Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[JuniperFalls]

Well I'm in the middle of school right now and I can't post my problems at the moment. So yeah get ready.
{Needed to have this is my posts}

[eggomage.]

I've tried posting on here before, but I was ignored. So I'll start again.
Okay, love problems are arriving.

My name is Ianubisgurl, you can call me Anubis or Anu. I've had a crush on someone in my class for quite a while now, but there are many rumours he likes my enemy, which is possible. I don't ask him since he always says he doesn't, but there's always a chance he's lying. My enemy likes him, so that makes it even more hard to ask him because she's normally around him. He's really nice to me and we're pretty good friends.

Is there any signs to look out for to find out if he likes me or my enemy?

[muttstuff]

Okay. Little update for those who care.
The girl? I passed her a note telling her to find me at lunch and talk. Not sure about what, just to get it cleared up.
So, she comes, sits next to me; not many people around, thank god. So we're both just sitting there, awkwardly shuffling now and again until she just says "I got your note." So I jump a little and nod, like yeah yeah you did. Then after a bit more of little comments and awkward shuffling I said, "I, uh... I just wanted to... g-get it off my chest." Then she nods and just, "Yeah."
I apologized, and she said there's nothing to be sorry for. After a little bit more awkwardness, she speaks again. "Let's just be friends." and I nod like "yeah, yeah, i can do that" while inside i'm screaming "no but i still really like you??" Then she walks back to her friends to eat anD I BOOK IT TO THE LIBRARY. Sit down and stay there freaking out and after school, it hit me;
My feelings aren't going away anytime soon. -sigh-
Time to awkwardly avoid her now.
Toodles.

[eggomage.]

Being friend-zoned hurts so bad, though it's never happened to me since I'm too shy. I've had some moments when my crush awkwardly looks at me after looking at him, I get so nervous and embarrassed when that happens...

[Akele]

Well put Petzpower.

Alright. So this morning I got up and checked Tumblr as always and saw that I had a new message. That message was from an anonymous asker saying they've had a crush on me for a while. I'm not sure what to do. They sound cute and I do want a girlfriend... but I love G sooo much... Any advice?

If you love G, then you shouldn't be approaching anyone else. I think two posts before this, you referred to her as the person you know you truly belong with...right?

Be honest with yourself about your feelings. If you truly love someone, you shouldn't be going for anyone else. Hope that helps!

[thє dσctσr]

So, I recently broke up with my boyfriend. I don't know what got into me. I've been depressed lately from a new medication that I need to take for about two weeks, due to how bad my asthma had become early last week. I explained to him I didn't mean to. And that I wasn't thinking right. He won't even talk to me now, and I feel horrible. I hurt him really bad and have tried everything to fix it. If any one has advice on me helping fix things with him, even if its helps him talk to me again, it would be greatly appreciated.

[Akele]

So, I recently broke up with my boyfriend. I don't know what got into me. I've been depressed lately from a new medication that I need to take for about two weeks, due to how bad my asthma had become early last week. I explained to him I didn't mean to. And that I wasn't thinking right. He won't even talk to me now, and I feel horrible. I hurt him really bad and have tried everything to fix it. If any one has advice on me helping fix things with him, even if its helps him talk to me again, it would be greatly appreciated.

Sometimes logic works when the heart is unsteady.
Try looking up some online resources/articles that show how medications can alter a person's mood, to the point where they do very unusual things under their influence. Those articles are out there. Maybe you could send some of those to him and explain? That might at least get the communication channels open again.

[thє dσctσr]

So, I recently broke up with my boyfriend. I don't know what got into me. I've been depressed lately from a new medication that I need to take for about two weeks, due to how bad my asthma had become early last week. I explained to him I didn't mean to. And that I wasn't thinking right. He won't even talk to me now, and I feel horrible. I hurt him really bad and have tried everything to fix it. If any one has advice on me helping fix things with him, even if its helps him talk to me again, it would be greatly appreciated.

Sometimes logic works when the heart is unsteady.
Try looking up some online resources/articles that show how medications can alter a person's mood, to the point where they do very unusual things under their influence. Those articles are out there. Maybe you could send some of those to him and explain? That might at least get the communication channels open again.

Alright, I will take a look into that and try to get him to at least understand the situation. Thank you for your help. <3

[Akele]

So, I recently broke up with my boyfriend. I don't know what got into me. I've been depressed lately from a new medication that I need to take for about two weeks, due to how bad my asthma had become early last week. I explained to him I didn't mean to. And that I wasn't thinking right. He won't even talk to me now, and I feel horrible. I hurt him really bad and have tried everything to fix it. If any one has advice on me helping fix things with him, even if its helps him talk to me again, it would be greatly appreciated.

Sometimes logic works when the heart is unsteady.
Try looking up some online resources/articles that show how medications can alter a person's mood, to the point where they do very unusual things under their influence. Those articles are out there. Maybe you could send some of those to him and explain? That might at least get the communication channels open again.

Alright, I will take a look into that and try to get him to at least understand the situation. Thank you for your help. <3

You're welcome! I only wish I could do more. :c

I had a friend who switched to a different anti-anxiety medication, and it really messed her up. :c For some reason, different medications react in very bad ways with different people...she ended up being nearly suicidal because of the stuff her doctor had switched her to, and that was so extremely out of character for her...! So I totally get where you're coming from. :c I really hope the articles at least help. If they don't...maybe just give it a few more days and then try again? I really hope things turn out ok!

[ＦＵＣＣＩ ＤＡＵＧＨＴＥＲ]

My boyfriend just broke up with me. I have absolutely NO CLUE why! He just said he wasn't into the relationship, but... on Saturday he was all about how beautiful and awesome I was and today... just out of nowhere. He was kind of worrying me, because he didn't take his anxiety medication and seemed really on edge, and I can't help but wonder if that has something to do with it. I guess it doesn't matter, really.

My question is.. are second chances ever good? He said if he ever felt differently he'd let me know, but... I don't want to have an unhealthy on-again off-again relationship.

And if not, how can I get over him? This was my first relationship (even though it lasted like a MONTH I really liked him) and I've never had to deal with this before.