TheComfortCorner | v.6

[.zombie]

ahhh i dont know??? i think im depressed. i need a pm from someone who is experienced. please and thank you.


like, school is giving me such a hard time and i feel as if ill never be able to turn them around. i feel as if im done for.
i wake up, i try to relax, i go to bed. every thought in my head revolves around what im supposed to be doing instead of procrastinating and how badly ill fail in life.
i just want to tell my family that im trying as best as i can, but i dont want to ruin anything. i feel as if im the cause of every problem in my family- wether the bad attitude or the low grades. i wish i was as good as my peers to be honest..

[aurora❅lights]

Hey everybody! I just wanted to say that if you are looking for somebody to
talk/vent/rant/etc to, feel free to PM me. I´ll always be here with open arms
and ready to read/listen. I hope that everybody has an absolutely amazing
day because you´re seriously worth it!

Below, I am going to be putting short and hopefully helpful advice/ things to
think about on specific topics. If you apply to any in the list that I am going
to create, then continue to read on until you get to your section.

Here is the list:

• Feeling down for ¨no reason¨/ cannot cope with the past
• Having trouble in school (education)
• Having trouble in school (social)
• Absolutely done with society and can only think about the negatives
• Other

Ғɛɛℓιиɢ Ɖσωи Ғσя Иσ Яɛαƨσи

Of course it depends on the situation you apply to, but if you´re feeling down
and you´re not sure why, then this is your place.

You can feel down due to past life situations. Your subconscious can be thinking
about a passed loved one and you might not even be aware of it. You may be
looking at something/someone that reminds you of them, and it may trigger your
subconscious to think this why. If you catch yourself in the act of thinking about
the past, then stop. Stop thinking about the past because you are done with the
past. You are in the present, not the past. Once something is done, it´s done.
You have no special powers to go back into the past and repetitively ask yourself
those haunting ¨what if¨ questions. You are worth so much more than drowning
in your past. You are in the now, and you must make the most of it.

Ħɛяɛ´ƨ ғιʌɛ ωαʏƨ тнαт ʏσʋ cαи ℓɛт ɢσ σғ тнɛ ραƨт:
1. Make the decision to let it go. Things don´t disappear on it´s own.
2. Express both your pain and your responsibility.
3. Stop being the victim and blaming others.
4. Focus on the present- the here and now- and joy.
5. Forgive both them and yourself.

Links:
10 Life-Changing Facts to Heal the Pain of the Past
Learning to Let Go of Past Hurts: 5 Ways to Move On
How to Leave the Past Behind


Ħαʌιиɢ Ƭяσʋвℓɛ ιи Ƨcнσσℓ (Є∂ʋcαтισи)

Trust me when I say I completely know what it´s like to struggle in school,
whether you are having procrastination problems, getting frustrated over
not being able to learn in certain subjects, getting too much homework
piled on your shoulders, etc. I understand.

There will always be a certain subject that will you won´t be as strong in
as the others, but you can still improve your performance in that subject.
I´d say that the top three things you should do if you´re having trouble in
school work are:

• Ask questions
  Honestly, if you´re confused on something, just ask your teacher! In most
  cases, teachers are there to help their students learn, no matter how bad
  the relationship between the teacher/student may be. Their job is to teach
  people and help them learn. No matter how much you think/know your
  teacher may hate you, asking questions can still be a good thing to do. And
  if that doesn´t work? Ask a friend/classmate who seems to know what they´re
  doing.
• Get a tutor
  If you cannot work independently sufficiently, or if the teachers are confusing
  you too much, get a tutor! They are usually around your age and it may be
  easier to understand them. They can give you useful studying tips, and obviously
  help you out with where you´re struggling.
• Study
  If you don´t study, you´re never going to be able to learn anything. Studying is
  like the key to learning. If you don´t do it, you´re most likely screwed. Find a
  way that you can study without getting easily distracted by electronics or other
  things. Don´t burn yourself out either. Take 5-10 minute breaks and take intervals
  so that you don´t stress yourself out.

