Dog Owner Chat V. 5

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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby ᴍᴀᴏᴄɪғᴇʀ » Sun Apr 07, 2019 6:54 am

Skysong wrote:Oh come on, you can take him for a walk and say you’re walking your fish. 😂

He’s super cute though!

What about Ryder?
He looks like a Ryder to me lol


      I considered Fish at first because Ruby is nicknamed Chicken, so it was like Chicken and Fish - - Fish and Chicks. I might roll with Fish, just because xD
      My stepsister also said we could then get a fish and call it Dog.

      Ryders good, its also not a common name here. More American than English, lol, my stepmum will probably like it. She wants to give him a human name.

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      ive always liked the name moose for a brown dog.
      then you could be walking your moose


      I'd constantly think of mousse. Chocolate mousse.
      We could dress him us as a moose for Halloween. Like yeah this is just my moose, Moose.
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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby Angelus Gaston » Sun Apr 07, 2019 7:37 am


You could look up baby names with unique meanings.

My mum's Lurchers name is Raegan which means Nobility and the 7 gen Deerhound X Greyhound is Enya which means Little Fire. I tend to go with Gaelic or Celtic names for my Lurchers though Mana and Mahados are both from the anime Yu-Gi-Oh.

Rio's full name is Satomi Rio from the anime Hakkenden eight dogs of the east.

I don't go normal with names :lol:
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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby Imzadi83 » Sun Apr 07, 2019 7:45 am

ᴍᴀᴏᴄɪғᴇʀ wrote:
      I think we're getting a puppy within next week? This little one is some kind of lurcher/whippet/greyhound mix thing, he's the runt of the litter and is 8weeks old right now.
      (sorry about the massive uncropped pic)


      We've reserved him, since it's kind of up in the air, since the other half of the household has never had puppies before but really wants one. We're also moving next week, as well as the the half that want the puppy going away so we don't know how much time we'll have to spend with him.
      I was kind of looking forward to getting a middle-aged rescue, but I'm not opposed to having a puppy, I just know I'll be the one looking after it the most and managing training. He's cute though and he's from friends, and also his parents are apparently really lovely, but I haven't even met him yet, my new stepmum was kind of like "my friend's dogs had puppies! Let's get one."

      So, just in case he is definitely to be part of the family, any essential puppy tips and training guides would be great c:
      After 10 years since my last pup, I'm a little rusty ><

      Also, if you want, name suggestions?
      My stepsister wants to call him fish, and my stepmum was thinking of scrappy, but honestly I refuse to go around calling a dog either of those things once it's grown XD


He's adorable, but getting a puppy on impulse from a backyard breeder (which is sounds like this could be) is not a good idea and not something I recommend. In many places even getting a free puppy ends up costing more then the adoption fee of a puppy from a rescue/shelter because the rescue/shelter includes vetting you'll otherwise have to pay for yourself. You're also taking just as much of a gamble genetics wise getting a puppy from a BYB as from a rescue/shelter (which is where the puppies in rescues/shelters mostly come from). Also if they're not going to fix the female (and the male if they have him) then by taking a puppy you're encouraging them to continue irresponsible breeding. Considering over a million dogs in the US alone are euthanized that is personally something I would never want to encourage. It may be something to talk to your family about to help decide if they really want to do this. Puppies are not something anyone should be impulse buying. They require a lot of training and socialization, if your family is not going to have the time to put into it then you could wind up with a very difficult dog later one which will require a lot of work to correct problems, a lot of money in training/damage control, and a lot of heartache when your cute little puppy grows up to be a nightmare. Even if your family does decide on a puppy, now may not be the right time to get one (or any dog) and it may be better to wait until things settle down in your new home.

Ultimately of course I realize you may not have the final say in this and may just have to make the best of it. In that case here are some training tutorials to help you out...

Kikopup Puppy Playlist - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RVAD3ZcpTVM&list=PLF26FD559887E7EA4
Simpawtico Puppy Playlist - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=068K5Zlph9U&list=PLktyAF3uUGpGcT8-iKpCefUvRp3-lX9Pu
Simpawtico New Dog Tips - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LHHXfkk4qV4&t=5s

As far as names go how about the following...
Fischer - Occupational name meaning "fisherman" in German
Fishel - means "little fish" in Yiddish
Treasach - Means "warlike" or "fighter" in Irish Gaelic.

