Shallan wrote:A person messaged me on another site.
They are yelling at me and telling me I don't really have cancer and I'm just trying to be greedy.
I'm not asking for gifts. I'm not asking for sympathy.
I'm literally putting that on my profile so that people know I'm not being rude.
I don't know. I'm just so done.
And afraid to lose my hair.
Aw hon, that's terrible and very ignorant of the person who did so. I believe you, I do, and said person is really not thinking of how the other end would react to this. Shameful. I'm sure you just want to give everyone a heads up on what's going on. They are being ignorant. Whoever said ignorance was strength, I'd give my front teeth to interview him. See, what they say doesn't affect them, so they can just blabber on, just the person who listens gets hurt, shocked or feels the emotions (good or bad). So don't. You know what you know, and what's he/she gonna do to you in real life? Nothing. They can be rude, but that's the best job they can do to get under your skin.
Speedpaint wrote:This place is awesome! I wish I had found it before! I need to get a few things out.
I want to start wearing makeup but everytime one of my family tries to put some on me I start freaking out because I don't want then to make a big deal out of it. I've been so against it for so long that I'm afraid my friends will laugh at me or make a big deal out of it...
And I used to have a crush on this guy but now I have a boyfriend but I can't tell my friends about it and they keep bringing him up assuming I still like him and it's so hard I don't want to lie to my friends but I have to and ugh...
Sorry, just had to let that out. You guys are awesome!
Maybe try just applying makeup by yourself without help, with something harmless like mascara or lip balm? And if your family make a big deal out of it in gushing terms, remember they're just realizing your coming out of your little nest. If they make a big deal negatively, it's always okay to wait until you move out of the house, or until they feel you should not be worrying about looks over books.
But if you're stilling living with family. Books over looks. You'll always be beautiful, but intelligence doesn't stay long if you neglect.
And about your boyfriend; if you're friends still make a deal about the guy, and you just want to forget him, it may not be nice, but if it were me, I'd get all, "That was because... Now that he's got that ... Kind of haircut... I dunno.... He's not as cute as before sooo ...."
Or
"I thought he was my kind of guy at first... But now I dunno... I realize he's kinda not my type."
XD to be honest here
