paranoid that I'm going to break one.
I can't eat anything except for extremely soft food, like soup and Mac n' cheese.
I can't even eat bread if it has a hard crust.

AAARRGGGH. I'm so stressed out right now!


Oh no! I'm getting braces soon and my friend also told me it sucks. :c

Did you at least get a pretty colour? (Just imagine how bad your tooth would hurt without braces later on in life. My dad tells me you get these horrible aches.)
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby serik » Fri Jul 10, 2015 10:19 am

The Legacy wrote:
I just got braces.
They hurt SO bad, and they're only going to get worse, I know that because I only got my top braces on today, because I already have bottom braces.
My bottom braces have hurt so bad, that there are literally 4 sores on my lip, and my tops are even worse because my lip is more sensitive.
I'm also completely paranoid that I'm going to break one.
I can't eat anything except for extremely soft food, like soup and Mac n' cheese.
I can't even eat bread if it has a hard crust.

AAARRGGGH. I'm so stressed out right now!

I've had braces before and you get so used to them you don't even know they're there. It may seem hard when you first get them and yes, they do hurt and ache but when you get them, time flies by seriously quickly and soon you'll be getting them off.

Don't worry if you break one, they're strong and don't really break easily, I've face planted the floor and broke my jaw, only one block came lose and luckily you don't have to pay if a block falls off.

I was super upset and angry when I found out what I wasn't aloud to eat but soon you get used to it and it becomes much more easier, anyway it all pays off at the end when you have beautiful straight pearly white teeth
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ProudHufflepuff » Fri Jul 10, 2015 10:40 am

ProudHufflepuff wrote:What am I doing with my life....I move out in a couple years and all I do all day every day is sit on my butt watching supernatural, scroll through tumblr and text my bf. there are things that I want to do but then I don't....I feel like I've gotten to be a better artist and I want to draw and when I actually get my stuff out I don't know what to do and then put it away again...or when I do start drawing it turns out awful and I give up. Same thing happens with other things....I wanna write a story or something, write a sentence and can't continue it.....wanna try to do my make up differently and fail once and give up....gotta write those letters to the supernatural people, take it out, don't know what to do
I avoid going places cause I'm afraid I'll see a "friend" and have to act like everything's great and I wanna talk to them even though they had treated me like garbage all year and I don't wanna be around them.
I'd go to my grandparents during the day and actually do stuff but one of the worst "friends" I have lives in that neighborhood. She's so judgy and rude and annoying but she told me before school ended she would ride her bike around the neighborhood and come see if I'm at my grandparents EVERY DAY. If she comes and asks me to hang out I can't say no....I don't want my family getting involved in my problems but if the think somethings going on they will get involved so I'm stuck with her if she finds me. She is the only reason I never go over there
I'm not even pretty....or talented...there is nothing about me that is special or worth mentioning....everyone at school except my awful friends, ignore me....I'm always invisible....unless it's when I actually wanna be invisible

I know it's long but I'm having problems....please help
My bf isn't answering me he's probably just busy but I really need someone right now
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby CucumberRandy » Fri Jul 10, 2015 12:21 pm

ProudHufflepuff wrote:
ProudHufflepuff wrote:What am I doing with my life....I move out in a couple years and all I do all day every day is sit on my butt watching supernatural, scroll through tumblr and text my bf. there are things that I want to do but then I don't....I feel like I've gotten to be a better artist and I want to draw and when I actually get my stuff out I don't know what to do and then put it away again...or when I do start drawing it turns out awful and I give up. Same thing happens with other things....I wanna write a story or something, write a sentence and can't continue it.....wanna try to do my make up differently and fail once and give up....gotta write those letters to the supernatural people, take it out, don't know what to do
I avoid going places cause I'm afraid I'll see a "friend" and have to act like everything's great and I wanna talk to them even though they had treated me like garbage all year and I don't wanna be around them.
I'd go to my grandparents during the day and actually do stuff but one of the worst "friends" I have lives in that neighborhood. She's so judgy and rude and annoying but she told me before school ended she would ride her bike around the neighborhood and come see if I'm at my grandparents EVERY DAY. If she comes and asks me to hang out I can't say no....I don't want my family getting involved in my problems but if the think somethings going on they will get involved so I'm stuck with her if she finds me. She is the only reason I never go over there
I'm not even pretty....or talented...there is nothing about me that is special or worth mentioning....everyone at school except my awful friends, ignore me....I'm always invisible....unless it's when I actually wanna be invisible

I know it's long but I'm having problems....please help
My bf isn't answering me he's probably just busy but I really need someone right now

Well, what I'd it that you LIKE to do? What is it that you want to do with your life?
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