APH Italy wrote:Hime wrote:APH Italy wrote:Been feeling super stressed lately. I've been trying to get into lessons for at least half a year or more, with no luck. Every time I start talking to a stable they just.... Stop answering me back after awhile. I don't know if I'm doing something wrong, but it feels like the equestrian world keeps kicking me out. It's incredibly disheartening, and makes me feel as though I'll never be able to be involved with horses. It seems like going to a local college for an Equine Studies degree is my last shot
What are you asking/telling them and do they say they have no space on lessons or what? Honestly many stable owners have very minimum time to answer mails and phone calls, as they have so many other things to do. So if the matter is not urgent in their oppinion they might be little lazy to reply. ^^; I know it's not really ideal customer service, but thats how it often is. In equestrian world horses tend to come first and people second, even if they are paying customers. Usually start of the season can be little hectic time for riding schools, since they migth need to adjust and change their lesson groups and times. So they might need little time to sort out their continuing riders and figure out can they have more people on certain lessons, before taking on any more new ones, if they can that is.
Either way, hang in there and keep looking up other potential riding places if the ones you've contacted so far don't work out.
Well they know I'm looking for lessons. When I go to visit potential stables, i usually bring money for a month of lessons, and a list of riding goals so that its very straight forward. There was once I had literally sat through lessons and everything, but facebook said they had seen the message, but never got a call back or a message. The only thing I can think of that might scare people off is the fact I haven't had a proper lesson since elementary school, and the fact I have anxiety. Other than that... I'm not sure. I'm about to send a check in message to my most recent hopeful, since the lady I've been talking to is super nice. Trying to get ahold of the correct admissions counselor for the college I was talking about is proving to be difficult as well-
Hmm... If they've seen your message and othervise things have seemed to go smoothly, but don't reply in say within half a week/week, shoot them another message or give them a ring. It's possible they've read the message in hurry (often happens with facebook) and haven't had time to reply in that moment and then they kinda forget it later.
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I'm not really sure should I be concerned or not... Heta has suddenly decided that she will not eat linseed anymore. I honestly can't think of anyother reason than that there's something different about the product the stable uses compared to the one I used. Even though honestly there really shouldn't be any dramatic differance... She ate the old linseed just fine for couple weeks at the new stable before the stableowner re-stocked the stable's linseed. So it can't be the water tasting funny. Now that I've been using the stable's stuff since last week she has refused to eat the linseed. She did eat some of it today when I added in some vitamin, but still left almost half of it... Usually she loves the stuff even more with the vitamin in it. Othervise though she seems to be eating fine and hasn't been leaving any hay un-eaten anymore, so I'm trying not to panic too much. I'll probably try to remember to bring some of the other brand stuff from L's place next Sunday and see if that makes any differance...