Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Nimble Awesomeness]

Hey guys, I'm really sorry I haven't been posting and helping. :c But I have this huge post with all your guys' problems that you need help with, so here it is. :) (So there will be stuff from a few pages ago)

That did sound like an awesome day!

Okay, I have a problem. So, at the beginning of the year, I liked this guy that I'll call M. Then I liked this other guy, about 2 months later that I'll call C. And then there was a little time when I thought all guys were idiots(Sorry if I offended anyone) and then I started liking M again. That lasted for about 2 weeks. Then there was another period of time when I though guys were all losers, and then I liked a guy in my class that I'll call D. This is where I need help. I started to like M again. My ever-lasting crush cycle always goes back to M. I don't want to tell him or anyone, not even my best friend, because she seriously threw a party when I thought guys were all losers, and she said "Because I was getting over M". If I tell her, I believe she'll freak, and I don't know what to do.
Help?

Your happiness is worth more than your friends is. Go for M. You obviously really like him. If you're going to lose your friend over it, reconsider, but if she can put up with him, just go for it. If you keep cycling through guys and you always end up at him, I think you need to give him a shot.

I think it's funny how the guy I like NEVER says anything at our church whatsoever. He always does little replies on Facebook, but whenever he's around me and people he knows he's himself, and he'll actually talk... :)

P.s. we got to spend the entire day together Tuesday and it was fun :) (I Wrote a HUGE long thing about what we did on the last thread but I got self conscious about my brother reading my stuff so I edited it out... He looks through everything of mine :( I hate it) If you want, I'll retype it though :)

OHh honey, I know just how you feel. It's the same with J. Most the time, all I get out of him through text is "Lol:-)" or ":-)" or some really short response. So. Short. ;n; It's hard to work with, but I make it work. At least we talk IRL, right? WE'LL STICK TOGETHER LAZY, WE CAN WORK THROUGH THIS. <3 Ahaha

Squiddy, I must check those out tonight :D

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KEY =
Me - Me
Owen - Crush
Brett - Crush, very good friend
Hailey - Best friend

I think these guys like me... And I like both of them.
I haven't checked out the vid Squid's posted yet, but me, Owen, Brett, and Hailey were talking in a little circle (Owen facing me, Brett facing Hailey, Me facing Owen, Hailey facing Brett, etc etc) and both Owen and Brett, whether talking to me or not, wouldn't stop staring at me. And they always either had a delayed answer when I asked questions, or kept on staring at me and were lost for words.

Any help?

Well, from what I can tell, yeah, they like you. A lot of people say that a guy will face his feet if he wants you, but I never really got that. xD But if they were facing you and staring at you, yeah. If they're leaning into you a lot and coming up with pointless reasons to touch you (in any way, like a tap on the shoulder even) then they like you for sure. J and I will whack each other gently all the time, simply because we can. LOL. But yes, they like you. Have fun with them, and good luck! ;)

How to tell if a guy likes you.
How to tell if a girl likes you.
How to get a guy to like you.
How to get girls to like you.

YOU ARE A GENIUS SQUIDDY! THANK YOU FOR POSTING THAT!
YOU HAVE MY RESPECT!
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Hey guys, this is a comment, but I'd much appreciate it if you could help me out on this one.
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First, if you want to know about my love life, click here and type UFO into the search box. - BTW I dumped Dragon, it's been a month.
I know that's alot of info. But if you can help me out that would be very useful to read.
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But anyways: I still like UFO (but he sadly has a gf). And now I like this guy, I'll just call him birdie for now,

Here's a bit about him:
He's year 12 (I'm year 10). Therefore he's 16, and I'm 14 - but I turn 15 before he turns 17!

