You guys are being unfair to Kam. She's only trying to warn you. Now if Lady or Sorren come in here and says the same things that Kam said, will you direspect them? I think not. This site IS for friends, which means don't be mean to others. There is a no pity posts thing that Lady enforces, and Kam may have been blunt, but she was ONLY warning you. Do not be rude to other players only because they won't pity someone. Everyone has bad days. Just pull it together and move on, I am sure you will make friends, you just have to try harder. There are loads of nice people on CS. =3