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[caesou]

why do i feel like i fail so bad at supporting and helping my friends smh

[crabodile]

i'm really anxious because i stayed home today because i had double pink eye this morning and now i kind of feel fine and honestly i wish i hadn't stayed home and now i feel horrible and i'm afraid the lady who lives here with us is going to yell at me and i have social anxiety and our stupid school makes us get these slips of paper and all the teachers have to sign them and you're supposed to know who signs them and who doesn't and two of my teachers scare me beyond death and i don't think i can handle anything anymore

[fika.]

excuse me ??
i thought we were friends ???
i know you were lying but i took it seriously
actually wait, were you lying ?? were you joking ??
now that i think about it i don't think you were
you were my best friend
i trusted you with everything
i told you i was transgender
i told you i was bisexual
i dont understand

why would someone just go and say that ??
you know i'm sensitive. you know i take everything seriously even if i laugh or if i know you're joking.
im a freaking human being, not a damn robot who'll teach you a moral life lesson.

maybe you should talk to them and explain it thoroughly. you aren't a robot but unfortunately people aren't mind readers, they may not know you are sensitive or take things seriously (unless you have told them that before). however, whatever they said seems like it has really affected you so if you need to talk my inbox is open. good luck ♡

well dang it, i'm sick..
i think it's just an ear infection or a cold, but god do i feel terrible, what with this sore throat, popping ears, chills, and just feeling all achey..
i'm scared to death of going to the doctor's because of all the flu going around, so i'm just going to have to deal with this.. :\
and then to make things worse, i have to skip the only highlight of my week or of my life, i should say today...
i'm homeschooled, so i don't get out of the house a ton, and on tuesdays i have orchestra practice.
all my friends are there, so yeah, i'm not too happy...
and maybe about to break down crying from all this frustration?? ughh i hope that doesn't sound dramatic eek..
*sigh*

it's not dramatic at all! when we are ill our emotions are heightened so that's normal! it's a horrible season for the flu, so stay inside and keep warm and my best advise is drinking hot lemonade, with a dash of honey and sugar added to it.
it helps warm your tummy and soothe your throat a little bit. if it doesn't improve within a week, please go to the doctors! i know it's a bit of a grim place but it's better safe than sorry! i'm sorry you are missing orchestra practice but hopefully you will be okay to go next week! good luck, and i hope you feel better soon ♡

How come somebody so nice is always the one being brought down?

unfortunately it seems the nicest people have the worst things going for them; my nan is the kindest and sweetest soul to walk the planet yet she's been in hospital for almost two weeks. it sucks, definitely, but are you able to help them in any way? i hope they're okay! good luck to the both of you ♡

i had a dog a few months ago, and my mom didn't like her because she would run away sometimes, so my parents made me sell her.
they bought my brother a $300 dog a few months later.
i found a corgi/black lab mix for $10 on craigslist and my dad asked her if i could get it and she said no.
it's not fair.
i'm home all the time.
i have nothing.
my brothers dog doesn't bond to me.
it's not fair.
it's pathetic that i'm upset but she favors him over me and it's not fair.
all i wanted was this dog, i don't ask for that much.

would your mum let you go visit that pup? it sounds like a right cutie! are you able to show you are responsible enough to own your own dog? each dog has its own personality so i'm pretty sure this one won't run away. are you able to say you will buy the dogs essentials and walk him? at least your dad seems on your side. i'm so sorry about it though! i wish i could offer more advise. good luck ♡

dear god im so selfish and i dont stop complaining and now theyre concerned which is stupid i dont deserve their concern i need to shut up how i feel dosent matter because im so terrible i genuinely struggle to find anything worth liking about myself anymore im sorry for coming here and complaining again but i need to say something before i put my fist through the mirror

don't apologise for coming here to complain! anyone and everyone is allowed here and to post whenever they want. and you aren't selfish, it's okay to complain and people being concerned means they care; you have people caring for you which is great. we can all be selfish and have all the attention for one day, it's okay, and everyone deserves to have their voice heard. if you feel frustrated and upset and angry, maybe speak to a therapist? it's their job to listen so if you feel that uncomfortablewith people being concerned i advise speaking to a therapist; great help. good luck, i hope you feel better soon, good luck ♡

my step-grandma has stage three cancer.

para, i am so so sorry. my grandmother had been diagnosed with it in 2012 and the doctors are unsure if she has cancer again or not. i can't say much advise except to spend as much time with her as possible. if you ever need anything, please please private message me; you don't have to go through this alone and to find some support macmillan cancer is a great place to start. i hope she heals wonderfully and that you and your family are okay, you're in my thoughts ♡

