Lunaire wrote:to any/all :
who do you prefer- steve, raymond, or gillian :0?
Steve, no questions asked.
jesse ridgeway wrote:what is your advice for long distance relationships? c:
I'm currently in an LDR with my boyfriend that I met two years ago through mutual online friends and playing League of Legends. We started dating a year after we met (although we had expressed interest in each other from the start) and we have seen each other in person 5 times now.
Communication and honesty are key. It is so important to express how you are feeling to your partner! If something upsets you, you need to communicate it to them; they can't read your mind. Honesty is important because an LDR requires a huge amount of trust, and if you cannot be honest with each other, then how are you going to trust each other?
You need to be willing to accept the fact that you cannot physically spend time with this person right now, and you have to be okay with that. You may not see this person for months or even years. Do the pros outweigh the cons?
Finally, you need a plan for the future. If you truly love this person and want to be with them, then it should not be odd or out of the question to consider your future living arrangements. You aren't going to stay in an LDR your whole life, so what are you going to do when the time comes? Will you move to be with them, will they move to be with you, or will you both move to a completely different location? Talking about marriage with your partner shouldn't be weird or uncalled for if you two express feelings of love and desire to be with each other for a very long time.
Ranger of the North wrote:What's your favourite pet and/or item to come from the Lost City so far? :D




I can't pick one favorite!
Konata. wrote:To anyone:
Do you make your own sig?
Yup! I'm cheap so I'd rather learn how to do something myself rather than paying for it. xD