Faffy the FauxFox wrote:a cat can never learn what "owch you are hurting me" when they hug you right? you just give them a manni or gloves. Gary hugs me and hangs on to me with meathooks of love so much.
When my cat was growing up, I guess I was always super gentle with him and never "fought" with him using my hands. Now he's about 3, dad fights with him all the time and gets scratched all the time, while when I play with him, he never uses his nails. It's kind of funny, even if I'm like "attacking" him with my hand, the most he would do is smack my hand with a soft paw or gently hold my fingers in his teeth. I don't think he's ever bit me to the point literally any other cat in my family has.
Don't know if it's much to do with his upbringing or if he's just an exceptionally gentle boy. Course sometimes when he stretches against my leg or when I carry him on my shoulders, he might use nails to hold on, but I've never actually been scratched or bitten by him to the point it would leave a mark for more than a day.