by IHaveNoFandoms » Sun Apr 22, 2018 12:20 pm
Hello. I'm concerned about my friend and I believe I'd be best asking about it here. I'd like to know what you guys think.
Ive got a friend (A) whos got this crush. She sometimes talks about her crush (B) when we text. I've never met him before, since I moved away and now A and I just text. A told me that she was planning to confess her affections for B. A sent a picture, and immediately I was like, wow, hes a big dude. I asked A his age. Apparently he is 3 or 4 years older than A. (They are both minors).
I asked about B, and A said that B gave her cute nicknames and said that he would date her... If they were the same age. Also, according to A, B's friend also has a crush on A.
The thing is, A is a very insecure girl. [removed]. Her family situation is very complicated. If anybody gave her the least bit of attention/affection, she probably would worship them until they die. That is part of what scares me so much about the possibility of them dating. He could easily manipulate her (due to her naivete that would be much easier). What I don't understand is what a boy that much older than her would have in common with her. If B would date her if they were the same age, and if A would let him know for sure that she liked him, I don't believe that they would let age get in the way. She's such a sweet person, but she is very desperate.
I just want to know what I'm supposed to do. Maybe I'm overreacting. I have never even met B, and I already know that I don't like him. I think the best option would be to tell A my concerns, but that would be very difficult to explain to her that she's a desperate and insecure person-a big part of my concern over this.
What do you think I should do?
Thanks, anyone who answers or even reads all this. Any input is helpful.
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sun on Sun Apr 22, 2018 1:04 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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