This post got super long because I have FEELS. Pic and TL;DR at the bottom.
So my pupper recently turned a year old. She's a purebred american pit bull terrier and definitely looks the part. (I normally advocate for shelter dogs but a friend's boyfriend bred a litter and I fell in love so he sold her to me for far less than she was worth.) Her name is Piper.
Piper has never met a living creature that she did not want to be friends with. She enthusiastically still tries to befriend my roommate's old man dog, who does nothing but bark at her, and our fat orange cat, who is actually starting to warm up to her because she's persisted. The problem, though, is that enthusiastic part. A
ton of people mistake this for an attempt at aggression when the most aggressive thing she's ever done is lick someone. She's incredibly gentle with animals that are smaller than her, despite her enthusiasm, and when she convinces someone to play with her, she plays at their level rather than always being 150% energy about it the way she is with other pit bull type dogs.
Luckily for the two of us, we live in a very pit-positive area and most people are happy to love on her when we're out on walks or wherever else she goes. However, there are outliers. The saddest I've ever seen my happy, enthusiastic, loving Piper pupper really stands out in my mind, partly because of the overt way it happened. It takes a
lot to make this dog unhappy. If you do get angry with her and yell, she'll sit there and slowly wag her tail while staring at you lovingly from the floor.
So one day we were out for a walk. Normally Piper likes to say hello to any person that we see, and normally I let her because for the most part they don't mind. But this one couple was out walking at the same time one day and when they saw us coming, the boyfriend actively switched sides he was walking on so that he could be between his girlfriend and the puppy that was tail-wagging enthusiastically at the prospect of meeting
two people at once omg best thing. Then that didn't seem like enough, so while complaining loudly about how "aggressive dogs like that should be shot" he led his girlfriend to the other side of the street to avoid my puppy, who was displaying zero signs of aggression.
She proceeded to positively
wilt in sadness. Her ears dropped, her tail dropped and stopped moving (practically unheard of for her), and she slumped down in pure depression. She even whimpered a little with the sads. We had to cut our walk - her favorite part of the day - short because she was too upset.
There've been cases of people being skeptical of her because she's so visibly a pit bull, but usually her genuine and obvious friendliness has them petting her - or at least accepting her - anyway because
she's so precious. I mean, look at this face:
That's sixty pounds of
cuddle, right there.
While I have been told off about owning a pit bull plenty of times, rarely have I been so
angry about the incident. Because usually these people have not yet met my puppy as I've simply mentioned her in conversation, so they haven't given her a
depressive episode by hating her for her breed.
Both my brother and I have sworn off owning any other dog breed after getting pit bulls (his is a high-percentage apbt shelter dog rather than purebred). They're high-energy and can be difficult to manage because of that plus the muscle and size, but as long as you take time to properly train them and give them plenty of attention, they are the most loyal and friendliest dogs I've ever known.
TL;DR: My dog loves every living thing, but some people don't believe that because of her breed and talk loudly about how she should be shot and upset her by going to extremes to avoid her. The prejudice against pit bulls needs to die because it makes the pit bulls sad and that face shouldn't be sad.