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[Sapphirescript]

(Sorry if I can't say this but)
Just calm down. Going there all nervous won't help. Just keep it cool, Mabye you will reallly like them! You never know!
I hope it helps. But just try to stay calm. ^-^.

[Dragonspirit]

I wanz advice..

im suppose to go over to my boyfriend's house sooner or later..
His parents don't know me, but they want to know me.. Im nervous and im scared, I have NEVER been to another persons house before outside my family before.
WAZ I DO!?!

Oh wow, you have never been to another persons' house? Well, just act yourself. ^-^ Have fun with it and be open to explore what it is like. Sure, it will be hard and a little awkward at first, but try not to let that overrule your mindset. Just try and think of it as an extension to your own house.. If that helps? =3

[Dragonspirit]

No one else needs advice? Shocking.

[omori]

They've all gone to the boyfriend/girlfriend relationship thread. x3

[chaos.]

i might need this for later XD

[Shin Kuroi]

I get bullied at school day after day, is making me sad and emo

[Đɛαŧħғαƀℓɛ]

[center]Deathfable and Griffin has logged in.

'Ello gov'nas!

You just can't stay away from your natural urge to help others, can you Kitty? Naw, just kidding. This this one of the things I love about joo, man. I'll stalk this thread...wait. Um, I mean not stalk, gawd where'd you hear that from... @_@ I said...watch you from a distance

I DO have one problem...well...I wouldn't necessarily call it a problem....
If you have to much...what's the word...energy inside you and you're not in the right place to let it out then how do you let it out? I can't do it at school, people will think I'm crazy; not in public, then people will think I'm mental; not at home, then my parents will stare at my immaturity; and definitely not in private...It'll feel way to awkward...

So how could one let out all that energy without exploding. I mean I feel it trapped in my head and it actually does hurt...the good kind of hurt I'd be holding my head at the lunch table an my friend's would be looking at me.

What is one to do? Hmmmm

[Shin Kuroi]

Hmm

[Sapphirescript]

Staff I need some help D8.
Latley I have become a teenager. And because I have become a teenager I tend to break out. I hate washing my face and it comes and goes. Sometimes I feel like everybody is looking at me because of a zit or something wrong with me.
I have self esteem tons of it. I also have the problem of getting to rough. I am compititive and animal like. I growl and scratch and get rough. Everybody avoids me and picks on me. So I don't have any friends. When they pick on me I fight back and that only makes the problem worse. My brother is always ashamed of me and expects me to take it but I Can't. You try dealing with balls being thrown at your head (The basketball kind) all day and getting laughed at. I made two friends but they don't come anymore so I never see them. I don't want to change myself but I want a way to make them stop. The words of the paster says that its my fault for chasing them and they tease me as well. They say all the boys are my boyfriends. I really can't stand that because not only is it digrating but It hurts. I have never dated in my life. and I don't plan on doing so for another 3-5 years. I'm only thirteen. I always tell people I never go with the crowd and I could beat up anybody I want but the reality is I get hurt quite easily and I am very shy. Though I hate going with the crowd of fans. Like twighlight or such I stil keep my thoughts to myself cause I don't want enemies. I never give up onn fighting but I always lose.
I have no discipline either. I am homeschooled and My parents expect me to finish one subject in one month. (mind you thats the years worth of lessons. in one month) And I can't do it. I have no self dicispline and no matter how much I want it done it dosn't come. I avoid it like the plauge. So now my parents are super angry because not only do I have to have it all done ASAP. I have to get all A's or B's which leads to another problem. I cheat... alot... See I can't focas. Retaining infromation is as easy as lifting a car. Not entirley impossible but pretty frigen hard. It takes days of studieing to pass a quiz and their are three quizes then a huge test in every catagory. (my school works on a system. You click on a subject and it opens up a list of catagorys. As soon as one is over they don't use it anymore. Every one of these is roughly 10-15 lessons long. with a minor of three quizes then a big test. Mabye a project throughn in there.) So I have to cheat. OR else if I get naything under a B I will repeat the 8th grade over grade nine. Cheating gets me no where and I can do math and langauge by myself. But bible, history, and science I can't do. I can't express it enough how hard it is for me to concentrate. And when I go to my mom she gets really angry at me and says I can do better when I get a C. It makes it really hard and she thinks I am acing school when in reality I am just cheating so I give her what she wants.
O and have I mentioned I get roughly 4-6 hours of sleep each night? I have to hit myself to stay awake because I can't have caffene. I get stand up without falling over. I feel really sick each day so I have to stay in bed. Which makes me sleepy. But I can only sleep for ten mintues before my mom gets very upset and screams at me.
That and she conestly hounds me for A. 'HAving no friends and B. Spending so much time on my computer )where my school is(.
A. Everybody wher eI go are prissy pompus girls who are afraid of getting alittle dirty (can't stand people like that I'm a tomboy)
B. I have nothing to do all day. No toys well not really. I got a tv and some books o.o.
So I would really love the help. I need to turn my life around. To get my dream job I need to ace science. Mostly Zooology which I am a A student. (no cheating) That and my brother worked at a real job when he was 14. My parents don't say it but I know for a fact they expect me the same. The only job I have is lawn cutting my nieghbors. So ya I need the help. My life sucks.