Whatever happens I wish you, your family, and your future dog well.
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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby ᴍᴀᴏᴄɪғᴇʀ » Sun Apr 07, 2019 8:10 am

    @imzadi
      I was totally up for getting a rescue staffie or smth because I'd honestly open up an elderly dog foster home if I could, but my stepsister has been asking for a dog her whole life and wanted a puppy. She hasn't even met this puppy yet either, since my stepmum thinks she'll be picky about the fact its not the fluffy little pup she wants.
      If [stepsister] doesn't like it, [stepmum]'s said that's fine. And even though she says it can be her dog, even though she doesn't even like dogs, I know I'll be the one training and stuff as she's at work. I finish college in June and am currently in my holiday, so I'll have a lot of time, there's also 3 persons my younger and my dad for human socialisation, as well as my little Ruby, and they're all extroverts with friends who have -for the most part-- friendly dogs.
      Also, he's reserved, so the friend may be willing to keep him with mum until we're all settled in. Which would be the best course of action.

      The friend didn't intend to have her female have puppies yet, so it was a surprise pregnancy and the puppies are all going to her own friends and family, but she apparently has had mum health checked and the puppies have all been vaccinated (not sure about the father, might also be her dog though). They're super cheap pups, which is just to pay back the cost of the vet checks and vaccines. They're not being sold for profit - - considering "designer" puppies you see online for absolutely ludicrous amounts, like £1000, whos parents haven't been health checked or anything.

      And thank you, for the words, fun names, and guides.




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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby eff » Sun Apr 07, 2019 8:12 am

      ^^Imzadi

      I think seeing as the user said that it was from a friend, the puppy would be from a friend. And, I would possibly suggest avoiding terms such as 'backyard breeder', as nonchalantly as you did. A quick google search states that they are: "an amateur animal breeder whose breeding is considered substandard, with little or misguided effort towards ethical, selective breeding".

      You've also stated that it was 'on impulse'. The user has had experience with dogs before ("After 10 years since my last pup, I'm a little rusty ><"), and the rest of the family wants a dog. This means that they have thought about getting a dog, and have decided that it would suit there current lifestyle and future lifestyle as they are moving. I really think you misread that post with negativity in mind.

      Since they have owned dogs before, they know of veterinary prices, adoption prices and the fees that come with handling a new dog. I understand you are all about 'adopt don't shop' by your post, but some people want full bred lines. That is there choice, and they not want to take in a shelter dog. They did, however, say that they had initially wanted one. They had said this, so your point here is really invalid.

      My first dog is from a BYB, my second from a local breeder. Those were my and my families choices and shouldn't be dictated by your idealogy. I am going into work helping rescue dogs, and do want rescue dogs in the future, but it really isn't up to you to tell people that buy dogs that they are in the wrong.

      I see that the person has now posted, but I still think you're in the wrong and will continue in posting this.
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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby Imzadi83 » Sun Apr 07, 2019 10:30 am

hyde wrote:
      ^^Imzadi

      I think seeing as the user said that it was from a friend, the puppy would be from a friend. And, I would possibly suggest avoiding terms such as 'backyard breeder', as nonchalantly as you did. A quick google search states that they are: "an amateur animal breeder whose breeding is considered substandard, with little or misguided effort towards ethical, selective breeding".

      You've also stated that it was 'on impulse'. The user has had experience with dogs before ("After 10 years since my last pup, I'm a little rusty ><"), and the rest of the family wants a dog. This means that they have thought about getting a dog, and have decided that it would suit there current lifestyle and future lifestyle as they are moving. I really think you misread that post with negativity in mind.

      Since they have owned dogs before, they know of veterinary prices, adoption prices and the fees that come with handling a new dog. I understand you are all about 'adopt don't shop' by your post, but some people want full bred lines. That is there choice, and they not want to take in a shelter dog. They did, however, say that they had initially wanted one. They had said this, so your point here is really invalid.

      My first dog is from a BYB, my second from a local breeder. Those were my and my families choices and shouldn't be dictated by your idealogy. I am going into work helping rescue dogs, and do want rescue dogs in the future, but it really isn't up to you to tell people that buy dogs that they are in the wrong.

      I see that the person has now posted, but I still think you're in the wrong and will continue in posting this.


