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[Shin Kuroi]

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[Sapphirescript]

Growing up can be hard. You feel like everyone is on your back, your body is changing dramatically, and everything is expected of you, but really, it is not. Your mother just seems like she is trying to help you succeed, as would any good mother. If she didn't care for you, she would let you play all day, and would not care if you cheated, or made C's. She wants you to make A's and B's because she knows that can influence your success in the future. Come ninth grade, all your grades count for college.

So, my advice is this: toughen up a bit. Yes, it will be hard, and the standards are set high. Do what you can to meet those standards. Sure, you may not meet all of them, but when your parents see that you are in fact trying, they may loosen up on you. Try and take responsibility;like you could do your homework before you go onto fun sites like Chicken Smoothie. Set goals for yourself, and instead of blowing them off, work to meet them. They don't have to be dramatic at first, but they can build so you can get better and better at life skills. The skills and habits you build now will stick with you for the rest of your life. Make them good habits. ^-^

As for your brother, you are not him. Period. Kids are all different, and I can tell you for certain that I am not my brother either. My brother was a 4.0 student, and took lots of AP classes. I, on the other hand, am artistic and more laid back. I am not as caring about my grades, yet I still do fairly well. So, the point is, is that you are not your brother, and if you can't be like him, then don't try. It is more than frustrating to set goals you can't meet. So again, set them low at first, then build up from there. Establish those good habits ^-^

Does that help Tasha? ^-^

Edit: As for your last part about being Christian and not being able to have fun like that, all I can say is I find that ridiculous >=[ You can be a Christian and still have lesbian friends, be into dragons and magic and what-not. God is not going to hate you and smite you and send you to hell if you like that stuff. *sigh* But what your parents say is law for you hun. When you grow up and are able to get your own house, you can make the rules, and you can choose what to allow in the household. But for now, your parents don't approve of that, and no form of not liking those rules will make them go away. However, I do suggest you talk to them about it. Tell them what you feel about it. Communication is always a good thing, even if it is awkward ^-^.

Thank you!
ITs still hard, I can't seem to focas well nor retain the infromation I actully finished bible and now on science but sciencce is my weakest point.

And I know this sounds stupid but I am addicted to this site. Its is VERY hard to not log on here. But everyday I seem to get abit farther away from it so mabye I can fully quit.

And I hate to say it but you can't say one thing and do another. So I can't be into magic and belive in God. It dosn't make sence. Because they are againts the other. My parents catch me watching Naruto I'm done for. But I love watching it. ITs the highlight of my day! (I can only watch at night)

[Dragonspirit]

You are both very welcome ^-^

And I hate to say it but you can't say one thing and do another. So I can't be into magic and belive in God. It dosn't make sence. Because they are againts the other. My parents catch me watching Naruto I'm done for. But I love watching it. ITs the highlight of my day! (I can only watch at night)

As for this, I don't see God telling you in the bible that you can't watch Naruto You can enjoy those things, just don't let them rule your life. Liking Harry Potter, or thinking about magic is not going to make you a sinner or send you to hell x3 *pats*

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[omori]

Amanda!! *Hugglez*
I missed choo! ^^
Welcomes back!

[thisaccountisgone]

I need a little advice still xD

My friend, lets call her A. Her boyfriend, lets call him J. Me and A were talking and J is always flirting with me! And they have broken up 3 times and gone out 3 times, shes so sad that he is flirting with me (and I am taken) she is suicidal! I keep on telling her that she deserves better and she does, but I am so worried about her! what do I do?!

[Dragonspirit]

I need a little advice still xD

My friend, lets call her A. Her boyfriend, lets call him J. Me and A were talking and J is always flirting with me! And they have broken up 3 times and gone out 3 times, shes so sad that he is flirting with me (and I am taken) she is suicidal! I keep on telling her that she deserves better and she does, but I am so worried about her! what do I do?!

hey Candie! ^-^

Well, for starters I would act bored if he started to flirt... But that is just me, and you don't have to do that XDD. I mean, you are taken, and he is supposed to be her boyfriend. Boyfriends don't flirt with other girls. or, the good ones at least >_O

So I suggest that you tell him to stop his flirting. Also, give your friend love and support, since it seems that is what she needs. Her boyfriend seems to not like her enough to realize she needs someone, so you can fill in that gap. Tell her that it is not the end of the world if something goes wrong. Kids tend to overreact, especially when it comes to boyfriends/girlfriends. If you feel that she really is going to do self harm, then tell a trusted adult or parent.

Hmm, not my best advice, but I still hope it helps ^-^ I will add some more if you want me to......

[omori]

Heyy Candie! Sorry I couldn't reply sooner, been eating and in the chower (shower x3).

Anyways, Dragonspirit said something I was gonna say. xD The part about acting bored or uninterested. Or there's always the option of explaining to J that A really needs the support right now. I'd hate my boyfriend for flirting with another girl. Not that I've had one before, I haven't. x3
So you should probably listen to ^ that dude, Dragon, because they're too awesome at giving advice. x3