by 22tabby » Sat Oct 26, 2019 4:23 pm
Soft Sand wrote:Hello! I'm relatively new to the fandom, so I can't fully fill out the form since my fursona and FA and such are still a WIP. I hope it's okay to post here regardless; let me know if I need to do anything else.
I just wanted to pop in and ask: to any fellow trans/nonbinary furries, do you feel that your gender identity is part of why you're a furry? I think that's the case for me, and I've been told it's common but haven't actually met someone who feels the same.
Of course there's other reasons for me as well (simply loving animals~) but I feel like having a fursona and a suit in particular could also help relieve my dysphoria. After all:
- character I can customize however I want - pride flag colors anyone?
- suit hides face (even for a mini partial) and body shape (well, that would work best with a 3/4 or full, but maybe someday..)
- being anonymous (at least relatively) helps me be more confident with regards to stating my pronouns
- anthro animals don't need to have any inherently "gendered" traits, so hopefully strangers would treat me more neutrally when in costume
- furry community overall is much more diverse and accepting than the general population, so I don't have to be afraid if/when I go to a furmeet or convention, not to mention online communities like this thread!
So... anyone else?
Hello!
I can say personally, my involvement in the Furry fandom has nothing at all with me being trans. The closest thing I could relate to that is.. my fursona is a cis-male. Suiting has never helped my own dysphoria personally, and since I am someone who likes to be able to talk while suiting, most people automatically know that I’m afab just by my voice. Sometimes I find that it actually makes it worse because it makes me hate my voice more than I do on most days.
But! I’ve never heard that that’s a common thing, so perhaps that’s why I don’t relate to the experience. It’s nice to know that it can help a lot of people, especially since, of course, it’s such a crippling thing.
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