Logia wrote:Maybe there should be something in the site rules where overly hostile messages about trades can get reported. I think a little humility would help too. I've had someone yell at me about a trade when it was actually them who didn't realize the value of something.
For real, I’ve had some uncomfortable messages in PMs after declining a trade even if they weren’t outright rude. Like saying that they were “extremely over” (on their side, I suppose) implying that meant I should’ve accepted even if I didn’t want whatever they were offering. Similarly I’ve gotten messages about how something is a “list pet, just saying” like that automatically invalidates whatever was on my side.
It’s just something about these passive aggressive messages after the cancellation of a trade that makes me wary of trading a lot that isn’t straight up monthly litterswaps because of the murky waters of trading pets that are years apart because I don’t really get the whole “list” and “ma” thing, and linking me a forum post doesn’t help my understanding much. Like… I’m sorry I didn’t want to accept or that I didn’t offer enough in your eyes? Just communicating without being condescending would do just fine.
Usually I either get lucky with pound catches, free adopts, or off-site trades for my valuable pets, the latter which I haven’t got a whole lot of anymore.