by Shadowflight13 » Tue Aug 28, 2018 1:27 pm
How do your cats deal with grief?
Smokestar: Smoke shuts down and goes on autopilot. She'll continue to do whatever it is that is expected of her/whatever she needs to do to survive, but she will feel none of it. She goes completely numb. This is, of course, until Briarstrike gets her to open up--then she grieves with her mate to comfort her. But she never lets anyone (other than Briar) see her cry.
Briarstrike: When Briarstrike is grieving, EVERY cat in a mile radius is going to know about it. Maybe a slight exaggeration, but she makes no effort to hide her feelings. If she wants to cry, she cries, if she wants to scream, she screams. Often she will lash out at the cats around her--other than Smokestar. Smoke is the only one able to calm her down. When with Smoke, she will quiet down a bit, but will still cry openly.
Honeycloud: Honeycloud doesn't like burdening other cats with her feelings. She will try to keep grief buried deep inside, and keep a kind smile on her face. When alone, she will steal small moments of time to allow herself to grieve, but as soon as she's around other cats, she's smiling again. It takes a lot of convincing from a friend for her to be open about her grief, and allow herself to be comforted.
Driftheart: Driftheart remains fairly stoic when he grieves. He doesn't mind other cats seeing him do it, but he will usually just be more quiet than usual as he processes his feelings by himself. If pressed, he will open up about his feelings, but conversations usually end with "but that's okay" or some other dismissive saying, as talking about his grief doesn't help him much. He will, however, readily accept others efforts to comfort him without speaking, even the smallest of gestures are met with gratitude.
Orchidleaf: Orchidleaf tries to remain calm when grieving, for her Clanmates sake. Often she will turn to Starclan with her grief, comforting herself with the knowledge that dead cats are safely with the Clan's ancestors, watching over the Clan. Greeting the dead cat on a trip to the Star Pit is the best way to help her with her grief, and she is also more than willing to allow others close to the deceased to accompany her, if she believes it will soothe their anguish.
Dustpaw: Dustpaw seeks comfort from others when he is grieving, usually in the form of physical contact. Cuddling with another cat, feeling their warmth against his, listening to their heartbeat--it grounds him, and pulls him back to earth. If left alone, grief might consume him, leaving him unable to much more than lay on the ground.
Lynxpaw: Lynxpaw deals with grief by getting angry. She gets angry at herself, at others around her, at Starclan--anyone is a target of her fury. She is irritable and snaps at everyone, feeling unable to cry. Anger protects her from worse emotions, especially if she blames herself--despair is dangerous, much more so than anger. Anger is simple, and easy to project. While grieving she will often seek solitude, as part of her doesn't want to blame her Clanmates for something that is likely not their fault. If a cat allows her to vent her anger on them for long enough, eventually the fury will ebb, leaving sadness in its wake, and finally she will cry. This is the only way she can find closure.
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