I disagree. Just because someone is your friend doesn't make them an ethical breeder. No one should decide to get a puppy just because a friend is breeding one. Even if they were a responsible breeder, and the litter was responsibly bred, doesn't mean that they are the right breeder for you, or that a puppy from that litter is the right fit for your family.

Yes, you are correct about the definition of backyard breeder, that is what I meant, I did not misspeak. Based on the fact that they were unsure of the mix of dog, and that the breeding was not intentional, fits the definition of backyard breeder. A responsible breeder would never let that happen. The homes that those oops puppies are going to take up could have gone to dogs from shelters/rescues. That isn't saying that the BYB isn't otherwise a nice person, but I think people should be aware of the situation that is causing dogs and puppies to be killed in shelters by the millions in the US alone. The problem is that everyone thinks that the oops/friend litter doesn't matter, but it does because everyone feels that way.

I'm glad you're going into rescue and plan to rescue in the future. The reason we need rescue is because of BYBs and people that support them. In rescue you will encounter dogs with behavioral problems because BYBs didn't screen and/or support the puppy buyers or bred dogs with poor temperaments, unwanted dogs the breeders won't take back; you will encounter dogs with physical problems because BYBs wanted to make some money and so wouldn't spend any to health test the parents, you will encounter litters who couldn't be sold and are dumped, often from oops litters from people who failed to keep their female from getting pregnant, people who bred their dog just for the joy of having puppies and found out later that their friends/family who said they wanted a puppy changed their mind, you will encounter females who have to have emergency spays because there is just no room in the system for another litter of puppies.

Where do you think they all come from? They come from a BYB who many have been someone's friend/neighbor/etc. Dogs aren't wild animals, so stray/feral/or given up, somewhere along the line most of the dogs in shelters and rescues were failed by a human. So yes it is my ideology that people should be educated about BYBs and warned about the dangers of supporting them. I personally don't see anything wrong with that. I know of many people who wished they had been educated about these things before they'd gotten a puppy.

The woman who runs the rescue I adopted Chloe from got her first Pug from a BYB. I have no doubt that the woman loved and offered the best care to that dog, and that the dog was a wonderful pet. But that dog also had a ton of health problems that caused it to suffer greatly and that could've been prevented by responsible breeding, she confronted the BYB and luckily convinced her to stop breeding. I don't hate this woman for making that mistake in the first place, she made a mistake, she learned from it and now has dedicated her life to helping dogs. But the reason why I brought up this topic is so that other people don't have to make that mistake in the first place. So that someone doesn't have to watch their pet suffer when it could've been prevented by going to a responsible breeder instead of supporting an irresponsible one.

I bring up this topic so that that people like you who are good heart-ed don't make friends with a dog in a shelter only to find out it's on the euthanasia list because it's the fourth pure bred Lab they have and people would rather get a puppy from the same BYB that bred that dog in the first place.

Again I realize that the OP may not have the ability to make the finial decision about whether or not this puppy comes into their lives, but they, and their family deserve to know the reality of the situation. Even if it doesn't change their mind, maybe it will change somebodies, and that makes it worth it to me to discuss it. This is a discussion forum after all.

Please know I have nothing personal against you or your dog dogs. People make mistakes but they also should, and deserve, to be educated. I'm not trying to make you feel bad about decisions made you can't change. But in the future I hope you, and others make more humane ones. I'm sorry if I come off as nasty or preachy, but I'm tired of seeing my fellow rescue workers crying because they have decide which of the nice adoptable dogs have to be put down because the shelter is overcrowded and all the rescues are full.

You may have been great dog owners who supported your dogs their entire lives, but what about every other puppy from that litter, or the next litter, or the next? BYBs and the people who buy from them are contributing to the over population of dogs and their subsequent killing in shelters. That is the reality. Again, I'm not attacking you or your dogs, I'm asking you and everyone to be aware of the reality of what is happening and to help solve the problem. I get that it is not a comfortable topic, but it needs to be discussed.

