That sucks, I'm sorry...maybe try a bit harder, and try not to rush being friends with people, if you know what I mean, like not just come in somewhere and try to be friends with everyone right away? You might not be doing that, but XD You'll find friends, especially here. ^^
And seriously, Kam didn't say anything wrong, she was just warning you to make sure this didn't get locked. o.0; I mean, it sucks that you feel that way, but really, Kam was right about the rules, and just warning isn't a bad thing, it's actually helpful...after all, it would be worse if you didn't know, wouldn't it? ;D Also, she's not cold, friendly, and unsympathetic--she's awesome actually XD Lawl she's just pointing out, and making sure that she understands the rules, it's helpful. ;3
Anyway, I'm sorry about that and I hope things go better for you, and good luck! I'm sure you'll meet loads of awesome people here. ^^