WastedSpace wrote:Pinesong wrote:So um, this is for my friend who needs relationship advice:
Y= my friend
J= her crush
So three years ago, my friend group found out that J liked my friend Y. It wasn't that much of a big deal because at this point, Y liked someone else. At the begging of last year, Y started to like J. Throughout the year they began getting closer and started becoming really good friends. Y started liking him on and off until the end of last year (ish). Then she started crushing on him BIG time. Everyone knows that they like each other and they have told each other that they like each other, it's just that nothing ever happens between them. Y really wants something to happen and she wants to start dating but J doesn't 'want to start dating anyone yet' just because they're young and everything. From my point of view, they're actually really comfortable around eachother and actually get on so well. I guess they're just tuning right now. Y gets really frustrated sometimes and doesn't understand why they can't just date already. I mean, J has told her himself that he 'really likes her', and hangs around Y all the time. It's things like this that Y just doesn't get. That he's liked her for 3 years and still doesn't want to go anywhere. I guess she does just have to respect J's opinions but they're getting so much closer but nothing seems to be happening for her.
Just looking for some advice on what she should do/think?
I think if he's not ready to date yet, she shouldn't torture herself by sitting here bemoaning that they're not dating while getting closer to him and not getting what she wants. I would suggest that she find a new activity/hobby/sport/volunteer activity. Get out there and do something fun and fulfilling that she likes, just for herself. I actually think J is making a mature decision in not wanting to date yet. Your friend should make an equally mature decision in finding something else to fill her life with, at least for right now. Dating isn't the end all, be all of life. And if she's really ready to date and is really old enough to do so, there's no use sitting here crying over someone who has said no. There's plenty of life out there to live!
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