Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[autumnsoundtrack]

There's this guy I've liked for about three years now. Back then, it was just a simple 'Oh he's so cute!' kind of crush. I don't know what happened to me along the way, but it intensified every year. So, this year, my new years resolution was to get over him, since I didn't have the guts to talk to him and he didn't want to acknowledge me. Usually, whenever I talk to him, I get butterflies, I'm nervous, I can't think straight, and I'm somewhat shaking. But today, he was just lounging on some grass with his friend and when I happened to walk past him, he asked me a question. I looked at him, dead in the eye, and just said a calm response as if he was someone I don't know. I though I had gotten over him then and was so happy.

Now, here I am, in the late hours of the night, feeling like crying myself to sleep. Why? Because I feel this emptiness inside me and it keeps eating me away faster every second. Usually, whenever I felt this a few months ago due to other things, music made me better, but now it's not helping at all. I have a feeling it has something to do with him, then again possibly not, but has anybody ever experienced this kind of thing before? Any advice as to how I should take this?

[greysilence]

I'm not really sure what I wanna do here.

When I was in 8th grade, Jeremy was in 7th. We kinda just suddenly clicked during 2nd semester. Eventually we admitted that we had feelings for each other. However, he had a girlfriend at the time, so we were just best friends, and it went no further. Then over that summer he said he loved me as a friend, and I kinda freaked. I take love as a very big word. I kinda sorta shunned him for, like, 5 months. ._. Anyways, some drama happened, but we made up in December or so. He tells one of my friends he loves me, and he tells another one how he likes me so much. It's awkward, because I viewed him as a brother. Younger because he's a year younger than me, but older because he was always willing to protect and comfort me. Anyways, he always tells me that he misses me whenever we text. Now, he's gonna be a freshman, which means we're gonna start seeing each other again. Since he's gonna be in marching band too, we're going to see each other a bunch before school even starts.

Anyways, I'm slightly nervous. Yes, I miss him, but I don't love him. However, I've been considering giving him a chance...There's no doubt in my mind that he'll ask me to homecoming. (I'll probably say no) I just...asdfghjkl. He actually treats me good, and I feel like he would be a good boyfriend. I just can't really imagine us ever holding hands or kissing....that's weird in my mind. I just can't decide whether I want to give him the chance he's been dying for or keep him in the friend zone, as bad as that sounds.

[kay.]

There's this guy I've liked for about three years now. Back then, it was just a simple 'Oh he's so cute!' kind of crush. I don't know what happened to me along the way, but it intensified every year. So, this year, my new years resolution was to get over him, since I didn't have the guts to talk to him and he didn't want to acknowledge me. Usually, whenever I talk to him, I get butterflies, I'm nervous, I can't think straight, and I'm somewhat shaking. But today, he was just lounging on some grass with his friend and when I happened to walk past him, he asked me a question. I looked at him, dead in the eye, and just said a calm response as if he was someone I don't know. I thought I had gotten over him then and was so happy.

Now, here I am, in the late hours of the night, feeling like crying myself to sleep. Why? Because I feel this emptiness inside me and it keeps eating me away faster every second. Usually, whenever I felt this a few months ago due to other things, music made me better, but now it's not helping at all. I have a feeling it has something to do with him, then again possibly not, but has anybody ever experienced this kind of thing before? Any advice as to how I should take this?

I've been feeling the same thing lately with my crush. I don't really have the best advice for you since I dunno how to cope with this either, although you may try what I try. I somewhere I could be alone, just to think in peace or cry without being bothered. I preferred the place being outside since looking at the trees calms me down. A few days ago I went into a little forest bit behind the park, and on a slope there is a triple-tree. Now I go there everyday, and I have my phone with some Adele songs playing.

That's what I do, although it doesn't make all the emptiness go away.

Try to make some little gestures to the boy, saying hi to him if you see him with a smile, then after a few days build it up, making conversation. Be friends with him first before doing any move in a love way.

I have gotten to be friends with my crush now. I trusted my best friend, deciding to tell her, she's been a great support so far. On a Ball/last week of school I plan on telling my crush about my feelings, otherwise I fear my hole will be empty for a long time.

Hope this helped at least a bit, you're not alone.

[Kiliann]

There's this guy I've liked for about three years now. Back then, it was just a simple 'Oh he's so cute!' kind of crush. I don't know what happened to me along the way, but it intensified every year. So, this year, my new years resolution was to get over him, since I didn't have the guts to talk to him and he didn't want to acknowledge me. Usually, whenever I talk to him, I get butterflies, I'm nervous, I can't think straight, and I'm somewhat shaking. But today, he was just lounging on some grass with his friend and when I happened to walk past him, he asked me a question. I looked at him, dead in the eye, and just said a calm response as if he was someone I don't know. I thought I had gotten over him then and was so happy.

Now, here I am, in the late hours of the night, feeling like crying myself to sleep. Why? Because I feel this emptiness inside me and it keeps eating me away faster every second. Usually, whenever I felt this a few months ago due to other things, music made me better, but now it's not helping at all. I have a feeling it has something to do with him, then again possibly not, but has anybody ever experienced this kind of thing before? Any advice as to how I should take this?

I've been feeling the same thing lately with my crush. I don't really have the best advice for you since I dunno how to cope with this either, although you may try what I try. I somewhere I could be alone, just to think in peace or cry without being bothered. I preferred the place being outside since looking at the trees calms me down. A few days ago I went into a little forest bit behind the park, and on a slope there is a triple-tree. Now I go there everyday, and I have my phone with some Adele songs playing.

That's what I do, although it doesn't make all the emptiness go away.

Try to make some little gestures to the boy, saying hi to him if you see him with a smile, then after a few days build it up, making conversation. Be friends with him first before doing any move in a love way.

