Lucylululu66 wrote:I've tried talking with P, but she storms off. Pushy much? J, is the popular one that people always want to play with. P is always saying "I wont be your friend if you wont play with me!" to J.
I've talked to J, and she says that she LETS, P hang onto her! I know she means it, because they were hanging around me coping what I was saying and chasing me! Not a good day -.-
Don't play with her then, if she threatens something like that just continue what you're doing. She can either join you or not.
Not sure I really like J's attitude on that one... but that's an entirely different matter. With copying, copy them back or ignore it, they just want to bug you.
Lucylululu66 wrote:P punched me before, but we are still friends. If I say something that offends her. She punchs me.
Even me and J try and get away from her at playtimes. We hide in the toliets. I've sorted the name-calling thing, and P stopped it. She said sorry in a not so sorry voice. I dont think she means it.
Both of my friends, and myself, have a tendency to hit each other and other such things... as jokes of course... so P may not actually mean to hurt you plus, if you're saying offensive things, it's bound to come back at you.
I don't approve of avoiding her, it can actually be quite hurtful. How would you feel if two people you consider friends ditched you and hid to get away from you? I know I'd feel horrible about myself. If you both really have such a problem with her, then
both you and J need to talk to her about her behaviour and that if she continues being that way toward her you will not be her friend anymore.
From the sounds of it, she shouldn't really feel sorry. Both sides are at fault here. In my opinion, anyway.
Sorry, I just wanted to be honest with you on my opinion and hopefully it helps. Not exactly the best day for me to give advice...