♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[Deku_is_best_boi]

update on me and the guy who kissed: we are now dating and i've never been happier in my life

[karinfu]

This is kind of a strange problem if anyone wants to hear me out
I get very jealous over my boyfriend /: jealous to the extent that I feel it when he hangs out with his friends, and even to the extent that I get jealous over his twin sister...
I don’t mean or want to feel like this, it just suddenly wells up in my stomach and I try to push it down. I do end up pushing it down, but it doesn’t stop it effecting my mood, making me a bit grumpy and moody.

I do think it’s strange that I feel like this over his twin sister. My previous boyfriends have never texted girls before, let alone be so close to one in this way, so I suppose I’m just not used to it. But it’s still a feeling that needs to be stopped.
I’d also like to point out that I have no siblings, so I really don’t understand their relationship, and I don’t know if this could be used as a reason for getting this feeling.

It’s annoying because I really really want to be friends with her, but my brain’s just like “female our age is close to my boyfriend 😡” and it’s so stupid

Does anybody have any advise on how to get over this feeling? I hate feeling like I’m a controlling or possessive girlfriend just because I get moody over this

[mykeecore]

This is kind of a strange problem if anyone wants to hear me out
I get very jealous over my boyfriend /: jealous to the extent that I feel it when he hangs out with his friends, and even to the extent that I get jealous over his twin sister...
I don’t mean or want to feel like this, it just suddenly wells up in my stomach and I try to push it down. I do end up pushing it down, but it doesn’t stop it effecting my mood, making me a bit grumpy and moody.

I do think it’s strange that I feel like this over his twin sister. My previous boyfriends have never texted girls before, let alone be so close to one in this way, so I suppose I’m just not used to it. But it’s still a feeling that needs to be stopped.
I’d also like to point out that I have no siblings, so I really don’t understand their relationship, and I don’t know if this could be used as a reason for getting this feeling.

It’s annoying because I really really want to be friends with her, but my brain’s just like “female our age is close to my boyfriend 😡” and it’s so stupid

Does anybody have any advise on how to get over this feeling? I hate feeling like I’m a controlling or possessive girlfriend just because I get moody over this

@karinfu You’re not alone, I often inadvertently feel super jealous when my boyfriend hangs out with others, despite our healthy relationship and strong bond. I’ve found that affirmations, repeating things like “he still loves and cares about me” or “he’s his own person and has his own friends,” work well for me. You could also get to know his sister, and see that maybe she’s not so bad. The last thing I’d recommend is talking to your boyfriend about it and seeing if you two can come to an agreement, or work out your feelings.

Having these feelings doesn’t necessarily make you controlling or possessive, everyone has negative thoughts and feelings they don’t like. Acting on those feelings is different though, but if you’re looking to get help in dealing with them I don’t think that’s a problem lol. I hope this helped ^^

[CorvidCryptid]

what's a good last-minute birthday gift for a boyfriend? ♥
i already have a few ready for him but maybe i'm missing a cherry on top or something haha

Write a small poem or something. Something handmade maybe, something he knows you have put the effort into yourself

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[Cinxer]

So ive been talking to this guy for a few weeks now and we finally had our first date. We were both excited beforehand. It went horribly. We planned to go hiking on a trail with bear in the name so obviously we needed to bring some bear spray. We get to the store to find its locked and too expensive. We ended up going to a trail near a middle school to hike. The first few minutes were fine but then I got SWARMED by mosquitos. I wanted to turn back very soon but he wasnt getting bitten nearly as much as I was so we kept going. He said he had mosquito spray in his car but when we got back he realized he did not. I was still being attacked and thought we would leave right then but nope! We went on a hill and played a few rounds of cards which was nice. Then a moose walked up on us so we moved.
Cut to arriving home; I got bit by no-see-ums and I have very bad reactions to them. I get very sick, swollen, and high fever. So needless to say there will be no second date.

Ling story short: if you have a feeling you wont work out with someone, trust that feeling T-T

[venti]

So ive been talking to this guy for a few weeks now and we finally had a first date. It was horrible. We planned to go hiking on a trail with bear in the name so obviously we needed to bring some bear spray. We get to the store to find its locked and too expensive. We ended up going to a trail near a middle school to hike. The first few minutes were fine but then I got SWARMED by mosquitos. I wanted to turn back very soon but he wasnt getting bitten nearly as much as I was so we kept going. He said he had mosquito spray in his car but when we got back he realized he did not. I was still being attacked and thought we would leave right then but nope! We went on a hill and played a few rounds of cards which was nice. Cut to arriving home; I got bit by no-see-ums and I have very bad reactions to them. I get very sick, swollen, and high fever. So needless to say there will be no second date.

Ling story short: if you have a feeling you wont work out with someone, trust that feeling T-T

Poor you! I hope you're OK!

[tiredofbeingsad]

Agh this is dumb but we've been together over seven months and we haven't even held hands. It's not a huge deal, but physical contact is REALLY Important to me and so I'm just not sure how to break the ice a little..help? Please?

[SilentHades]

This is a bit of a weird one, but...

I've known this guy for years. Met him online, ended up meeting him IRL for the first time a few years ago. We called every night and eventually ended up in a long-distance relationship where we would start movies at the same time and play games online and stuff to stay close. Almost a year ago now I decided to start a life with him, but due to past traumas I told him that we'd have to live with each other for at least year before we decided whether or not we wanted to actually continue a stable relationship together or get married.

Well... since that year is almost here and we've been talking about getting married, I went ahead and bought a ring for him and a fancy Nordic-style box to put it in. Now... here's the issue... I don't know how to propose. I wanted to be the one to do it since I was the one who imposed so many rules at the start and because I think it would both irritate him and make him super happy. My original plan was to go and teach him how to iceskate since I used to figureskate when I was a kid and still like to do it... but with the quarantine that isn't an option, so... any ideas?

[ᴇᴜᴛᴏɴʏ]

Agh this is dumb but we've been together over seven months and we haven't even held hands. It's not a huge deal, but physical contact is REALLY Important to me and so I'm just not sure how to break the ice a little..help? Please?

hey, i understand that completely.
i was in this (almost exact) situation with my boyfriend and all i had to do was address how i was feeling. if you'd like to be more physical with him all you have to do is talk to him and ask him if he's comfortable with that, it may sound a little bit difficult or like an uncomfortable scenario, but trust me it is a lot nicer to get these things off of your chest! if you don't know how to go about it just either text him/walk up to him and tell him you need to talk and then discuss/describe what you would like and/or how this makes you feel.

best of luck <3