TheComfortCorner | v.6

[sa-bel]

If someone wanted to talk to me through pm that would be great, please?

[bowiee]

if you dont like petty things
i suggest you leave this post right now
i may get a little carried away- so if im doing something wrong tell me.





okay
so
this has to do with a friend; let's call her friend A
so friend A has "phases" and these "phases" are "word phases" so basically, she says that word. in. every. single. sentence.
it's super annoying
and now she says "hun"
I MEAN HUN.
like, okay, kid im only like oh idk- 6 or 7 months younger than you. im not a 7 year old.
and so whenever i have a comment she disagrees with she ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS says "Good luck with that theory, hun." not just the word. but the whole sentence. and i triggers me. i want to yell in her face to be quiet before i blow my gasket.
today;
i was playing mineplex with her on minecraft and i teleported to her
she was playing a game; and i msged her sarcastically; "ur still playing this lame game? *sarcasm*"
and she swiftly replies: "just because u dont like doesnt mean i cant like it"
and i kinda got irritated and replied "jeez im not being rude or anything."
and i could tell she was getting on "triggered wolf mode"
and types "good luck with that theory, hun. CHILLAX."
and i know her irl so im thinking of not speaking to her ever
and so i typed a longish message to her, i forgot about it
and she kept calling me hun, and i swear, i was shaking of anger in my chair, i was about to explode
im thinking of breaking the friendship
she knows how annoyed i get when she treats me like a child and takes advantage of me being like 6 or 7 months younger
-.-
okay sry for ranting but im really irritated. ;-;

it also turns on my social anxiety/anxiety and BPD
i want to cry
but if i do she'll know that she's boss


one more thing:
she says "your not irritating me"
then she blocks me
wow okay
if u werent annoyed u wouldn't block me

the only way i can contact her now is on PM on CS and gmail.


sry again for ranting

[sleep token]

hmmmmm getting real tired of pinning for the same guy for 7/.5 years

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

[My Immortal]

if you dont like petty things
i suggest you leave this post right now
i may get a little carried away- so if im doing something wrong tell me.





okay
so
this has to do with a friend; let's call her friend A
so friend A has "phases" and these "phases" are "word phases" so basically, she says that word. in. every. single. sentence.
it's super annoying
and now she says "hun"
I MEAN HUN.
like, okay, kid im only like oh idk- 6 or 7 months younger than you. im not a 7 year old.
and so whenever i have a comment she disagrees with she ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS says "Good luck with that theory, hun." not just the word. but the whole sentence. and i triggers me. i want to yell in her face to be quiet before i blow my gasket.
today;
i was playing mineplex with her on minecraft and i teleported to her
she was playing a game; and i msged her sarcastically; "ur still playing this lame game? *sarcasm*"
and she swiftly replies: "just because u dont like doesnt mean i cant like it"
and i kinda got irritated and replied "jeez im not being rude or anything."
and i could tell she was getting on "triggered wolf mode"
and types "good luck with that theory, hun. CHILLAX."
and i know her irl so im thinking of not speaking to her ever
and so i typed a longish message to her, i forgot about it
and she kept calling me hun, and i swear, i was shaking of anger in my chair, i was about to explode
im thinking of breaking the friendship
she knows how annoyed i get when she treats me like a child and takes advantage of me being like 6 or 7 months younger
-.-
okay sry for ranting but im really irritated. ;-;

it also turns on my social anxiety/anxiety and BPD
i want to cry
but if i do she'll know that she's boss


one more thing:
she says "your not irritating me"
then she blocks me
wow okay
if u werent annoyed u wouldn't block me

the only way i can contact her now is on PM on CS and gmail.


sry again for ranting

Okay, I would suggest telling her that it really bugs you when she talks down to you and calls you hun and such. Just be honest. And if she doesn't listen, I would say maybe you should cut off the friendship

[amaoretto]

okay, this is a little more of that situation with that one guy who was guilt tripping me for a relationship... i sent him a message, i'll just put a small part of it here

"this whole thing, you talking about it, ----- talking about it, it's not good for my mental health, i am becoming stressed out 24/7 and i can't think straight. i am not ready for a relationship and it wouldn't work out anyways because we wouldn't connect with the soul and the mind. also because i don't have the same feelings, i won't ever and i'm sorry to say that, but it's true. i'm not the right one for you and that shouldn't lead to you doing these things to yourself. I am not worth these bad things, i am not worth pain and suffering, but what i am worth is my health and opinions."

was that too harsh or did that put out the right message?

[mellow.]

