Soo my cat, Ruby, is turning 14 soon and she seems really healthy! We take her in for regular checkups and aside from some issues with throwing up after eating food (which have been remedied since we switched to slowly feeding her wet food twice a day per vet recommendation) she's extremely healthy for her age. She sleeps a lot and only goes outside occasionally. She's very vocal, too!
I've had her since I was 8 years old and I love her to bits, but within the next year or two I plan on getting married and moving out and my parents aren't sure that taking her with me is the best thing because I'll be working a lot and as is she gets a lot of attention and this has been her home since she was very young. She also hates change. I know it's probably going to be for the best, but it makes me really sad. Every time I'm home she's always 'coincidentally' in the same room I'm in. I can barely remember life without her. Has anyone had any experience moving with a senior cat? Is there a way to move that won't stress her out? Would it be best for me to leave her with my parents and just visit occasionally?
I realize that it'll probably be best to leave her here and visit as often as possible. My dad is on the edge of retirement and is almost always home, she can safely go outside whenever she wants, my sister has my old room (the room that she lived in as a kitten) and she likes to sleep in there, and she has special feeding needs and I'm fairly certain she has separation anxiety.
Idk, I realize I kind of answered the question for myself, and nothing is set in stone at this point, but it makes me kind of sad to think about. Has anyone moved out and left a childhood cat at home?