by AtlasHyperion » Thu May 18, 2017 3:13 am
I think we can all agree that people who think they can handle our pets better than we can or who instruct us on how to take care of them are the most annoying people in the history of really annoying people.
Examples!
One thing I really hate was when I had my foster dog (she got adopted), and people would just randomly walk up to her, pet her, and say things like "why did you shave her head" or "why is she wearing a cone collar" or "you should use a different harness". I explained politely to them that she had surgery on her ears and needed her head shaved, and was wearing the collar so she wouldn't scratch, or that her harness was the one recommended by the animal shelter.
I guess people kept thinking that just because she was big and walked fast (though I was jogging with her) automatically meant that she was trying to pull away just because she had a habit of continuing to walk when I stopped to explain something about her to someone. She couldn't actually hear anything after her surgery, completely deaf, so people kept telling me when she didn't notice for a couple seconds that I'd stopped that "you should train your dog better".
Another thing I hate is when people say that their pets like them more than me, or get super clingy about their animals. Or when they insist that just because my cat sat on their lap because it was closer and my cat is fat and lazy, it means all pets like them better than they like me.
An example is when I invited this one friend, and I use that term loosely, to my house because we had a giant choir project to work on. She instantly abandoned the project when my cat walked into the room, scooped her up, started cuddling her, and refused to put her down because apparently she'd get lonely. Needless to say, I did the entire project by myself, made my "friend" call her dad to pick her up, got an A when she got a 0, and saved my cat from a lot of unwanted attention.
Also, this isn't so much a thing that people do with my pets, but it's a thing that people do with their own. We all hate when people give us wrong advice, but I've been on both ends, giving actual, scientifically-backed advice, and people get super snooty about how they know absolutely everything about the entire species, not just their own pet, and that I don't know anything.
One example is my "friend" with a black lab. Name's Lucky, super sweet, happy and hyper, about 7? 8? years old, loves spending time outside. She walks him once or twice a month. She keeps insisting that her dogs (also has a beagle) get plenty of exercise because she lets them out in a very small space in the yard, which is small to begin with, and that I don't know a thing about black labs.
Seriously, when I had my foster lab, I walked her 2 or 3 times A DAY! She didn't get outside time, true, but still, dogs can't get walked once a month and spend the rest of their time sleeping in a crate or meandering around in about an 8 by 8 enclosed space. It's not enough exercise. They're skinny because of how much they jump on everything, another pet peeve of mine, when people don't train their pets, but they still need to be walked at the VERY LEAST once a week. Even that's too little for the amount of energy and breeds of her dogs.
Another thing I really hate is people who hit their pets. Not a bop on the nose for begging at the dinner table; I'm pretty sure almost everyone does that, but people who whack them on the head with a rolled-up magazine for doing the slightest thing wrong. On the opposite side of the spectrum, also not a fan of when people get super personally offended when I bop my cat on the head for playing too rough or when I used to push my lab Gracie's face away when she got all up in my space. It's not cruel to remind your pet that they're trained; it's cruel to inflict pain upon them for something they're not trained about.
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