Again I'm not attacking you or the OP, but I was concerned and wanted to advise that they (and their family) put serious consideration into this decision. And I hope to encourage others to stop buying from BYBs because it's the only way the madness is going to stop. And look, I get it. Not everyone wants and adult dog, and not everyone will find a good match in their local shelter. But choosing a puppy should never be done on the basis of convenience or happenstance. People need and deserved (I'm not pointing fingers at the OP but want to address everyone everywhere) to be educated on the potential consequences of going to a BYB, no matter how nice they may be otherwise, for a puppy.
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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby .Middy. » Sun Apr 07, 2019 11:05 am

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Super proud of my perfect girl yesterday! We went up to a dock event last minute and she got her first twin Qs towards her novice title! Should get her novice title at the Easter trial provided she doesn’t start jumping into the next level 😂

First Q was 3.6ft and was more of a plop but her second was a actual jump and she hit 5ft! Not super far yet but hopefully now that she knows she can jump we will get further in the future!
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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby ᴍᴀᴏᴄɪғᴇʀ » Sun Apr 07, 2019 11:55 am

    @.Middy.
      Congrats, O! Not so long ago you were just a little pupper in a backpack with wonky ears, now look at you!
      Hecc, I don't even know what dock diving is, but I'm so proud of her. It's nice to have watched her grow up like this <3 Imagine it now, Champion Octavia.


    @Imzadi83
      I didn't think your initial post was intended to be negative, though the above one comes off a little more so.
      The only reason I'm unsure of the breed is because my stepmum doesn't know dogs very well and likely doesn't remember the breed she was told, she's only guessing by shape. I know what a backyard breeder is, as does probably everyone on this thread, and I certainly wouldn't call her that. Her health-checked family dog got pregnant by mistake and she took care of her and her pups, she's not selling the puppies for a profit (£100 sounds like a big loss when you factor in each vaccination and every check up mum and pups had), and, as far as I know, probably doesn't intend to breed her again. Just because it wasn't a planned litter makes it unethical?
      The other people the puppies have gone to are ones who already stated, prior to her getting pregnant, that they'd like one of her puppies because of how good-natured she is. I doubt any of those people would've got another dog if it wasn't her puppy, so they're likely not stealing away a rescue's place. Again, I've never met her or the dog, so it's all word-of-mouth.

      In your defense, I probably should have said this before, though I didn't predict it being such a big thing.


      Of course, I was a little concerned when my stepmum texted me saying "heyy let's get this puppy," instead of talking about it first, but her daughter was refusing to have a shelter dog and I don't mind looking after it.
      She held it for maybe all of an hour and decided to reserve him, we haven't even properly met him, I myself am a little mad.
      I'm not encouraging impulse buying, I wouldn't want to be surprised by a puppy, but a pup from a dog my stepmum knows and likes is better -in her eyes- than a stranger with pedigree or a rescue.

      Sorry if this is completely incoherent. It was a lot to read and it's extremely late.
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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby Imzadi83 » Sun Apr 07, 2019 1:20 pm

ᴍᴀᴏᴄɪғᴇʀ wrote:
    @.Middy.
      Congrats, O! Not so long ago you were just a little pupper in a backpack with wonky ears, now look at you!
      Hecc, I don't even know what dock diving is, but I'm so proud of her. It's nice to have watched her grow up like this <3 Imagine it now, Champion Octavia.


    @Imzadi83
      I didn't think your initial post was intended to be negative, though the above one comes off a little more so.
      The only reason I'm unsure of the breed is because my stepmum doesn't know dogs very well and likely doesn't remember the breed she was told, she's only guessing by shape. I know what a backyard breeder is, as does probably everyone on this thread, and I certainly wouldn't call her that. Her health-checked family dog got pregnant by mistake and she took care of her and her pups, she's not selling the puppies for a profit (£100 sounds like a big loss when you factor in each vaccination and every check up mum and pups had), and, as far as I know, probably doesn't intend to breed her again. Just because it wasn't a planned litter makes it unethical?
      The other people the puppies have gone to are ones who already stated, prior to her getting pregnant, that they'd like one of her puppies because of how good-natured she is. I doubt any of those people would've got another dog if it wasn't her puppy, so they're likely not stealing away a rescue's place. Again, I've never met her or the dog, so it's all word-of-mouth.

      In your defense, I probably should have said this before, though I didn't predict it being such a big thing.


      Of course, I was a little concerned when my stepmum texted me saying "heyy let's get this puppy," instead of talking about it first, but her daughter was refusing to have a shelter dog and I don't mind looking after it.
      She held it for maybe all of an hour and decided to reserve him, we haven't even properly met him, I myself am a little mad.
      I'm not encouraging impulse buying, I wouldn't want to be surprised by a puppy, but a pup from a dog my stepmum knows and likes is better -in her eyes- than a stranger with pedigree or a rescue.