Ahhhh I can't breath.
I hate being sick.
Ppfftthhh.

ahh it feels horrible doesn't it !! have a nice, hot shower so the steam can help clean your sinuses and make sure to stay in bed and rest !! you can't heal if you're body isn't allowing it to. good luck and i hope you feel better soon ♡

why do i feel like i fail so bad at supporting and helping my friends smh

just letting them know you are there for them and that they can come to you for anything is good enough for everyone! those who need support don't want to actually say anything but they jsut want to know they have someone to lean back on. i hope your friends are okay! and don't beat yourself up over it; we all deal with things our own way and i am sure you are doing a perfect job at being a friend! good luck ♡

i'm really anxious because i stayed home today because i had double pink eye this morning and now i kind of feel fine and honestly i wish i hadn't stayed home and now i feel horrible and i'm afraid the lady who lives here with us is going to yell at me and i have social anxiety and our stupid school makes us get these slips of paper and all the teachers have to sign them and you're supposed to know who signs them and who doesn't and two of my teachers scare me beyond death and i don't think i can handle anything anymore

ahh, to help with anxious nerves my links below help! it was best you stayed at home because pink eye is very infectious. as for your teachers, maybe before hand email them and ask if you can see them on a break to have them sign it ?/ at least that way they are expecting it and anything they want to say can be said on email (': good luck, hope you feel better soon! ♡

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if you ever feel down or need a shoulder to cry on, my inbox is open. i have gathered links to help everyone when they need a distraction or are feeling low:

to help you smile:
list of little things - list of little things to help make you smile and be happy
cutest - cutest tumblr to help with your self esteem
smile things - cute colours and tumblr page to help you out
adorable - basically another tumblr that does the same as the ones above

to help you with anything else / distractions:
emergency compliments - if you ever feel poo, and nothing seems to cheer you up, this site is full of 'emergency compliments' which can make you laugh at how ridiculously brilliant they are.
automatic flatterer - you know what's cute about this? you put in your name, nickname, whatever (it doesn't save it) and it pays you compliment after compliment after compliment. it's the cutest idea ever.
the dawn room - do what it says. after doing that, loads of encouraging messages will come your way!
hugs - hugs is all i have to say.
thunderstorms - control them!<3
beautiful places - if you're looking for a sign, this is it. set a goal to visit one of these places. don't change that goal. you won't regret it.
how to change your life - just read it. it's amazing. too good.
player two - if you're feeling hurt or upset, visit here. it's a game. it's good.
koalas - if you're in need of a distraction that lasts a good five minutes, play this. it's fun, and if you love koalas it's even better!
stick man game - good distraction with a hopefuly message i made at the end!
just say yes - this blog was made by zoella and good for anyone who suffer with anxiety disorder, have panic attacks, depression, have social anxiety or are just a very negative or shy person this may be good for you!
random acts of kindness (video) - may make you feel all warm and gooey at how kind people are
list of things for those having a bad day!
more bad day remedies - is similar to the one above
how to love yourself - if you struggle with self esteem, pleasep lease read <3
quiet room - one of my favourite places <3
comfort box - i highly recommend looking at this because it's the most amazing idea i've ever seen
ground box - similar to the one above

to help you with panic attacks:
i have loads of things that can help with your anxiety and panic attacks.

facts !!!!:
what not to say !!! - to someone who is having a panic attack, do not say these things
facts- if you're confused about a few things

i've also made a tumblr! you can message me anonomysouly on there for advice if you don't want to post here. i also will start reblogging things (nothing triggering or sad !) so if you ever need someone, you can go to me on there! http://happinesscomeswithnoregrets.tumblr.com/

[Cruxich]

I'm not really sure what's going on.
I ended up not reacting very well to something I said that could've turned out badly with someone, but that ended up with good results still in the end. But, I had nothing but bad dreams plaguing my sleep and it felt like I woke up a few times, but I wasn't aware or even remember.
I'm exhausted, and my mind is still set dead on about all the negative outcomes that can arise from the situation. I'm internally worried now about it all and I can't focus on any positive thing.

[General Chaos]

my step-grandma has stage three cancer.

My father recently just passed from Kidney Cancer.
He fought 8 long months.
I know how hard the fight is, I know how hard it is to see someone you love go through something so horrible.
The best thing you can do, is show her how strong you are. Be there for her, and the rest of your family. Have hope, because nothing is impossible.

My real advise? Spend as much time with her as possible. Read her books. Watch movies with her. Let her tell you stories of her life.
You will never regret spending time with her.
But you'll regret avoiding the situation, and her.

