by Thalassic » Fri Sep 30, 2016 7:06 am
It's best to keep the first introduction sessions short and sweet. You should pick one room of the house where the kitten can stay for a while and where Neo wouldn't be allowed to go, at least until they get comfortable around each other. I suggest having one litter box in this room, and another one elsewhere in the house for your Neo to use.
I've heard of this being a good method, and my cats used it a couple times too. Basically, if you have a small space between your floor and the door, you can call both cats to the door and let them sniff each other, maybe even stick a paw out at each other. Give them some treats and repeat a couple times.
After that (like, say, a week after doing the door thing), you could let Neo inside of the room, let her sniff around and come close to the kitten. If either of them show any sort of aggression, then stop this and try again tomorrow. The first couple weeks should be just for the cats to briefly meet each other under your close supervision. After that, you can start letting the kitten explore the rest of the house, while still keeping a close watch on them, in case the kitten intrudes in Neo's space and they get in a fight.
It's hard to say when you should stop watching their every move. It really depends on your cats. On some days my two will get along and sleep almost next to eachother. Other days they will chase eachother and fight, though so far the cat screams sound way worse than the fight actually is. But the more time they spend in the same space, the more they will come to tolerate each other. I've had my kitten home for about 5 months, and he is around 6 months old while my older cat is around 13 years old. And I'd say they tolerate eachother just fine about 9/10 times. The rest of that is full with glares, smacking eachother and running away, chasing eachother, and fighting.
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