Cxncxrnxd wrote:I need a bit of help here.
Someone I'm good friends with online but I don't know irl has confessed that they have a crush on me. I find them really nice but considering I don't know them properly I'm not sure how I feel. What's a good way to respond that kinda tells them I'm unsure about this and not completely ready to date someone online?
To be completely honest - I have no idea what to do.
Thanks ^^
Cxncxrnxd wrote:Cxncxrnxd wrote:I need a bit of help here.
Someone I'm good friends with online but I don't know irl has confessed that they have a crush on me. I find them really nice but considering I don't know them properly I'm not sure how I feel. What's a good way to respond that kinda tells them I'm unsure about this and not completely ready to date someone online?
To be completely honest - I have no idea what to do.
Thanks ^^
Sandfire12 wrote:Cxncxrnxd wrote:Cxncxrnxd wrote:I need a bit of help here.
Someone I'm good friends with online but I don't know irl has confessed that they have a crush on me. I find them really nice but considering I don't know them properly I'm not sure how I feel. What's a good way to respond that kinda tells them I'm unsure about this and not completely ready to date someone online?
To be completely honest - I have no idea what to do.
Thanks ^^
Before I start with my advice, remember to take it with a grain of salt; this is just what I'd do personally, and I'm not 100% familiar with every situation.
So, onto the point; let them down easy. If you agree to date them, it'll be stressful for you because you know you're not ready and it would be too much at once for you to deal with. You need to tell them in a way that shows that you care deeply about them, but at the same time you're still saying you're not ready.
I hope that made sense!
HeterocromaticQueen wrote:This is super weird cause I'm an old lady and have few years on my mind of relationship experience, but I just wanna get someone else's opinion.
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morioh wrote:-snip-
1) I have a girlfriend, although this relationship is totally uncommitted. She said (and I agreed) we could go back to being friends at any point, because in the beginning, our relationship was meant to be a joke.
2) the person I like... Is completely toxic. In what he does and how he acted not even three months ago. I met him through my ex (the creepy one who has a picture of me which I'm pretty sure he hasn't deleted). I never once thought I'd be friends with this guy, let alone be romantically attracted to him. Either way, he doesn't like me back and I know this for a fact. If we ever got into a relationship either way, it wouldn't be a healthy one. We wouldn't be able to contact each other. Id see him... Twice a week? I don't even know what to do.
Julmje wrote:I have this friend, hes a boy and he told me that he used to crush on me and still did a little. But everytime we planned on hanging, there was always something else in my schedule (?). So we went from talking alot to almost never talk, and i think he thought that i dont like him, and that i friendzoned him.. The thing is that i think i like him and wannna spend more time with him, but i dont know how to tell him. When we talk we tell eachother everything, no secrets, but i dont have the guts to tell him this.. what should i do? Anyone have some tips for me??
Kisiel wrote:-snip-
ANYWAY. My question is, after being fully committed to someone for so long, how can I convince myself to let someone in again? This guy I met is so lovely, I really enjoy his company and I know he's interested but I just don't know. Part of me wants to just go for it and see what happens but I have my doubts. It doesn't help that we pretty much act like a couple at this point either, but we're not if that makes sense.
WastedSpace wrote:Kisiel wrote:-snip-
ANYWAY. My question is, after being fully committed to someone for so long, how can I convince myself to let someone in again? This guy I met is so lovely, I really enjoy his company and I know he's interested but I just don't know. Part of me wants to just go for it and see what happens but I have my doubts. It doesn't help that we pretty much act like a couple at this point either, but we're not if that makes sense.
Give yourself a little time and patience and understanding. Instead of trying to force yourself to do anything, accept where you're at now. Be introspective and explore what you've been through, what you learned, and what you want now.
And when you're ready to go for it - don't automatically jump into a serious, committed relationship with him. Even though you act like a couple now, make sure to go out on dates, kiss each other at the door, sleep in different houses, etc. Enjoy the beginning of a relationship by making sure there is one. ;3
morioh wrote:@wastedspace it's a strange situation. Would it make sense if I said he does bad things (and used to be a bad person) but now isn't that bad at all?? I've heard so many things about him from my friends and almost none of them good but then I tell them how nice to me he is and they're all just so genuinely surprised as if it has never happened before.
But I really don't wanna be in a relationship with this guy, yet I don't want to get over him. Perfect representation of lithromanticism. Wooooo.
He really is kinda poisonous but he listens to me talk and maybe I just like how that feels idk. I don't understand why I become attracted to the worst people.
HeyImEmma❤ wrote:(BROTHER TYPING! NOT MEEEEEE)
Sooooooo, there is this girl who I am pretty sure who has a crush on me(I like her dont worry.) But something happened and we are both so confused.
someone is sending me notes, and they are pretending to be her. I know its not her because she said it wasnt, and I trust her.
someone is hacking my _______ account and changing colors, and she again promises it isnt her.
But I dont know what to do to fix this, please help.
Kisiel wrote:-snip-
And as much as I hate to admit it because it's probably s****d, it bothers me a little bit that he's younger than me. All of my previous boyfriends have been either the same age or older - my ex partner is 4 years older for example. I don't know why it bothers me especially since it's only a year of a difference so why can't I just be rational about it :'(
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