If you think you´re just flat out stupid/ not capable of learning, you´re 100% wrong.
If you actually try, if you actually study and find ways to help yourself, you´re never
going to understand the concept. The only reason you´d be ¨stupid¨ is simply because
you´re dumb enough not to do anything about it! You need to learn your priorities and
know that education is very important. You are only incapable of doing something if
you keep telling yourself that. Remember that you have the choice whether to put an
effort or not into your education.


Ħαʌιиɢ Ƭяσʋвℓɛ ιи Ƨcнσσℓ (Ƨσcιαℓ)

If you´re being bullied, consider yourself to have no social life, etc, then this is probably
the correct section to read.

To start off, if you´re being bullied, find an adult. It can be a guidance councilor,
teacher, parent, or another trusted adult. Being bullied is a very serious thing and it
should not be something to go through alone. Please know there´s always going to be at
least somebody around you who can help with a bullying situation.

Always try to be the bigger person. Of course you should stand up for yourself, but don´t
go fighting the person who is bullying you because that will only make the situation worse.
If they´re physically bullying you, scream as loud as you possibly can and I´m pretty sure that
somebody is bound to hear you and come running. You can also take classes to defend yourself
if you were ever in a situation where you´re being physically hurt.

Go ahead and listen to this song. Keep reminding yourself this lyric:
¨And you don´t have to change a thing
The world can change it´s heart.¨

You´re worth more than you think. Keep being you because everybody is different and unique in
their own special way.


Δвƨσℓʋтɛℓʏ ∂σиɛ ωιтн ƨσcιɛтʏ αи∂ cαи σиℓʏ тнιиκ αвσʋт тнɛ иɛɢαтιʌɛƨ

Honest to God, I feel ya fam. This is actually something that I need to personally remind myself
of all of the good things that are going on in the world.

There are SO many charities and organizations for many different reasons throughout
the world, but sometimes it´s hard to remember them. Let me just name a few:

The Thirst Project
Imagine a small child, boy or girl, in Africa, sitting beside a river full of dirty water. This kid
has no choice but to collect the dirty water and drink it for themselves. The Thirst Project
collects donations from people all over, and that can provide that kid with safe and clean
drinking water. How is that not amazing?

There´s animal shelters which help deserving animals to get new homes and lovely homes!
There are people who do good deeds such as:

• Help clean up the world
• Help homeless people by donating food, money, blankets, etc.
• Giving people compliments
• People who participate in organizations, charities, projects, etc.

And so many more!
So just remember that the entire world is not cruel. The bad things that go on in the world
can easily block out the good, and you must recognize that there´s so many lovely things
and people in the world! Learn to appreciate and see more positivity! It´ll help both yourself
and the people around you! c:

Ѳтнɛя

For all of those people who don´t apply to any of the above, this is your place! If you´re going
through a tough time, there´s always people on the comfort corner who are more than happy
to help you out. Remember to stay positive and you cannot find stars without darkness ❤ I
hope that you have an absolutely amazing day because you honestly deserve it + you´re a
bright, shining star! Keep being you! c:

[Thalassic]

4:30am
only about half done with my painting
theres noooo way it will be dry by 9am haha kill me

[emporio!]

I don't know why this is bothering me so much right now but my chest hurts and I feel like crying but its super irrational?? I just need to rant okay you should probably just ignore me.
Its all about soup. Back when I was five or six we recently moved out of my grandad's house, but we visited him a whole lot because Mom said he was lonely. And I would feel really sad some nights when he would call and ask my mom if we wanted to come over and have soup with him.
More often than not mom would say no, and my five year old self would sort of cry on the inside because even at that age I knew all he wanted to do was spend time with his daughter. All I could hear in my head was how mom said 'he's lonely honey' and feel really really sad for him because he was so nice when I was little.
So now I'm here remembering this and all I want to do is go back and have more soup. We never knew he was dying and I miss him so bad. I know now, dear god do I know because all those visits to the hospital made me cry every single time. I know why he wanted us to have soup now, because he knew he was dying and never told us.
All I want is soup with my grandad and my mom.
They're not even alive anymore.
I wish little me was more sentimental so maybe I wouldn't be crying right now.

