Pyjaks wrote:Pinesong wrote:I just wanted to ask someone's advice on here about how I'm feeling about something..
So I'm dating this guy and he's great- a real sweetheart, is always asking how my day has been and treats me with respect and kindness. I had a few doubts about him at first but we've cleared that up as I've spoken to him about it all. It's a rather new relationship but we seem to have clicked really easily. We used to be close around 3 years ago but drifted a little then really reconnected. He's a very physically affectionate person and is always hugging me and kissing me but he has told me multiple times that if I ever feel like he's being too affectionate that I should tell him right away- which I respect.
However, he's the first guy that I've dated as in the past I've generally seen myself as too busy with my own life to date anyone.
Recently he's mentioned that his parents wanted to meet me and hearing this at first kind of.. scared me? Although when we reconnected we seem to have clicked really easily, I'm not sure if I'm really ready to meet his parents in a 'meet his parents' kind of way. he didn't suggest when or anything, he just sort of brought it up. I'm not sure if it's that I feel like we're moving too quickly or something but I'm not sure if I'm ready to? Should I feel like this?
There's no right or wrong way to feel in a relationship, everyone has their own situation and goes at their own pace. If you aren't ready, that's okay!! He sounds really understanding and respectful of your boundaries so I'd bring it up to him, just let him know that you maybe aren't ready to meet his parents yet.
Thank you so much! I might have a talk with him about how I feel c: