haru,
i know you probably hate me and you have every reason to. our relationship was kind of doomed from the very beginning, wasn't it? i wish we could've been nicer to each other, could've not been so codependent and toxic and volatile in the short time we were friends. it's hard for me to even write this knowing the things i said to you, said about you, even though i know you've done the same.
i don't know why i acted that way towards you. that isn't who i am, and it never has been. i let my emotions get the best of me for the better part of a year and you were just someone for me to take it out on. i showed the worst parts of myself over and over again and forced you to deal with me.
i wish i could tell you how much i regret all of it. i hate the way i acted towards you and ian. i hate how i pushed everyone away and took everything out on myself, and refused to see how immature i was being when you were only trying to help me. i hate that i lost you over it, and as much as i've tried to get my life together since september, i'm still hurting. i still miss you. i know you don't miss me, and that's okay, but i wish i could have done things differently. i wish we both could've done things differently.
i wish you weren't in such a bad place right now, and i wonder if there's anything i could've done to help. i mean, being real, i probably would have made it worse and i'm glad you're getting the help you need. but god i wish i could've been there for you. that's just me being selfish, though.
maybe someday we can start over and learn from our mistakes. i'd be lying if i said a small part of me wasn't hoping you reply to that message, as short as it was. i know i'll be okay and we were better off ending things where we did, but i miss you so much.
i know you're going places in life, even if it's without me. i love you no matter what.
~ zav