[snubbulls]

everything that used to make me happy doesn't anymore. am i broken? at this point i just laugh out of courtesy so no one knows. i don't know why i'm like this. i'm not happy but if i let anyone know, well, i'll be literally shunned. I feel so lost and alone. i want someone, anyone, who understands this and won't leave me. i don't want to be alone anymore. putting a stupid smile on my face is everything i don't want to do anymore. i want to be seen, damn it. but no one cares because i'm just a stupid useless emo kid. no one will see through my scars. they'll just shove me off as another self-destructive idiot.

[chanel]

I hate it when my paranoia starts to kick in..

[vein]

i shouldn't have to beg for your attention

[hateno]

i just feel like curling up into a ball, sitting in the corner of my room, and cry. nothing is helping me. i hate my life
at school, i hate my life at home, and i hate my life just about anywhere. the only place i feel like i truly belong is on the internet.
i feel like everyone just cares about themselves, and never anyone else. i know that i can care about myself a lot, but i have my
own issues. i just feel like at any moment, something could happen to someone i love and they won't be around. i just wish i could
go back a couple years and knew about everything i know today so i wouldn't be in this stupid hell that is my life. tbh i just need a
hug or something to reassure me it's alright, but i have too much anxiety when talking to people in pms now... it just makes me so
nervous that someone will judge me and think "oh, they act like that?" or "oh, really? why is this person randomly coming to me out
of no where?" this is why i just wish i could reset time to a few years ago. 2013 wasn't a bad year for me.

what i show on the outside and how i act on here isn't the real me. i'm a lot worse. i think worse things, i say worse things. i say
negative things about others, but mainly myself. if you've ever encountered me saying a nice thing to you, it may be meaningless. i
don't even know myself anymore. i don't know anything anymore. i just want to cry and go on and on to someone about myself, but
i don't want to be judge and for them to tell their friends and then everyone will hate me so much one day and it'll stress me out and
i'll just realize that only a couple people on this entire planet, a couple out of 7.4 billion people, actually care enough about me to
listen to anything i have to say, no matter how stupid.

have fun trying to read this. if you can, that is. i just want to vent so much....

[rutilant]

I just want to curl up in a ball and die

Awwe, dear. *Hugs* It'll be okay eventually, whatever is going on in your life that is making you feel this way. Life is a precious gift and you should cherish it as much as you can, no matter how sad or unfair it may be at times, it isn't worth losing it just yet. If you ever need to talk about anything, my PMs are always open <3

i shouldn't have to beg for your attention

That's right, you shouldn't. if someone is making you feel as if you need to beg for their attention just for them to notice/talk to you, then you shouldn't focus on them. There are plenty of other people out there that would probably love to talk to you, so why not try talking to some new people rather than just focusing on them? I get it might be hard to do that, making new friends and all, but I still think it's worth a shot to talk to try to talk to some new people if someone isn't treating you very kindly.

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I'd also like to thank everyone who has been trying to help me out with my grade situations. I really appreciate it, however my dad wants me to be on highest honors and I'm definitely not getting it this quarter :') Ahh, let's hope he spares me and I don't get in trouble. x.x

[autumnsoundtrack]

It's 2:30 in the morning.
I'm tired, but too awake to sleep.
I should be asleep.
I have an 8:30am class tomorrow.
And work I still need to complete for said class.
But here I am.
Wasting my time away, knowing I need to do stuff.
But I just don't have the energy in me.
And I feel so void.
I just need a smoke. .-.