Tenturo wrote:I'm a bit frustrated (a lot, actually) and I'd really like some advice on what to do.
Okay, so, the guy I talk to, we'll call him S for short, has been in my life for years, but never really serious until about 2 years ago. He's the love of my life - and i wouldn't say that unless i knew 110% that I meant it. We're basically the cutest couple but it's not an official relationship. Its certainly all behind closed doors or just when it's only us, but its public and everyone thinks we're together, and everyone that knows we arent, wishes we were. We say I love you, and both of us mean it. We're supposed to be hanging out on Saturday - Myself, my sister (we're twins), our half-sister on our dad's side, S, my sister's Boyfriend, a girl we'll call Sie, Dorothy, and Madison.
So, my sister lives with our dad, and I with our mom - both seperated and remarried. Neither of us have issues with this, as it's what we chose. The step-sister - we'll shorten her to A, is S's ex-girlfriend of 9 months. They have been broken up for over a year, but he cut things off with her because she's was so over-dramatic and always starting drama, and was exceptionally clingy. Anywho - that was almost 2 years ago - a month or so before S and I started talking (we've known eachother much longer though) and, i knew A existed but I didn't ever really know her, aside from what K (twin) and S had told me, which all ended up being pretty much the same. Anyway, last summer, A found out that S and I we're getting kind of serious and sent me numerous rude, disrespectful and some threatening messages, saying I was ugly and stupid and an idiot for believing S when he tells me he loves me, and that the first day that she sees me she's gonna fight me. Me being me and giving 0 craps, told her to bring it on. Now - I'm not condoning violence or saying it's the way to go (we never fought. She sat with Me and k everyday and didnt do anything).
However, lately, she's been flirting with him a lot. I'm not too concerned because he cant stand her (even more than me - which is insane) and it didnt bug me too much until S's younger sister showed me a Snapchat that a had sent her - a Video of S at the YMCA playing pool, and her caption (this is what drove me mad) - "My Daddy".
(Im sorry if that's considered inappropriate - i can remove it if preferred)
But I don't understand why she cant just leave him alone. He's getting really annoyed but he's not the type to be disrespectful or rude to a female and tell her to back off - he's too respectful.
I'd really like some advice on how to handle the situation - I know he wont go back to her, but i really cant stand her doing all this.
Sorry this is so long .-.
I had to shorten it a bit because i gave wayyy too much backstory, but I thought it'd help explain why the situation is so... well, whatever it is.
Thank you if you can help <3
Wow. Okay, I would advise you make it official with S. You guys are practically together so it shouldn't be too difficult. Once you guys are official, A will have NO business flirting with S. If you're lucky, she'll be understanding and not flirt with him. In the case she does anyway, you need to tell her to back off. Especially seeing as she's your step sister. I would also advise you talk to S about this, tell him that you don't like the way she's acting with him and ask him if he can gently tell her to stop.
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