♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[Devilsdumbass]

I’m in a poly with two girls I’ve met over the last 6 months and it’s going great! We’re all helping eachother and being as supportive as we can, but during the time I’ve been out with them, a friend of mine has confessed they love me, and she was able to keep it hidden from me. I’m usually good at knowing how people feel but, I couldn’t tell with her and I try my best to be as friendly with her and not to give her any signs that could mislead her. And she knows I’m with my gfs but I have no clue how she feels.

Would it be good to talk to my gfs about this? Maybe getting her into the poly could help?

All help is appreciated!

[Panther202]

I’m in a poly with two girls I’ve met over the last 6 months and it’s going great! We’re all helping eachother and being as supportive as we can, but during the time I’ve been out with them, a friend of mine has confessed they love me, and she was able to keep it hidden from me. I’m usually good at knowing how people feel but, I couldn’t tell with her and I try my best to be as friendly with her and not to give her any signs that could mislead her. And she knows I’m with my gfs but I have no clue how she feels.

Would it be good to talk to my gfs about this? Maybe getting her into the poly could help?

All help is appreciated!

Before saying anything to the girl that's crushing, you need to talk to your girlfriends. If you talk to the girl that's crushing first, it could cause a sticky situation. Have a conversation with your girlfriends about if they're comfortable bringing another person in. If they are or maybe on the fence about it, talk to the girl that's crushing. Ask her if she would be comfortable wit hit. If both parties are considering, get them to meet each other and then go from there.

[a small animal]

So guys do you think I should tell my crush I like him?

Facts about him:
- the brooding mysterious type lol
- very shy, pretty much only talks to teachers, his one guy friend, my friend who everyone likes and me
- when I say talk I mean like once a month and only about homework
- only cares about music and good grades from what I can tell
- my friends think he’s a nice guy apart from my best friend, who has a huge grudge against him and won’t tell me why (she doesn’t know I like him)
- goes round with the annoying guys who don’t like me much and whom he is absolutely nothing like
- tries to get my attention a lot, at least that’s what it looks like (probably me being delusional)
- tends to stammer when he talks to me
- has awesome tastes in music which is how we started talking in the first place
- seems to be anxious that I go to a particular college which happens to be the one he’s going to
- doesn’t have a girlfriend and I don’t think he’s been in many, if any, relationships

Facts about me:
- also shy
- never been in a relationship in my life because I’m an emotional mess
- similar interests to him
- likes him and I mean a lot, I’ve gone from eh he seems cool to OMG HE MADE EYE CONTACT LETS GET MARRIED in about 2 weeks
- too nervous to start a conversation with him, it’s always him who does that
- the literal most unpopular girl in the school, like boi you think I’m exaggerating when I’m really not, I used to cry all the time n stuff like that so just made myself a bad reputation that I can’t shake off :’)
- can be loud when I’m with my friends which I think puts him off
- never goes to the parties that I’m pretty sure he goes to but then again I don’t know
- similar music taste to him
- doesn’t want to go to the college he wants me to go to because I want to choose my own life thank you very much

So like should I ask him? I really like him. And I don’t want to just go straight up and be like ahahawannagooutwithme because knowing him he’d just stammer incomprehensibly at me and run off into the woods to make a go away potion or whatever it is that mysterious brooding guys do. I was thinking of writing him an anonymous Valentine’s Day note that had some hint it was from me, like the lyrics of my favourite song that he knows is my favourite song, but also think it might come off as cringy/creepy and besides I don’t even know if what he’s doing rn even means that he likes me.

Sincerely, extremely lonely person

[Panther202]

So guys do you think I should tell my crush I like him?

Facts about him:
- the brooding mysterious type lol
- very shy, pretty much only talks to teachers, his one guy friend, my friend who everyone likes and me
- when I say talk I mean like once a month and only about homework :/
- only cares about music and good grades from what I can tell
- my friends think he’s a nice guy apart from my best friend, who has a huge grudge against him and won’t tell me why (she doesn’t know I like him)
- goes round with the annoying guys who don’t like me much and whom he is absolutely nothing like
- tries to get my attention a lot, at least that’s what it looks like (probably me being delusional)
- tends to stammer when he talks to me
- has awesome tastes in music which is how we started talking in the first place
- seems to be anxious that I go to a particular college which happens to be the one he’s going to
- doesn’t have a girlfriend and I don’t think he’s been in many, if any, relationships

Facts about me:
- also shy
- never been in a relationship in my life because I’m an emotional mess
- similar interests to him
- likes him and I mean a lot, I’ve gone from eh he seems cool to OMG HE MADE EYE CONTACT LETS GET MARRIED in about 2 weeks
- too nervous to start a conversation with him, it’s always him who does that
- the literal most unpopular girl in the school, like boi you think I’m exaggerating when I’m really not, I used to cry all the time n stuff like that so just made myself a bad reputation that I can’t shake off :’)
- can be loud when I’m with my friends which I think puts him off
- never goes to the parties that I’m pretty sure he goes to but then again I don’t know
- similar music taste to him
- doesn’t want to go to the college he wants me to go to because I want to choose my own life thank you very much

So like should I ask him? I really like him. And I don’t want to just go straight up and be like ahahawannagooutwithme because knowing him he’d just stammer incomprehensibly at me and run off into the woods to make a go away potion or whatever it is that mysterious brooding guys do. I was thinking of writing him an anonymous Valentine’s Day note that had some hint it was from me, like the lyrics of my favourite song that he knows is my favourite song, but also think it might come off as cringy/creepy and besides I don’t even know if what he’s doing rn even means that he likes me.

Sincerely, extremely lonely person

As much as it sucks, you're just going to have to tell him you like him -shrug-

[a small animal]

oof well
next Monday better be a good day :’)

[Kazin]

I'm in need of some advice from people who may be a bit more... experienced, I guess, about having a crush. And especially texting that crush.

Now, this might be a bit difficult, because this guy is a bad texter. He usually doesn't text. But it's killing me to not be able to talk to him, so I thought I'd give it a try. Problem is, I can't think of what to say that would actually get him to text back. (I know it's not a case of him liking me or not, but just the case of him not really looking at his phone often. He's usually never on social media either, unless he's tagging me in something).

I've thought about just texting him his name and seeing if he responds. I've thought about texting him that I miss him, but that seems a little too blunt and to the point, but that might be good? Unsure. I haven't seen him in over a month, so that would be a valid thing to text. I've also thought about a third option, which would be to wait until the weekend is over and asking how an event I know he was going to went.

Any thoughts? Any kind of help is appreciated. I've had this crush for... two years now. He used to like me back, but then there was another girl in the mix and they almost dated, but I've never lost feelings. He flirted with me a lot near Christmas time, which was the last time I saw him. And I miss him and can't think of any way that I can see him soon.

Thanks!

[Pale Verditer]

I really like a person but I already know they don't like me. This is a problem ^^'

[Dawnstorm111]

I have this crush on this guy, but we're already friends and I don't want to ruin our friendship.

Some facts about him:
He's really sweet and nice, but very blunt at times.
We usually walk to classes together
He's never been in a relationship before (neither have I)
He has another "friend" (that's a girl) who's practically obsessed with him and makes it impossible for me to interact with him often
He sometimes hugs me and stuff and I think maybe it means he likes me (he doesn't hug other girls)
Whenever he feels awful, I'm usually the one by his side to make him feel better
We talk a lot, but we've never shared anything personal about ourselves
He has a twin brother who despises me

I'm wondering if I should tell him I have a crush on him or not. And if I do, I don't really know when. I'm kind of socially awkward in these situations. Valentine's Day is coming up. And before that, we have a formal school dance that's semiromantic (I'm a part of the dance committee, so I know these things). Should I tell him on a special occasion or a normal school day? Please help, I'm a mess when it comes to anything romantic.

[BananaSocks]

so ive recently had this dream about a week or two ago
i was queuing up in my school canteen talking to my friends and accidentally revealed that i liked this girl whom
i used to be classmates with but am still friends with. she happened to be standing behind me and confronted me
about it and i remember being very upset

maybe its a just a dream and didnt have anything to do with,,, anything and im not sure if i have a crush on her irl.
i know i like her ?? not sure as a friend or as something else and im really bad at differentiating between a crush and
me just admiring the person or just liking them in a friend way and i know i can suppress my feelings very easily so i
guess what im trying to say is, how can i tell if im crushing on someone or not?

sorry this is probably very dumb

[vash ♡]

i have known this girl FOUR weeks and i can usually get rid of a small crush w ease bc theyre... yknow, crushes. NOPE ITS GETTING WORSE AND I WANNA PUNCH MYSELF