Azure Dreams wrote:(I hope this is all concidered child friendly, I didn't mention any self harm or anything like that so I'm hoping it's fine, it's just talking about depressing thoughts)
I just feel like I'm drifting away from the few friends I have left. The only thing that really makes me feel better is role-playing and fictional world's and now even a lot of my close internet friends won't reply to me, and I know they're online because they'll reply to other people. I feel like I'm just a burden to everyone around me. One of my best friends who I've drifted apart from over the last few years now won't even talk to me and is now invited to my birthday party. I don't know what I'm going to say to her since she probably has moved on like I clearly haven't. She was the only friend I was actually able to share my problems with but now I'm realizing that probably led to a lot of her own problems. I'm starting to realize I haven't really solved any of my issues and whenever I get upset about one thing, all the other stuff resurfaces and I end up getting so stressed I feel like I'm choking and want to throw up. I want to make new friends but every time I try to talk to someone I don't know I end up saying something stupid or I end up making friends with them only to loose my temper and get in some stupid argument that makes everyone hate me. The froemds I do have I end up being so clingy with because I don't want to loose them that I end up just coming off as annoying and desperate. People on another site I'm on more regularly have quote walls for their friends. My main quote is just 'hi', because I like to pester people so much that's it's become a joke. I don't think they mean to hurt my feelings but I don't want to say anything about it because I would probably come off as not being able to take a joke or being too serious. I never end up saying anything about how I feel to any of my actual friends because I don't want to be an attention seeker so instead I just post stupid stuff, in the case of my internet friends, or spend half my not even talking to them when they make an effort to talk to me in the in the case of my internet friends. They have their own issues and I haven't really done anything to help them so I feel like I'm being selfish by asking for their help. Everyone else has other, better friends then me and don't really need me anyways so it would probably just come out as attention seeking.
I know how it feels. It's hard when no one pays attention to you. I have the same problem. And you have to realize people can't see how you think, your friends can't see the way it hurts you to have them drift away from you. In this world everyone is out there for the better of themselves and very few take the consideration into other people's feelings. I know you probably might not agree with this, but I honestly believe that friends aren't really important. Ive realize the closer you are to someone the more vulnerable you are to get hurt. They'll hurt you when they leave you. I realized this because I have some friends that I trusted and told everything to. The one blew off everything I said and the other just ignores me like nothing ever happened. It's painful. And if they ignore you, it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. You have to realize you are special because you, just like everyone else in this world has the power to accomplish you're goals and to live your life with joy. Don't let anything hold back and make you feel miserable, I bet you have a goal in life you would love to keep going with the rest of your life. One that will make you happy. We only have one life so enjoy it and don't let something hold you down.
If you need any help with anything else PM me and I'll be glad to help! Your welcome!