Animall wrote:@AudreyPotter
It was all dealt with wrong, it's still being dealt with wrong, there still hasn't been an announcement has been made... that's fine to you?
The staff have been amazing. The staff that are unpaid, volunteer their time and passion for this website, and truly love CS have put countless hours into CS... I'm so impressed by what they have been able to accomplish during these hard times on CS. A lot of anger, frustration, misinformation, and lack of information... It's a lot to deal with. For FREE. For absolutely nothing they do this for us and they deserve respect for what they've done. Massive w for them.
But they shouldn't of had to do that. Let me be the one to draw the line in the sand here.
The staff should not have been dealing with this issue. The ADMINS needed to make an announcement and take control of this situation. Instead, they sat back and let their staff on the front lines. Everyone is angry at what's going on and the staff gets the backlash. IMO this is abusive behavior from the admins. The staff are regular users with colored names and more permissions. Some of these guys I've known of since I was a child. I respect them. Staff outright told us they don't know much about what's happening at all.
Administration needs to be catching the flack here. That's where the power and the mistakes are happening.
Very well said. And [@AudreyPotter] I still don't know what point I missed, it would help if you just said what I "missed" instead of being vague and just hoping I figure it out. I'm really trying to understand what you mean but you won't elaborate? It's basically what the admins are doing to the users so I guess I see your standing now..
No one wanted this, we're all stuck in the same sucky boat, some more than others. But rather than be hateful towards anyone who you think has power, we just need to stick together....yanno?
But when someone had a different "opinion" from you, you made such a rude post and commented on them in such a rude way? I'm sorry, but this is just looking majorly disingenuous and dismissive. That and hypocritical.
Just agree to disagree and remember not every discussion will end with everyone being on the same page. People will have different opinions and that's okay :thumbup:
Even when differing opinions cause people to treat other like you did? At this point I don't even think I can understand whatever point you're trying to make because of that other post you posted.
I'll leave it at that.
And to tie that all back to the issue at hand, saying "agree to disagree" in this case doesn't work. In my opinion, that's just saying "Let's just forget all this and pretend it didn't happen. I mean they tried right?"
It's a lousy excuse, and things like this shouldn't have happened in the first place, and they WOULDN'T have happened if there was 2FA.
Yes, people make mistakes.
NO, that doesn't mean it's ok to have let this unfold the way it did, without a proper protocol/way to handle it while making sure people are aware AND reassuring people that things will be ok.
Agreeing to disagree just leaves the door wide open to more situations like this. And that's the LAST thing everyone wants.
What we need to agree on, is to work together as a community to make sure that we're all in this together and that we all stay notified about this things, as fast/clearly as possible.
Not only that, but admins do need to step up. I feel horrible for all the other mods/members of staff that had no control. I know that if I were in that position, I'd be stressed. And yes, some people misunderstood the roles that certain staff had. But at this point in time I hope we can all realize that General Helpers & Global mods don't control these things, Just admins [and possibly admin assistants on a smaller scale]. It's not only the users that need help, but other staff as well.
The continued emphasis on "Hey staff are human let's just chill" is bugging me, purely because we all know this already. At this stage, it just seems like someone trying to convince a child to stop crying because the bee they were stung by "didn't mean it".
Things aren't always intentional, but a negative experience is a negative experience.
For example, you're a baker teaching someone how to bake a cake. The first time, it turns out bad because they measured the flour by scooping it out with the measuring cup and packing it down, rather than using a scale to weigh it or a spoon to scoop into the cup.
You tell them what the mistake was, the correct way to do it, and the next time they know to do better.
It's not enough to just say "well, you'll get it next time", especially if you're the one who's overseeing this or in charge. You're not letting them know the issue, and just leaving the issue open ended for possibly more mistakes. It's just irresponsible as someone who's teaching someone else something, or in this case, admins with control over what happens in/with the site.
Even in real life, I believe that those in positions of power/authority have the duty and responsibility to do their job well, which includes handling situations like this as swiftly and as controlled as possible.
The lack of announcements led to the spread of misinformation. The lack of admin action led to users feeling deserted/abandoned in their time of need. Not only me, but other people's relationship with the site has drastically changed because of this. [For me, it's happened at a rate faster than I was expecting.]
Admins are people too. Of course, I understand that. But I feel like if you're an admin/boss/manager anywhere and you genuinely do NOT have the time/energy to put into your job, step down. This goes for any job/position anywhere. If you're a head nurse at a hospital you can't just sit back and let things take course. You NEED to be hands on.
If you are the manager at a clothing retail store, you can't just be sitting in the back the whole time, hoping your employees "got it". You need to be present with the employees and customers. Not only does it create a good impression of the establishment, but it makes your employees and customers feel like this is serious and that you DO care. It creates
a memorable POSITIVE experience.Lack of work/action means that everyone else has to pick up the slack that they otherwise would not have to do.
The regular staff were essentially left alone to interpret all of this. And to handle the distressed messages/concerns of users.
And the users were left to support themselves, helping one another out of debt.
And all of that has created
a memorable NEGATIVE experience.Without the users,
there is no site.
I hope this all makes sense. I hope I don't sound rude or attacking, I'm just trying hard to make sure my point gets across while explaining my thinking behind it.
[None of this is meant to be rude/hostile or anything of the sort. Just heartfelt from someone who's still upset about the situation.]