❅Fairy_floss❅ wrote:So uh, My friend told a classmate that I have a crush on someone that he knows. So when she told him who I like, The classmate told the brother/twin of my crush and I'm scared that the brother will tell my crush that I like him. She also did the same thing to my other friend. I'm scared hhhhhh I have a class with him tomorrow. I'm thinking of not being her friend anymore, I can't trust her especially when she did that.
Any help?
Decide if you want to own up to how you feel or deny it if he approaches you. Then just take it from there. Try not to overly worry. While it's not what you wanted to happen, this is a common school experience, and it's not going to be the end of the world.
About your friend, it's fair to be hurt by this secret telling. Have you tried talking to her about it?
BeccaScribbles wrote:Okay so there's this cool cafe opening in my town and I wanted to invite a group of my friends to all go and pay for the party. However, long story short, I can't bring my male friend because my other friend hates his guts (He upset me and she doesn't like him because of it. They don't know each other and he doesn't know that she dislikes him and I'm sure she'd be moral enough to grin and bear his company but I wouldn't want to put her through that anyhow. It would just be hella awkward.)
So if I was going to invite him, it would be just the two of us. Would it be awkward if I invited him to go to the cafe with me alone? I mean, to make it worse he has a girlfriend and I don't want to do anything to cross the line. We usually hang out alone but that's for music practice (we're in a duo band thing together), not leisure. Or after music practice so it's still not exactly the same. Should I invite him? Or will it cross the border of impeaching the idea of a date?
I just want to make clear that I use to like him but at this moment in time I do not. And I do not want this to seem like a date.
Inviting him on a date to tell him you don't want to date him is just going to be very confusing and conflicting. Tbh, he's got a girlfriend, so inviting him somewhere alone just to tell him you don't like him... IMO, it's going to end up seeming like you're desperately in love with him and trying to convince him otherwise. He's got a girlfriend. You respect that. I don't think that your feelings have passed needs to be explicitly stated. I think you show him by just casually showing you've moved on (ie, don't do something like get a fake boyfriend to make it seem like you've moved on - just act natural).
Just go with your friends to this cafe and have a good time.
