Sushidragon. wrote:Ok so I have a crush on a girl Im like 90% sure is straight...
And I wanna ask her out but I don't want her to gossip out me to her friends. I'm not fully out as bi yet but I want to start being her friend or just generally get to know her more, but she is already in a tight knot of friends. Any tips anyone can give me? Any help is appreciated ❤️
i would probably start by instead of suggesting anything serious with her, just try to casually admit you have a crush on her/confess, or even just say something like "hey you're really cool and I'd like to hang out sometime!". Test things out a little and maybe try hanging out with her and her friends sometimes. I understand that things like that are hard, as someone who's not fully out myself.
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i actually get to actually date my crush,, >< i'm so happy but i'm worried because I'm feeling something stronger than I have in a while and I don't know how that will affect my relationship with my other partners. Especially when I promised them I'd always love them the same. I suppose that's still true?...but this new discovery that my feelings are ballooning like i've never felt before and the possibility that I could like this person more than my other partners stresses me out.