by โลโ ยช_โ » Sun May 13, 2018 4:37 pm
Recently, I've been disgusted with myself, and not even in the physical way too. I feel distant from everything and everyone, and its starting to disturb me. My family; my mom has been busy working for as long as I remember. Any days off, she spends them working too, or going on short vacations with friends/coworkers. If I'm lucky, I'll only see her for 2 hours a week, and we don't even talk. My dad is always home by 4pm, but he's never around. He spends his time far away from home doing who knows what or holing up inside his room. My older sister; school, homework, friends. We spend at least 7 hours a day back then, sitting next to each other, working on projects, drawing, listening to music, and we don't talk. No one in my family talks, unless you count the grandma I can't communicate with because I can't speak my native language. We all live in a small/medium sized house, but it always feels so mentally big. I feel so useless; I can't reach out when I need it; I hide it too well sometimes. The people I hang out with in school are distant from me too.
But sometimes, I just feel like an attention seeking freak. There's nothing special about me, and every time I'm alone, I feel as if I'm just a figment of someone's imagination. Sometimes, I think about what my close family's reaction to my death would be if I just up and disappeared. I can't bring myself to do it though. As distant as I am from everyone and everything, my sister is reaching out. And I love her for sheer determination, but I feel like I'm dragging her down with me. I wish I had the courage and trust to rely on others.
I complain about privacy a lot; I share a room with my cousin who immigrated here 2 years ago, my older sister who went to college this year, and my grandma. Yet despite that, I'm distant from everyone. I do nothing but disappoint their expectations, even the most basic of them. Maybe it's because I didn't have much of a childhood, but I can't remember anything during and before elementary school. I'm scared of my disappearing memory, of other people's thoughts on me. How stupid I must seem.
On my best days, I just blame everything on Asperger's Syndrome, even though I'm not completely certain that I have it. All the major signs are definitely here though.
Just a mini rant I guess?
Last edited by
Metallic Dragon on Sun May 13, 2018 7:57 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Reason: Watch your language please
Stop looking for the light. Live it instead.
Back from an extremely long hiatus caused by irl drama. Hoping to stay active.
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