He plays the guitar, and he said he'd bring it to school one time and play for me
And teach me a 'lil too.
Apparently he sucks at reading and writing. Writing essays too (failed every single one =/).
But on the plus side he can write his own music. 1 is finished - still working on 3. 2 are songs he sings when drunk at parties. 2 are really deep emotional songs.
Prefers to write on stuff - not play other guitarists music.
Been practicing guitar for 5 years (knows a bit of bass).

He's weird. Creeper weird. But he's joking when he does it. Kinda like me. I do this weirdness test on my friends where I first go: 'Hey.' And slide next to them. Repeat the Hey, arm around shoulders. Hey, hug. Hey, up close. Hey, leg under bum. Hey, arm from shoulders now on head. Hey, basically kissing them. IT'S REALLY FUNNY. Anywhom. He's done weirder: On his first encounter with somebody he asked the chick 'Do you like dinosaurs?!' In a Sorry if this is offensive, I'll bleep it out incase R3%@RD voice and when she didn't reply he followed her around for 10 seconds, and she screamed.

He sadly has another problem that I just cannot share. Because it's too personal.

He's not that great with grammar, though he is good at spelling, well better than me.
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I want to tell him I like him, and I've asked three friends:
N - she said "Maybe you should wait, see if it's a lust crush. If it is don't tell."
Moony - "Improve his grammar and perhaps take out the - and getting drunk at parties and I like this guy! You have biffle approval ;) :lol: "
S - She likes him aswell, but also said watch out if it's a lust crush. Tbh, I can barely remember his face! I'm looking at him in the yearbook, and going I don't think that's him!
Conclusion: 2 approvals, and a maybe. So, do you think I should tell him?

Pros

Cons

~ Musician (can serenade me???)

~ Age =/

~ Funny

~ Not that smart

~ Seems nice

~ Drinks

~ I don't like him for his looks (can barely remember), but I

~Initials are JM, now I know that sounds dumb, but I've had

like him because he's awesome.

some experience with JM's all of which have been @$$3$.

~ We've talked, and he basically told me he would not

~ If I do tell him, he might end up ignoring me. Like how one

pressure anyone into doing something they don't want

of the other JM's (monkeys) and cheese did.

to do.
~ We trust each other with pretty serious stuff, and
we've only really met face to face 4 times ...

I'll tell you guys a 'lil more about birdie in my next post.
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Wilder, I think you should have said that you like him. I know it's pretty hard telling someone you like them but just try this out:
Next time you see him at break or even in class, ask for a minute. And say "remember when you asked me if I like somebody?" He could nod. and you say "Well, I kinda lied there, sorry. I like you."
I know ow rejection feels, and it's a horrible feeling. But seriously. You have friends, and family to support you.
If you like you could have a friend just hovering by you, while telling him you actually like him too.

Ahaha, you made a pro and con list! 8D People do listen to me! *dies of happiness*

Anyways, hmm... It sounds to me like...crap. I'm pretty much just as torn as you are.

Well, first of all, I think you need to really think about this. You have to DEEPLY consider the fact that he drinks, as I think this is probably the most serious issue. Since he's only 16, there's the fact that it's illegal. (Unless you're in the UK, then I THINK the age is 16. But I have no clue. *Don't wanna be an American idiot*) Plus, it's really dangerous. At your age, (Ha, feel so old. See, it's funny because we're the same age.) you shouldn't be worrying over your boyfriend going out and getting drunk, or going over to take care of him when he's hungover. Seriously, you shouldn't. My motto is that if you ever say "I can change him!", "You don't know him the way I do," or "You don't understand him!" about a guy, he isn't worth it. Wouldn't drinking be something you want to change? You shouldn't have to baby your boyfriend, esp. considering that he's two years older than you. (But really, I wouldn't worry about age here, that's not the problem. J is also two years older than me, so I know exactly how you feel. ^.^)

This is just something you need to heavily consider. Is him being a musician and being super hot worth you putting up with his drinking and partying? Is it worth all the stress? Plus, I doubt your parents would be all to happy with you dating a guy who drinks. (Plus, the thing you don't want to share which I am guessing.)

