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[neuroticism]

Theres this guy I really like but I dontknow if he likes me. I have little hints that he might like, staring at me in socials, smiling reallybig and playing with his nails when hes around me. Im too scared to talk to him though, what if he rejects me?! Hes really popular! Any advice ♡?

I would like to point out - EVERYONE is scared of rejection. It's human. You are neither special nor weak for having this concern. Girls often expect guys to do all the work, partially because of societal expectations and partially so that they don't have to take the risk of being rejected (which is entirely unfair). Girls ARE allowed to make the first move! Guys ARE allowed to be shy, nervous, self conscious.

Also, you gave very little information so it's hard to say.
Ultimately, it's up to you. Have you ever even talked to him?
All you mention is looks. Try saying hi, asking a question,
noticing something in common. People assume they should
blurt out their feelings when really all you need to do is take a
small step in many cases. Start with being friendly and see
what happens.

thanks, and I have talked to him a lot actually hes super nice and everything. I can try to talkto him but all his friends are always around him. Sometimes hes a little braggy I dont kow if that'll chane anything though. Thank you sir for the advice and I totally understand your point

[greysilence]

oh good i have a crush on one of my same-sex friends.
I know that they're pan, but idk if they know that I'm bi.
how do I know if theyre interested in me?

It's generally the same way to tell if anyone is interested in you. Just notice their body language and how they act and speak around you. You could also talk to them about the situation, letting them know you're orientation. They wouldn't judge you I'm sure. It could open a new door.

[Mako.]

Well, I finished admitting to the last of my friends that all of my crushes were faked :'D (Reason why I faked them was I felt left out when my friends talked about their crushes so I would just say I liked a good guy-friend of mine. It worked up until I came out c:)

Butttt dilemma is I might have a real "crush" on my best friend ever. Only one of my friends know, and she ships us. No advice needed, but wanted to get that out c:

edit;; Actually, I may need advice. This may be the very first time I've had romantic feelings for someone, how can I tell that this is a sure thing?

[girl with wifi]

okay so I have this boy in my Spanish class
and I guess we'll call him 4 [not his name].
well I really like him and I know nothing.
I have never talked to him besides during
Spanish when we had to work together.
I really want to talk to him but I don't know
what to make it about. If anyone has any
ideas please PM me.

[Jaaay]

I'm really lost. I've been talking to my ex a lot and hanging out with him.. He's been telling me he loves me etc, acting like we never broke up. Yet he says it will be another month before he wants to be in a relationship with me... --And then there is this really nice guy who really wants to be with me, he really likes me and he's really nice... I'm just not interested in him and I don't want to date him... I just don't know what to tell him... I don't want to hurt him.. I told him I'd be friends with him, but he wants to be more than that...

It seems like he's just stringing you along...it's like, he wants to act like you guys never broke up, but still have the freedom of not being in a relationship.
For the second guy, tell him firmly and seriously your not interested. Make it very clear you just want to be friends and nothing more. And you have to be sure about it, don't give him hope where there is none.
(sorry if this comes out like i'm being short with you-I swear i'm not)

So they nice guy found out I have been seeing my ex again and he said not to speak to him again... SO now I feel like crap.. And my ex, he just doesn't understand I don't want to wait another month for him, I really love him. But I don't want to wait...

[surfiez]

Can anyone figure out what certain dreams mean?
If so post here… I need help with mine viewtopic.php?f=5&t=2596382&p=82695625#p82695625

[【ichirin】]

Can anyone figure out what certain dreams mean?

What kind of dream did you have? I might be able to help out uvu

[surfiez]

^ it's posted earlier in the thread… about a page back, but it's also posted on my new thread : viewtopic.php?f=5&t=2596382&p=82695625#p82695625

[city of angels;]

Okay, I need some help.
So there's this boy in my English class that I've never spoken to. Ever. We made eye contact once or twice in first semester, but no interaction.
Well, last Tuesday we sit in class on the first day and he's on one side of the room and I'm on the other. Suddenly, I hear him talking loudly to his friends, "Megan? Yeah, Megan!" (That's my name). Surprised, I looked over at them and he was looking at me. It bothered me, but I dismissed it thinking there are plenty of Megan's and it could be a coincidence that he looked at me.
Today, however, I couldn't ignore what happened. We got assigned seats in English and I sit in the front. He sits two seats behind me. He was talking with his friends, behind me, after lunch and I kind of turned to see my friend (who sits next to him) better. He started pointing at someone, so I kind of looked up and he was pointing at me.
So I'm really confused. I don't like him...please help haha

[Phan;]

Please help!
I used to like my ex-bestfriend but now I don't. We sit together in French. Now we are just friends now, not bestfriends. We don't hate eachother. Although I do a little now. But anyway, she asked me who I liked and I told her, and she was like: "Oh." So I asked her what was wrong, and she said: "I was hoping you'd say you liked me.. cause I like you." So I literally fell in a "Oh Hell" phase. I don't wanna friend zone her, but I don't have the same feelings. Thanks in advance.