Stop saying my opinion will change. stop saying it's a phase. Its making me feel like my opinions are worthless and untrue. I don't wanna have kids. I dont want Wanna do the thing! Im sorryi don't like boys or girls right now I understand love but I'm just not like that! sstop saying I'm gonna find a man. WHAT ID I DON'T? Stop saying i'll have kids.WHAT IF I DON'T WANT TO? I'm not trying to go against my religion. please
I feel like
crap
usless
crap.

i don't like that topic either, don't worry. just because your opinion is different doesn't mean that you are useless and/or crap. you are worth more than anyone could say! c:
if you need to, you should step back a little, just forget about it for a little while.
don't stress yourself over it because that could make it worse.
anyway, i suggest you stop thinking about it. do whatever relaxes you and takes your mind off of things such as
watching videos, maybe watching your favorite show, reading a book, maybe watching a movie or drawing, writing, painting. just engage in any activity that is not so stressing. also, if the subject comes up, just say that you don't want to think about it right now and might want to talk about it in the future.
even if you think you won't want to, you never know. and if you don't, just say that you feel uncomfortable talking about that. i hope they understand!
good luck my friend <33

if you dont like petty things
i suggest you leave this post right now
i may get a little carried away- so if im doing something wrong tell me.





okay
so
this has to do with a friend; let's call her friend A
so friend A has "phases" and these "phases" are "word phases" so basically, she says that word. in. every. single. sentence.
it's super annoying
and now she says "hun"
I MEAN HUN.
like, okay, kid im only like oh idk- 6 or 7 months younger than you. im not a 7 year old.
and so whenever i have a comment she disagrees with she ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS says "Good luck with that theory, hun." not just the word. but the whole sentence. and i triggers me. i want to yell in her face to be quiet before i blow my gasket.
today;
i was playing mineplex with her on minecraft and i teleported to her
she was playing a game; and i msged her sarcastically; "ur still playing this lame game? *sarcasm*"
and she swiftly replies: "just because u dont like doesnt mean i cant like it"
and i kinda got irritated and replied "jeez im not being rude or anything."
and i could tell she was getting on "triggered wolf mode"
and types "good luck with that theory, hun. CHILLAX."
and i know her irl so im thinking of not speaking to her ever
and so i typed a longish message to her, i forgot about it
and she kept calling me hun, and i swear, i was shaking of anger in my chair, i was about to explode
im thinking of breaking the friendship
she knows how annoyed i get when she treats me like a child and takes advantage of me being like 6 or 7 months younger
-.-
okay sry for ranting but im really irritated. ;-;

it also turns on my social anxiety/anxiety and BPD
i want to cry
but if i do she'll know that she's boss


one more thing:
she says "your not irritating me"
then she blocks me
wow okay
if u werent annoyed u wouldn't block me

the only way i can contact her now is on PM on CS and gmail.


sry again for ranting

we all rant some days, it's nice to get an anvil off of your chest.
also, i suggest you email (or PM) her, use any way to contact her and tell her how you feel!
if you don't like her saying that, tell her, but be kind as if she were a close friend.
something along the lines of
"hey, you've been saying 'good luck with that theory, hun.' a bunch and that seriously irritates me. if you could please not say that sentence when speaking to me, that would be great!!", maybe?
if she replies rudely simply reply with something like "that is your opinion, i suppose we are all entitled to our own" and stop talking to her. push her out of your life by unfriending/following her on social media, making her a foe on CS and blocking her on Gmail. that is the simplest way possible to not have 'friends' like that in your life. don't forget to ignore her irl so she gets the memo and become friends with people you haven't met before, (if you can, with anxiety and all.) replace her in any way possible.
if you don't feel like making new friends, talk to the ones you already have and try to grow closer to them, you never know how much happiness they may bring!
(just a suggestion!)

but if she agrees to stop, do what you would like with the situation.
also, don't stress yourself over it! you'll be fine either way, and good luck my friend <33

[Ƈಎ႑ಎෆiႵƴ]

okay, this is a little more of that situation with that one guy who was guilt tripping me for a relationship... i sent him a message, i'll just put a small part of it here

"this whole thing, you talking about it, ----- talking about it, it's not good for my mental health, i am becoming stressed out 24/7 and i can't think straight. i am not ready for a relationship and it wouldn't work out anyways because we wouldn't connect with the soul and the mind. also because i don't have the same feelings, i won't ever and i'm sorry to say that, but it's true. i'm not the right one for you and that shouldn't lead to you doing these things to yourself. I am not worth these bad things, i am not worth pain and suffering, but what i am worth is my health and opinions."

was that too harsh or did that put out the right message?

I would think that was a little harsher than what could have been worded. But, you did make it clear of what point you were getting across. You did what was best for you and told nothing but the truth of how you felt. In that, I believe you have done no wrong for saying your opinion to him.

[onion]

my heart is gold and my hands are cold halsey says it better than i can

[cherubim]

all I really want is some reassurance that
I'm going to be okay. That I'll get better. But both
of those hopes seem farfetched now.
I honestly don't think I can go on like this
I've given up

[FireOmens]

I feel so nervous about this French exam today.
It's my weakest subject. I hardly know much and our teacher only
let us know short notice whereas the other four exams we have,
we've known about since September.
I just feel as if I'm not going to do good on it, even with the fact
that I have studied as much as I can. But with four other exams
to study for, it's been crazy.
I just feel like giving up right now before it even starts. There's
just too much to remember.
I need all the luck I can get.