But this is just me. This is about you. I say sleep on it, just really think about things. Mull it over. You've got lots of time to work things out, you really do. Plus, if he doesn't want to wait, then the decision is made for you. He's not worth it if he doesn't feel the same. (But the not going to force you into anything is a plus) I really hope that this helps you, and good luck in choosing the right thing.

Again, sorry for taking FOREVER to respond to you all, I feel awful. :/

So, I have a crush on this really cute guy, J, and I think he had a crush in me. Hence the had. Last year he got a girlfriend who totally doesn't deserve him. She hates me and talks about me behind my back. They've been spending less and less time together. Does this mean anything? HELP!!!

Well, can't be too good of news for them, but it's great news for you! :D xD Yeah, they're probably growing apart. It might just be a phase, but who knows, it might be a phase that ends in a breakup. It's too early to tell at this point.

Everyone, wish me luck with C and G...I think I'm falling for G, but not sure x) (this applied to people who have read my past 2 stories ;))

Good luck! :D I'm happy for you! Though I'm sure C isn't too happy... You did mention he hasn't texted you yet. Then again, I did tell you to just choose one because no matter what the other is bound to be jealous. Siblings, ya know? Anyways, I am glad it worked out with one of them. :)

LOL AMOUR NICE SIG THATS SOMETHING RIGHT THERE I TELL YA!
I'm in a sarcastic mood--- but really, very suiting siggeh

I have to tell D that I have 4 MORE DAYS LEFT. 4. Yes FOUR!! I don't want that.. I might never see him until I'm old enough to live on my own!!! I will do whatever I can to keep up our relationship.

Sorry, I'm a derp. 4 more days till what again? x.x *forgot* I'm sorry, I feel really bad now.

I gave one of my crushes, O, a bracelet out of my like, 16 because he was nagging me for one the whole time in a class presentation, when his class joined mine for the presentation.

And it makes me really glad to see that he's been wearing it every day since I gave it to him and suddenly refuses to take it off. Not sure why he likes it so much, it says tattle tale on it XD

Ever since I got my haircut and such, O has been... more attracted to me, you may say? I used to be the one staring at him- I know, it's creepy- but now he's the one staring at me?
What do you guys think this means?

All it means is he has a huge crush on you now. xD Chill out, it's not a problem at all. If you like him, it's totally fine. (BTW, it's not creepy. If you've got a crush on someone it's natural for you to stare at them. The same with name dropping. When you're talking to your crush, say their name a lot. It shows you care and your attraction to them in a very subtle way.)

A has been ignoring me lately. I don't know what he's up to but it's really ticking me off. One week he's talking to me, then the next he's ignoring me every chance he gets. (we're not dating but we ALWAYS talk to eachother). I haven't done anything to upset him, so I don't get whats going on. Usually we get along really well and can talk forever. He used to always text me every chance he got, now he's acting like he wants nothing to do with me. Well, come to think of it, he could be mad at me for talking to this guy who is my partner in science class. We talk alot. He's sweet, but he's more of a friend. Of course, A sits right behind us and see everything that happens. Maybe that could be it?

Help please?

Yeah, that sounds about right. Just talk to him about it; jealousy is a gentle, fragile subject, and needs to be handled as such. Face to face confrontation is the only way to go. But don't think of it as confrontation, think of it as assurance. No, in fact, it is assurance. Just talk to him and make it clear that nothing is going on between you and your science partner. Don't accuse him of being jealous, just confirm to him that you're not starting to like the other guy. It'll go fine, just make him feel like he can trust you again. His trust in you might be a bit broken, as he thinks you like Science Guy. this can be mended though, so don't lose hope. I wish you the best of luck, and don't worry, it'll go fine! :)

I think Im starting to like my only guy friend. Help?

I fail to see the problem here. Is it because you're afraid you would lose him as a friend if he found out, or you just don't want things to get awkward?