I have gotten to be friends with my crush now. I trusted my best friend, deciding to tell her, she's been a great support so far. On a Ball/last week of school I plan on telling my crush about my feelings, otherwise I fear my hole will be empty for a long time.

Hope this helped at least a bit, you're not alone.

I've been struggling a bit in this aspect because of my old crush. I was nearly in love (or what I thought was love, anyways) with him and suddenly, for some reason, we disagreed on a sort of minor thing and everything just crashed. Inside me. Like, extremely suddenly I just... didn't like him anymore. I don't know if it was because we disagreed on a minor issue, or what. Like, I just... stopped. And he's such a nice guy and still one of my friends. I just feel sort of empty and a bit mad at myself for just suddenly not liking him.
Now I'm scared it might happen the next time I really like someone. What if it just stops and I have absolutely no feelings for them and it's ruined?
What should I do?

[kay.]

I bet you read this post and you think, 'oh no, Xena blabbering on about Robbie and her sad life.' This is about Robbie, but in contrast, I'm really happy!

Today I spent 4 hours outside after school. Robbie went to the park, and he never done this before, we're officially friends now. Later we went shopping, his friend went away but he stayed with me for a bit longer to talk, and he offered me a mint <3 Getting overexcited about nothing now, but still... I'm over the moon!!!

[bola11]

I'm in a good mood today.

Last night my crush and I were texting and teasing each other and omg he's so cute :'3
Any way I told him I wanted to slap him in the face and he was like "yoooooou liiiiiike meeeee" and I was kinda irritated that it took him so long to actually make that connection, so I said "nooooo really wow shocker", unaware that he was just joking x3
Awkward conversation ensued, but omg he's so sweet he stayed up late just to talk to me -u-

[kay.]

Oops, pressed quote button instead of edit, sorry.

[ojoku]

I bet you read this post and you think, 'oh no, Xena blabbering on about Robbie and her sad life.' This is about Robbie, but in contrast, I'm really happy!

Today I spent 4 hours outside after school. Robbie went to the park, we're officially friends now. Later we went shopping, his friend went away but he stayed with me for a bit longer to talk, and he offered me a mint <3 Getting overexcited about nothing now, but still... I'm over the moon!!!

Congratulations, I guess? I don't understand why you quoted it...

Anyways, my friend and his girlfriend recently broke up. He's getting all the dirt about her he can. I don't know what he's up to, but it makes me nervous since I'm friends with them both. They fight over who I like more sometimes and I can't say anything because they shut me up to start fighting again. Is there anything I can say to him so he understands that it's over and that revenge on her, whether it's spreading rumors or just knowing those things, isn't going to be as sweet as he imagines it?

[Rats-rock]

No boys really like me because I'm kinda short. And I find it very difficult to know what they are thinking. I also am on the round side. I'm not really over weight, but I'm not like skinny and tall like the rest of the girls. I also look and sound younger than I am. My friends kinda find me annoying and the boys just think I'm weird, and nerdy.
I Personally really hate teens with boyfriends/girlfriends because I'm so jealous. And that just makes me even weirder.

[Rated R]

so, my crush and i hadn't talked in a while, i think mainly because we didn't know what to say to each other, and since we are both in the U.S. of A, and today in the fourth of july, i decided that i could text him first, since he had texted me first last time.

we talk a bit, catching up and then i say a joke, lemme type out our convo;;

me - have you heard the joke about the liberty bell?
him - nope, go for it
me - i've heard it - it cracked me up :3
him - hahahaha
him - nice one.
me - thank you, my goal is to make people smile : )
him - hahaha, well i think you're scoring that goal
him - (soccer joke requirement for the 4th has been completed :3)
me - hahaha, you know how to make someone laugh.
him - we aim to please : D
me - well, you can make someone laugh
me - i think people laugh at me 'cause i'm awkward
him - hahaha, no way velcro legs
me - you're tigger-ific, winnie
him - hahaha, you just had to bring that up, didn't you?

lemme explain, i told him like at least a month or more ago that i had a horseback riding nickname "velcro legs" because i can stay on horses despite bad behavior. he still calls me that and the fact that he remembers is great xD
my nickname for him is winnie the pooh, and so i decided to say that to him.
asdfghjkl, i can't tell if he thinks of us as more than friends, but i don't want to ask over text.

edit; he asked when i was coming to his city so we could hang out
and i told him near my birthday, which is true, and he said he's going to start planning :3.
asdfghjkl, people are confusing sometimes.

alright, so i am travelling up to a state near where my crush lives.
and i subtly invited him to join me at an amusement park - here is how the convo went!

me - oh, apparently i'll be in [insert state next to his here] next week.
me - you should use your teleporting skills and make an appearance
him - hmm, i'm good, but i'm not that good
him - where in [insert state name here]?
me - [insert amusement park's name], and my mom said i could invite a friend since my siblings can't go on the fun rides
him - haha, hmm, when next week? :3
me - i think the weekend ;p
him - oho
him - i'll do some looking into how i might get there
him - that is, if you'd have me :D
me - are you kidding? i'd love to have you there :DD
him - hahaha, i'll see what i can do

and then our conversation diverged into memes, jokes, and other funny things.
and then later, around midnight he didn't respond to one of my texts, so i [being a hormonal teen girl that occasionally overdramatizes things] got kind of like, oh, maybe he doesn't wanna talk
and in the morning i woke up to see he had texted me back this morning replying to my text and saying that he had fallen asleep cause he was so tired not because i was boring
and that got me thinking, is it possible he was lying and just didn't wanna talk, or does he text me until he falls asleep?
anyways, if he actually comes, i might just flip out.