Oh. My. God.
Okay, so I have this friend
Every time they come over, they pet my dog, and carry them, then get upset when the dog doesn't like strangers. They keep acting like "Oh, this is my dog now, don't do this, don't do that"
This is my dog, they have been with me for a while and have grown a very strong bond to me, I think I know what I'm doing by carrying my dog the right way that she loves.