I have a crush on a guy thats leaving next school year, and i am terrified to tell him, what should i do? Should i wait? I know the saying "When words fail, song prevails" so maybe i could write a song? I will keep him and me anonymous, every time i see him with another girl, hanging out with them, i die a little inside, its killing me to see that

Don't don't don't write a song. You only do that if you're trying to win them back after a fight or if it's after the third date. See, if you write him a song, it makes rejection 10 times more awful than it could be. If he says yes, sure, that's great. But if he doesn't, it's public humiliation and teasing for ages to come. If he's going to leave next year, jump on the chance and tell him now. Use my tips on the front page in the FAQ (bottom of page) and those should help you in asking him out. Or at least telling him how you feel. :) I hope this helps, good luck!

I just found out a guy likes me. but i like a diffrent guy. I was woundering about what i should do.

HELP!!!!!!

*Groan* Been there done that. Sorry hun, unless he's bothering you, I would just leave it for now. Not much you can do unless you want to be a bit of a jerk. If it's worse than just, "He likes me but isn't actively pursuing me" ask again with details on what he's doing, but otherwise just leave him be. If he starts to bug you, come back here. Gook luck. You need it. >.<

Anyways, I have a small update on J and I. c8 I saw him tonight. Hot dang. Earlier he texted me that he just got his pink dress shirt for the ball. I melted. I just freaken melted. I was pretty much flipping out, not being able to contain my feels at all. And then I realized that now I know what color he's wearing to the ball, I can pick out the fabric for my dress so that we'll match at the ball. "Accidentally". Bwahahahaha. Then when I saw him later I was such a hopeless flirt. x) We were whacking each other with rulers and not helping with the scrapbook at all. It was awesome.

So you know how I refuse to say I love someone until it's been at least 4 months of having a crush on them? KSrgkrjbgirbg I don't want to be reasonable. I want to say I'm in love naow. But nope. I will remain a reasonable rock. I won't say I'm in love. *Hums song* But yeah, I was drooling over him, and we're so into each other I can't stand it. x.x You guys have no idea how much it's killing me that I can't date. Neither can he. FML. *Dies*

Oh yeah, and now I won't see him for like, three weeks. (Unless I see him next week, lol.) Blaarrggg, guise, cannot contain my feels of wanting to date him. Sooooo haarrrrddd.... *Eats chocolate ice cream and listens to love songs while being really sadface*

[Malédiction]

That did sound like an awesome day!

Okay, I have a problem. So, at the beginning of the year, I liked this guy that I'll call M. Then I liked this other guy, about 2 months later that I'll call C. And then there was a little time when I thought all guys were idiots(Sorry if I offended anyone) and then I started liking M again. That lasted for about 2 weeks. Then there was another period of time when I though guys were all losers, and then I liked a guy in my class that I'll call D. This is where I need help. I started to like M again. My ever-lasting crush cycle always goes back to M. I don't want to tell him or anyone, not even my best friend, because she seriously threw a party when I thought guys were all losers, and she said "Because I was getting over M". If I tell her, I believe she'll freak, and I don't know what to do.
Help?

Your happiness is worth more than your friends is. Go for M. You obviously really like him. If you're going to lose your friend over it, reconsider, but if she can put up with him, just go for it. If you keep cycling through guys and you always end up at him, I think you need to give him a shot.

Okay. Thank you!

[c h r i s t m a s]

I want my crush to ask me out.... so bad.
Background story-
My and Z have been friemds for the whole year and I told him I have a crush on him and he didnt really care but him and this girl 'A' have gone out at least 5 times this year and I hate her so much. He can act like a jerk or he can be nice and sweet. We talk a lot and on friday when I was going home he finally said "Bye L!" And he was staring at me! I dont know though..... I wish we can be together so bad. D:

News-
Z was a jerk to me after talking to A... I fell like I love him but I want to completly hate him. I cant its to hard sometimes I fell like dieing because he makes me fell bad about everything I do thats not riight. I cant live with him doing this to me. I wish I could stop liking him but I cant. Ive tried so hard. D:

Any advice?

