I understand what you mean, but I'm more or less neutral against the Qunari, at least for the time being. It seems that most people I've talked to seem to love Fenris and hold him as one of their favorite characters, but they also feel very strongly in favor of the mages. From an outside perspective the two wouldn't seem to go together but they often do. If that makes any sense. .u. It's easy to love the mages but it's also easy to love the things that oppose them.
I had no choice but to fight the Arishok because Isabela took off and didn't come back; I failed to get her friendship high enough. That was a tough fight, too. My poor little rogue Hawke, running around trying to avoid being impaled. x3