[MeltiTheDragon]

I swear, every single time some one calls us these days, someone's either hurt or dead. I'm afraid to pick up the phone now. My grandfather (on my mom's side) two years ago, my uncle (mom's side) last year, two more uncles (dad's side) this year ; people are just dropping like flies in my family. And the only living grandparents I actually like were just in a car accident (thankfully NOT dead). It's been a rough week.

[the folly of man]

I feel really disrespected because I keep begging them to stop, and then they continue to do what I don't want them to do.
of course they don't have to listen to me, it's not like I'm in charge or anything, but please have some respect.

there's nothing you guys can really do this time, since it's rl issues w/ my siblings and they don't even know that I have such a bad problem with it

[∘Raven∘]

Ɩ'м яɛαℓℓʏ ғяʋƨтяαтɛ∂. Ɩ'ʌɛ вɛɛи тяʏιиɢ ƨσ нαя∂ тσ ιмρяσʌɛ ωιтн αят. Δи∂ ʏɛт Ɩ ƨтιℓℓ ɢɛт ιɢиσяɛ∂. Δℓмσƨт, ιғ иσт αℓℓ тнɛ тιмɛ. Ɩ яɛαℓℓʏ ℓσʌɛ αят, вʋт ωιтнσʋт ɛиcσʋяαɢɛмɛит, ιт'ƨ ƨσ нαя∂ тσ нαʌɛ αиʏ мσтιʌαтισи. Ɩ ωσяκ ƨσ ʌɛяʏ нαя∂ ωιтн ωнαт Ɩ ∂σ.

Ɩ нαтɛ тнιƨ ғɛɛℓιиɢ. Δℓωαʏƨ вɛιиɢ ιɢиσяɛ∂. Ɩ ωαƨ ƨσ ɛϰcιтɛ∂ αвσʋт αи ɛʌɛит Ɩ мα∂ɛ, ιи ғαcт Ɩ ωαƨ ɛϰcιтɛ∂ ɛиσʋɢн Ɩ вαяɛℓʏ ƨℓɛρт. Ƭнɛи Ɩ ωσκɛ ʋρ, αи∂ ℓσ αи∂ вɛнσℓ∂, иσвσ∂ʏ нα∂ ɛʌɛи ℓσσκɛ∂ αт ιт. Ɩ'м нɛαятвяσκɛи. Ƨσ ʌɛяʏ нɛαятвяσκɛи. Ɩ ʝʋƨт иɛɛ∂....ғσя σиcɛ...тσ иσт вɛ ғσяɢσттɛи αи∂ ρʋƨнɛ∂ тσ тнɛ ƨι∂ɛ. Ɩ κиσω Ɩ'м иσт αƨ ƨκιℓℓɛ∂ αƨ мαиʏ σтнɛяƨ, вʋт тнαт'ƨ иσ яɛαƨσи тσ иσт ɛиcσʋяαɢɛ, иσт σиℓʏ мɛ, вʋт σтнɛя вɛɢιииιиɢ αятιƨтƨ.

Ɩ'ʌɛ иɛʌɛя нα∂ αи αят ℓɛƨƨσи. Ɩ ωαит тσ ɢɛт вɛттɛя. βʋт нσω cαи Ɩ? Ħσω ∂σ Ɩ κиσω ωнαт тσ ιмρяσʌɛ? Ħσω ∂σ Ɩ κиσω ωнαт Ɩ'ʌɛ ∂σиɛ яιɢнт αи∂ ωнαт Ɩ'ʌɛ ∂σиɛ ωяσиɢ?

I just need a shoulder to cry on

[drift.]

I've told my friends not to worry about me... but I honestly don't know if that's true. I just don't want them to get needlessly worked up. My doctors think they found something in my blood.. something bad, I guess. With how urgently they wanted me to come back in. I don't like lying to them but rn it seems like the only option... and it's not technically lying, I most likely will be fine..

[ghostlyhamlet]

So I went on a field trip to see a play today and I was excited for it because I was going to take pictures of my friends and such and have fun with them!
But when I got there, I just felt like a burden to them. I was trying to walk next to my friend (T) and the other girls behind me wanted me to walk faster so they could walk with T. Then I wanted to sit next to T but everyone else started to move in front of me so I wasn't able to sit next to any of them, I was grateful though that I lucked out and sat next to another friend and her sister, but just the feeling of being pushed aside was horrible.
Then after the show, we had thirty minutes to walk around before the bus came and the whole group just left and abandoned me to walk around with my camera at the park.
When we got back on the bus, my spot was taken so I had to sit alone and even after we got back to school, no one talked to me or acknowledged me.
So I just feel horrible and like my friends don't even like me and that maybe it's just for school show.