[Clarrissa]

This might sound stupid, but have you heard his full side of the story? Did it happen recently, when you two were going out, or before you started going out?

Hung out with my crush again last night and seeing him later today (Really, I seem him basically every day) Last night we were joking around and he tickled my foot so I hit him on the arm then he hit me back and we did that a couple times then I went to hit him again in the arm after he hit me and he jumped out of his chair so I missed, he walked back toward me saying "missed me, missed me, now you gotta kiss me!" making the "kissy face" (Everyone knows what that is I think) and walking toward me but stopped a few feet away and we were all cracking up, it was another great night

Yeah it happened last week He said he wants to get back together with me and i was like 'yeaah right'

[Kecko]

This might sound stupid, but have you heard his full side of the story? Did it happen recently, when you two were going out, or before you started going out?

Hung out with my crush again last night and seeing him later today (Really, I seem him basically every day) Last night we were joking around and he tickled my foot so I hit him on the arm then he hit me back and we did that a couple times then I went to hit him again in the arm after he hit me and he jumped out of his chair so I missed, he walked back toward me saying "missed me, missed me, now you gotta kiss me!" making the "kissy face" (Everyone knows what that is I think) and walking toward me but stopped a few feet away and we were all cracking up, it was another great night

Yeah it happened last week He said he wants to get back together with me and i was like 'yeaah right'

Oh I'm sorry! Hope everything works out, if not with him then theirs a better guy for you to meet!

[KoolAid&Cyanide]

I guess Darren hasn't completely forgot about me, because he stole his mom's phone yesterday and texted me. We didn't really talk, though, but it was nice to hear from him. Although this probably means he's with his mom for the week, which means he's in the city, which means it would be pointless to invite him to Hunger Games tomorrow, which was something I was really looking forward to. Too bad. But I'll see him in not too long, once we're back at school.

[Clarrissa]

This might sound stupid, but have you heard his full side of the story? Did it happen recently, when you two were going out, or before you started going out?

Hung out with my crush again last night and seeing him later today (Really, I seem him basically every day) Last night we were joking around and he tickled my foot so I hit him on the arm then he hit me back and we did that a couple times then I went to hit him again in the arm after he hit me and he jumped out of his chair so I missed, he walked back toward me saying "missed me, missed me, now you gotta kiss me!" making the "kissy face" (Everyone knows what that is I think) and walking toward me but stopped a few feet away and we were all cracking up, it was another great night

Yeah it happened last week He said he wants to get back together with me and i was like 'yeaah right'

Oh I'm sorry! Hope everything works out, if not with him then theirs a better guy for you to meet!

Thanks This other boy asked me out yesterday and I'm thinking of accepting. I don't know what to do about my ex, because another boy kissed me when we were going out together, but I didn't tell him. I still feel really bad about that 'cause, in a way we both cheated on eachother.

[bluejeans]

I have a crush on this guy, I'll call him T.

Me and T have been chatting over FB for months. He's friends with my bestfriend Zoe, and she introduced us over FB. We talk a lot, usually every two days at least. We have a lot in common, like we both love cats. We got FB married in January, just as a joke really. Ever since he refers to me as "beautiful", and "his love". It was only around this time that I realised that I like him. I was nervous about telling Zoe, her and T had gone out for a few days back in November. When I eventually told her, all she could say was "N'awwwh". She thought it was so cute. She thinks he likes me back, she even texted him to ask. He just replied that he had never meet me in real life.

We have never met in person, he lives kinda far away. So I don't know, am I wasting my time liking him?

[msshadow97]

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I am the happiest girl alive with G. He is the sweetest. We hug every morning and walk to every class together:)) Im so happy.