EDIT: I frogot. I am a christian so that means, Nothing enjoyable! Nothing to do with magic, winged creatures, dragons, or anything thats not holy. Meaning nothing fun o.o. I wrote a story for my friend Kinarra and she is a lezbian. She is my BF for over a year now. And They found it I almost got grounded from my computer. I can't write for her anymore unless its a pairing between her and my characters.

I kinda got ignored o.o.

[Dragonspirit]

I get bullied at school day after day, is making me sad and emo

You could tell a teacher or a parent about it ^-^.. And it depends on the type of bullying, but just try and ignore them. If you show it does not bother you, they will eventually stop. A way to keep yourself from caring about what they do is this; if they start bothering you, keep in mind that their words mean nothing. They don't care for you, so there should be no reason to care for their words. Hope that helps ^-^

I DO have one problem...well...I wouldn't necessarily call it a problem....
If you have to much...what's the word...energy inside you and you're not in the right place to let it out then how do you let it out? I can't do it at school, people will think I'm crazy; not in public, then people will think I'm mental; not at home, then my parents will stare at my immaturity; and definitely not in private...It'll feel way to awkward...

So how could one let out all that energy without exploding. I mean I feel it trapped in my head and it actually does hurt...the good kind of hurt I'd be holding my head at the lunch table an my friend's would be looking at me.

What is one to do? Hmmmm

Well, if you need to let that energy out, I would suggest doing physical activities. Are you interested in sports? Join one, if you like it, or just ask your parents for a place to work out. Your parents will understand and love you, no matter what level of energy you have Don't feel bad for being yourself

