by hellebore » Sun Sep 03, 2017 8:00 am
I have a tendency to avoid interaction with the people I most want to be friends with. Yesterday, one of those people initiated interaction with me after I had planned to refrain from initiating myself. Now just today, when I was uptown to visit a place for my art project, my mom found me and insisted that we visit the shop of a nearby café. One of those people I like works there, but I thought, "what are the odds I'll see him?" To make those odds impossible, I purposefully kept my eyes on the products and nowhere else. Well, I then heard his voice, calmly panicked, and headed for the door. My mom came after me and asked rather loudly, "DOES THAT GUY KNOW YOU?" Oh dear. But anyway, apparently, he caught sight of my hat and proceeded to peer over the counter seemingly with the intention of getting my attention.
Part of me is relieved I left so quickly because we would have ended up talking--but the part of me that is not mentally ill is absolutely furious that I reacted so badly because of just that--because we could have talked. Maybe we would have become acquaintances and then friends.
A friend wants to get coffee, so I suppose, I suppose I could counter that anxiety and go back. It seems like a difficult feat. I'd be afraid of crying. I'm already now in regular contact with seven people, but I do truly want to befriend him. I'll go, try my best to keep it together, leave him a $20 tip and hope for the best.
At least that's what I tell myself. I don't want anxiety to ruin opportunities anymore.
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