      Sorry if this is completely incoherent. It was a lot to read and it's extremely late.


Yes, in my opinion an unplanned litter is unethical, no one should allow it to happen. This litter was BYB regardless of the price she is charging for them. I'm glad she's trying to take care of the puppies now but her female shouldn't have been allowed to get pregnant in the first place. It's not that hard to keep a female from getting pregnant, it's part of responsible ownership of owning an intact female. If one can't handle that then don't keep your female intact.

A dog being good natured doesn't mean it's worth breeding. Plenty of good natured dogs are killed in shelters every day. If those people really wanted a dog they could have gotten a similar quality one from a shelter/rescue. Just because you like a female isn't a responsible reason to get a dog. What happens when they take the puppy home and it's nothing like the mother? Will the breeder take them back? A responsible one would and would have been prepared to do so from the get go.

The quality of this puppy is just as chancy as adopting one from a shelter. What if the father had a genetic disease that he passed on to the pups? Or what if his genetics combined with the female cause problems? Most people understand you're taking that risk when you adopt from a shelter/rescue. Unfortunately however many people don't realize that a puppy from a BYB is just as much of a question mark, only they usually have higher price tags.

You don't think the owner intends to breed again, but she never intended to breed in the first place either. So what happens to the next "oops" litter? Will she keep those she can't sell? Will she take back the others anytime in their lives if the owners change their mind? If not, where will they end up but in a shelter/rescue? What about the puppies, is she altering them before placement, putting it in the contract that they must be altered and planing on following up on that, or is she trusting they won't be bred, or does she not care they're bred and what happens to those puppies or the ones after that?

Again I realize you in particular can't help what your Stepmom does, and that you may not be able to change your mind. I get that and am not trying to pick on you, or this puppy, personally. I'm trying to spread awareness of the short and long term effects of BYBs and buying from BYBs. So many people have wound up stuck with a problem puppy or just one they later regret that turns into a dog that winds up in the shelter system, by this point past the cute puppy phase, only to be someone else's problem to fix, care for, re-home. Even if a particular puppy doesn't have any obvious problems due to bad breeding, dogs from BYBs can easily wind up in homes that aren't a good fit for them. Matchmaking is hard for people who've done it for years let alone for people who've never done it and are trying to home a litter they weren't prepared for.

BYBs make it easy for people to buy dogs, too easy. Dog ownership isn't easy and both responsible shelters/rescues and responsible breeders are very careful about placing and keeping up with puppy buyers/adopters so they don't wind up back in the system. Otherwise both parties are contributing to the problem of overpopulation and subsequent death of millions of dogs.

I'm sorry if I come off as hostile (I'm in a lot of pain today), I just want to get the word out and educate people. I'm just tired of hearing of dogs suffering from genetic problems that could've been avoided with proper testing and responsible breeding. I'm tired of seeing people who should not have gotten a puppy in the first place (but a BYB was glad to sell them one) dump it in the shelter when it turns out raising a puppy is hard work. I'm tired of BYBs who allow oops litters to happen when shelters are euthanizing puppies by litter fulls. I'm tired of people who spend $750 or more for a "papered" puppy but won't adopt the $300 shelter puppy because they mistakenly think the first is better somehow. I'm just tired.

From what I read from you it sounds like you will be a responsible caregiver to this puppy or any dog, and again, I understand you don't have the final say in this instance. I just want to put the information out there so that others, when they have the ability, don't support BYBs. If people stopped buying puppies from BYBs, if it was more difficult for them to find homes and they had to live with the mess/expense of a growing litter of puppies, possibly with health problems maybe it would make more people think twice before breeding (even by accident) in the first place. And I don't believe that BYBs in general are evil, but if they had to face the fact that there are already great puppies being killed in shelters then maybe they would stop and think before they produce more.
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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby Skysong » Sun Apr 07, 2019 1:58 pm

My aunt picked up a male Shepherd the other day from New York. Her plan is no longer paying out of pocket for trips when her girls haven’t let the stud they’re with near them.

He passed his hip and elbow tests with flying colors, giving him an okay for breeding, and he’s an absolutely beautiful dog.

My aunt also got her final fast cat for her girl, Sasha. C:
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