Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[CaliDutchess]

Could anybody else help me on the whole A situation?
Oh, also, I talked to B about it last night around 12:30. I told him about how D said I should go out with A, and he said...

B: "You should if it makes you happy, Amanda. Hey, if you need anything like getting rid of those pesky exs, tell me and I'll get them for you."
Me: "I'm not sure what I want to do yet. I am starting to move on from you, though. And haha, thanks."
B: "Well yeah, as your unofficial bro I think you can do whatever you like."
Me: "Thanks. You know A better than I do, do you think I should give him a chance?"
B: "Go out with him, but if he does something stupid, sis, tell me and I'll knock the white out of him. Well, maybe if you do go out with him, just don't trust him too much. Just take it slow."
Me: "Ok, I'll think about it. It helps to know what you and D think since you know him well. He hasn't asked me out yet, but he's made it pretty obvious he likes me. And that's why you're my bro. "
That was pretty much the end of the meaningful part of the conversation. I really am starting to move on, but it's the talks like those that keep me loving him.

So anyways, based on all that went on with A yesterday, what do you all think I should do?

[mywashingtonromance]

I'm actually quite frustrated. I can't exactly tell my crush I love her, I mean she'd freak out. But, I see her often, since we're friends, and I can walk to her house.
But I'm really lovesick, and I have it bad!

[grim.]

@Audioslave- Thanks. I guess I am pretty lucky. That's so amazing to hear about you and J. You're lucky as well to have what sounds like a perfect boyfriend.
I think I might go out with A. I know I'd be happy with him. What do you all think I should do? (Feel free to ask more questions if you'd like. I really don't know what to do and I want the best advice possible.)

Yeah, he's great. he's funny and sweet, and just an all around great guy. I'm always, always smiling when I'm with him and when I'm around him I feel safe and protected and he's just awesome.

As for your boy problems... I'm actually agree with B you should give A a shot, and if it doesn't work out B will "knock the white outta him". But I also think you should take it slow, and get to know him a bit more.
Just my opinion, I've never been good with guys. Only got asked out twice.

[marimoon]

:( told stick. heres how it went after i tld him:
((S is stick, m is me))
S: ...

M: you okay?

S: ...

M: o.o

S: ...

so....yeah..im confsed.

[carlie♡]

I'm actually quite frustrated. I can't exactly tell my crush I love her, I mean she'd freak out. But, I see her often, since we're friends, and I can walk to her house.
But I'm really lovesick, and I have it bad!

How do you know that she'd freak out?

[marimoon]

I'm actually quite frustrated. I can't exactly tell my crush I love her, I mean she'd freak out. But, I see her often, since we're friends, and I can walk to her house.
But I'm really lovesick, and I have it bad!

I don't think you should...o.o it might ruin your friendship with her. Anyways, I think you should tell her when you think shes ready.

[greysilence]

Hmm...I finally have a crush I think. I havn't had one for a while. Bad thing is, I'm an eight grader, he's a freshman, and we live nowhere near each other. But we go to the same campground. He usually ignores me and calls me names. But sometimes it's different. One time he pet me. And then Saturday...he was actually nice to me. We were playing basketball, and he started tackling me and tickling me because I had the only ball that wasn't flat. And he actually asked me to play with them. Usually he tells me to leave. But I think he was just being nice because he was hanging out with my brother...and I was following them out of boredom...I just don't know if I should keep on liking him or not though. I know he would never ask me out, and it would be really awkward if I asked him. And...uh...I'm really tiny and I look like I'm five years younger then I really am. And he thinks I'm ten. Because my brother thinks I'm only ten. Which is really sad. So please give me some advice!

[carlie♡]

Hmm...I finally have a crush I think. I havn't had one for a while. Bad thing is, I'm an eight grader, he's a freshman, and we live nowhere near each other. But we go to the same campground. He usually ignores me and calls me names. But sometimes it's different. One time he pet me. And then Saturday...he was actually nice to me. We were playing basketball, and he started tackling me and tickling me because I had the only ball that wasn't flat. And he actually asked me to play with them. Usually he tells me to leave. But I think he was just being nice because he was hanging out with my brother...and I was following them out of boredom...I just don't know if I should keep on liking him or not though. I know he would never ask me out, and it would be really awkward if I asked him. And...uh...I'm really tiny and I look like I'm five years younger then I really am. And he thinks I'm ten. Because my brother thinks I'm only ten. Which is really sad. So please give me some advice!

First off, I think you should make it clear to him your NOT, in fact, 10 XD
But honestly if he was mean to you before, and is sometimes mean to you, sometimes not, thats badd.
I think you should just forget about it if you know he doesn't like, or wouldn't date you.
Or, on the other hand, you could try harder, hang around with more, and flirt. To see if maybe he is ineterested.

[greysilence]

Ah, well his friend, let's call him N, is a year younger then me. So one day N told me to do something. I snapped back, "Yes, because I'mg going to take orders from someone younger then me. That makes so much sense." My crush, let's call him M, laughed. So he obviously heard, and he should know then that I'm not ten. And we had a good time this weekend, so maybe he's warming up to me finally. I just realized I liked him this weekend when we were playing around.

EDIT: At least, I had a good time this weekend. I don't know if he did or not. I was a little crabby when we hung out though because...I had just started something...Not in the mood to give details right now.

EDIT AGAIN: And then while we were playing a different game, he was singing some odd song about me. But he did that with everyone playing, so I don't think it meant everything. And he said, "I want to stay a little girl forever." So he thinks I'm a little girl apparently. *sighs* He is so confusing.

[catpaw19]

Soo...I used to like a boy named Vincent who was crazy about me,so we dated and all. But I dumped him. But he still likes me, and I like him, but he likes me in a romantic way,and I only like him in a friends way. Is it bad to stay friends with him? Or is it okay for me to be "just friends" with him for awhile?

And the other boy, I liked like 2 years ago, Kevin, we dated like 1 year ago, and he dumped me, but I know why. I was a terrible girlfriend. I acted different. I acted wierd. And I didn't give him enough attention. I feel bad. And its really wierd cause after he dumped me I didn't really think about him too much, but now its several months later, and he is on my mind all of a sudden. I keep having dreams not really about him, but he is in them and he is always super nice in my dreams. I think I might like him again.

Hi there, this is from a few pages back(pg.8) and I quoted it, and heres an update:
Last night, I had a dream and Vincent was in it. Before I continue,you must know that my dreams are based on reality, but are actually quite far from the truth. Often times when I wake up, I feel the way I did in my dream, and that feeling continues for a couple of days, before I remember its not true. So, in my dream, it was the first day of school, and I finally saw Vincent again(I haven't seen him all summer), and I was so excited. Then the bell rang, and hall was very packed(like extremely packed, unrealistically packed) and so I grabbed his hand while he was getting pushed away, and we did the "look deeply into eachothers' eyes" thingy thats in movies, and I said "I missed you". It was all very dramatic, cheesy, and chick-flick movie(or soap oprah) style. I don't know if I really like him in real life, or just in my dream world! =]