Staff I need some help D8.
Latley I have become a teenager. And because I have become a teenager I tend to break out. I hate washing my face and it comes and goes. Sometimes I feel like everybody is looking at me because of a zit or something wrong with me.
I have self esteem tons of it. I also have the problem of getting to rough. I am compititive and animal like. I growl and scratch and get rough. Everybody avoids me and picks on me. So I don't have any friends. When they pick on me I fight back and that only makes the problem worse. My brother is always ashamed of me and expects me to take it but I Can't. You try dealing with balls being thrown at your head (The basketball kind) all day and getting laughed at. I made two friends but they don't come anymore so I never see them. I don't want to change myself but I want a way to make them stop. The words of the paster says that its my fault for chasing them and they tease me as well. They say all the boys are my boyfriends. I really can't stand that because not only is it digrating but It hurts. I have never dated in my life. and I don't plan on doing so for another 3-5 years. I'm only thirteen. I always tell people I never go with the crowd and I could beat up anybody I want but the reality is I get hurt quite easily and I am very shy. Though I hate going with the crowd of fans. Like twighlight or such I stil keep my thoughts to myself cause I don't want enemies. I never give up onn fighting but I always lose.
I have no discipline either. I am homeschooled and My parents expect me to finish one subject in one month. (mind you thats the years worth of lessons. in one month) And I can't do it. I have no self dicispline and no matter how much I want it done it dosn't come. I avoid it like the plauge. So now my parents are super angry because not only do I have to have it all done ASAP. I have to get all A's or B's which leads to another problem. I cheat... alot... See I can't focas. Retaining infromation is as easy as lifting a car. Not entirley impossible but pretty frigen hard. It takes days of studieing to pass a quiz and their are three quizes then a huge test in every catagory. (my school works on a system. You click on a subject and it opens up a list of catagorys. As soon as one is over they don't use it anymore. Every one of these is roughly 10-15 lessons long. with a minor of three quizes then a big test. Mabye a project throughn in there.) So I have to cheat. OR else if I get naything under a B I will repeat the 8th grade over grade nine. Cheating gets me no where and I can do math and langauge by myself. But bible, history, and science I can't do. I can't express it enough how hard it is for me to concentrate. And when I go to my mom she gets really angry at me and says I can do better when I get a C. It makes it really hard and she thinks I am acing school when in reality I am just cheating so I give her what she wants.
O and have I mentioned I get roughly 4-6 hours of sleep each night? I have to hit myself to stay awake because I can't have caffene. I get stand up without falling over. I feel really sick each day so I have to stay in bed. Which makes me sleepy. But I can only sleep for ten mintues before my mom gets very upset and screams at me.
That and she conestly hounds me for A. 'HAving no friends and B. Spending so much time on my computer )where my school is(.
A. Everybody wher eI go are prissy pompus girls who are afraid of getting alittle dirty (can't stand people like that I'm a tomboy)
B. I have nothing to do all day. No toys well not really. I got a tv and some books o.o.
So I would really love the help. I need to turn my life around. To get my dream job I need to ace science. Mostly Zooology which I am a A student. (no cheating) That and my brother worked at a real job when he was 14. My parents don't say it but I know for a fact they expect me the same. The only job I have is lawn cutting my nieghbors. So ya I need the help. My life sucks.

EDIT: I frogot. I am a christian so that means, Nothing enjoyable! Nothing to do with magic, winged creatures, dragons, or anything thats not holy. Meaning nothing fun o.o. I wrote a story for my friend Kinarra and she is a lezbian. She is my BF for over a year now. And They found it I almost got grounded from my computer. I can't write for her anymore unless its a pairing between her and my characters.

DX Sorry for that Tasha.

Growing up can be hard. You feel like everyone is on your back, your body is changing dramatically, and everything is expected of you, but really, it is not. Your mother just seems like she is trying to help you succeed, as would any good mother. If she didn't care for you, she would let you play all day, and would not care if you cheated, or made C's. She wants you to make A's and B's because she knows that can influence your success in the future. Come ninth grade, all your grades count for college.

So, my advice is this: toughen up a bit. Yes, it will be hard, and the standards are set high. Do what you can to meet those standards. Sure, you may not meet all of them, but when your parents see that you are in fact trying, they may loosen up on you. Try and take responsibility;like you could do your homework before you go onto fun sites like Chicken Smoothie. Set goals for yourself, and instead of blowing them off, work to meet them. They don't have to be dramatic at first, but they can build so you can get better and better at life skills. The skills and habits you build now will stick with you for the rest of your life. Make them good habits. ^-^

As for your brother, you are not him. Period. Kids are all different, and I can tell you for certain that I am not my brother either. My brother was a 4.0 student, and took lots of AP classes. I, on the other hand, am artistic and more laid back. I am not as caring about my grades, yet I still do fairly well. So, the point is, is that you are not your brother, and if you can't be like him, then don't try. It is more than frustrating to set goals you can't meet. So again, set them low at first, then build up from there. Establish those good habits ^-^

Does that help Tasha? ^-^

Edit: As for your last part about being Christian and not being able to have fun like that, all I can say is I find that ridiculous >=[ You can be a Christian and still have lesbian friends, be into dragons and magic and what-not. God is not going to hate you and smite you and send you to hell if you like that stuff. *sigh* But what your parents say is law for you hun. When you grow up and are able to get your own house, you can make the rules, and you can choose what to allow in the household. But for now, your parents don't approve of that, and no form of not liking those rules will make them go away. However, I do suggest you talk to them about it. Tell them what you feel about it. Communication is always a good thing, even if it is awkward ^-^.