♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[a small animal]

gushing about my crush in 3...2...1...

Ok so remember how I was gonna have a class with ‘bill’ for the first time in a long while? Well I did and it was really surprisingly fun. There were only like 7 people so it was just me and bill and his friends, not the ones who hate me but his actual nice friends who I kinda get on with by default because they are in most of my classes. Anyway so bill was sitting next to me and I say this like it’s a big deal because it is, to me anyway, as he saw that I was moving my bag to this particular desk BEFORE he moved over there I.e. he is consciously sitting next to me and, like, I’m probably reading too deep into this, but seeing as most guys in my grade consciously sit AWAY from me I was already confident. Anyway so out of nowhere he just started talking to me, not in an oh-no-there’s-nobody-else-to-talk-to way because his best friends were literally there ready to start a conversation with but oh no bill picked me. Small insignificant me. And here’s the thing, bill is shy. I could hear the shyness in his voice when he was talking to me cause he kept stuttering and repeating my name like he expected me to turn away. He was asking me just regular questions about the homework and stuff but giving the impression he was actually interested, so I just went along with it and tried not to do anything awkward and get this, I didn’t do anything awkward! However I also wasn’t brave enough to actually say anything with all his friends there and he had to leave early to go to his next class, so that’s that for another month I guess. I’m just kinda scared now that he likes me but doesn’t think I like him back, cause whenever he talks to me I just go into full shy mode because I’m just not used to guys wanting to talk to me, oh jeez I’m a sad sad human being. On the plus side I don’t think I’m in danger of forgetting what he looks like again because he did something weird to his hair lol

now that I think about it I have this theory that his friends were trying to set him up with me...they kept trying to get him to talk about something other than homework and when that didn’t work they just looked directly at me and started talking about how great he was at the subject while he was just getting steadily more red. If that’s the case then wow friendship goals

[parakeetperson]

I don't really have a particular crush on anyone, but there are two people where if they asked if we could go out, I would definitely 100% say yes

[wolfi.]

Omigosh wow, so much tea to spill. So I told you guys that I told my crush I like him, well, I had only told one other person about who I liked and that one person “forgot” that they couldn’t tell anybody because they promised and today in our art class he told almost the entire class who I like and they started badgering me about it so I got a little upset and they started defending themself and I don’t know if I should forgive them because most of the people in my art class are popular and know who my crush is, who isn’t popular, and I just felt really embarrassed. Anyway after class my other friend who is in that class with me came up to me and told me that they had a feeling that my crush likes me and they said they could to talk to my crush for me if I’d like. So I said that I would like to know but I was totally fine without knowing as my crush (let’s call him Fred) are still friends even though I told him. So now I don’t know exactly what I should do, should I let my friend talk to him and find out and let my other friend earn my trust again, or should I just keep my crush at a friendship to avoid anything else potentially bad from happening that can ruin our friendship?

Also when I got on the bust today after school, I was sitting there quietly till someone asked “Fred” if they liked me and I could hear them too because it’s not a big bus and “Fred” practically sits a couple seats ahead of me. And the person who asked him was one of the people my friend “accidentally” told. I literally hid in my seat to avoid anything and thought I could hear “Fred” say “no...” but I couldn’t tell if it was a lie.

[rainmaker]

ok, so this probably going to sound weird, but whatever. i like this guy, and i've liked him for a while, but we've never talked. then, out of NOWHERE he sent me an email, asking me for help with some school related stuff, even though we're not friends, and we don't talk. i honestly don't even know how he knew my name. . . . i just don't know what to do, as he sent it yesterday, and i only saw it a few hours ago, so i don't know if he thought i was ignoring him or what. . . anyways, he has other people he could have asked, but he asked me, so i don't know if its a sign he likes me, or if i'm just hoping he does.
feel free to give advice through pm or on here, doesn't really matter, although i'm more likely to see it if its through pm! thanks in advance!

okay, so, update! i said I'd help him, and so we kept emailing each other after school ended, when he asked if i had social media, bc talking over email stressed him out since he didn't get a notification when i replied. So we started talking over Facebook, and we talked until 11pm, and we had been steadily talking (about non school related stuff i mean) since 5 pm. He's so sweet, and he makes me smile, no matter what he says. So finally, when he had to leave, he said "well 'insert name here', it was a pleasure getting to know you more" and when we said good night, he said "farewell" and then the last thing he said was "sweet dreams". . . I cannot stop smiling. He makes me incredibly happy, and i can only hope that tomorrow won't be awkward bc he doesn't really talk much in person. He told me that his parents are often disappointed with him because he doesn't talk to others much, and my response was "you can always talk to me" i know, cheesy. But he said "we'll see " so i really am not sure where to go from here. . . Any help/advice is GREATLY appreciated!

[Panther202]

Omigosh wow, so much tea to spill. So I told you guys that I told my crush I like him, well, I had only told one other person about who I liked and that one person “forgot” that they couldn’t tell anybody because they promised and today in our art class he told almost the entire class who I like and they started badgering me about it so I got a little upset and they started defending themself and I don’t know if I should forgive them because most of the people in my art class are popular and know who my crush is, who isn’t popular, and I just felt really embarrassed. Anyway after class my other friend who is in that class with me came up to me and told me that they had a feeling that my crush likes me and they said they could to talk to my crush for me if I’d like. So I said that I would like to know but I was totally fine without knowing as my crush (let’s call him Fred) are still friends even though I told him. So now I don’t know exactly what I should do, should I let my friend talk to him and find out and let my other friend earn my trust again, or should I just keep my crush at a friendship to avoid anything else potentially bad from happening that can ruin our friendship?

Also when I got on the bust today after school, I was sitting there quietly till someone asked “Fred” if they liked me and I could hear them too because it’s not a big bus and “Fred” practically sits a couple seats ahead of me. And the person who asked him was one of the people my friend “accidentally” told. I literally hid in my seat to avoid anything and thought I could hear “Fred” say “no...” but I couldn’t tell if it was a lie.

Honestly at this point there's so much roundabout you really need to just ask HIM.

ok, so this probably going to sound weird, but whatever. i like this guy, and i've liked him for a while, but we've never talked. then, out of NOWHERE he sent me an email, asking me for help with some school related stuff, even though we're not friends, and we don't talk. i honestly don't even know how he knew my name. . . . i just don't know what to do, as he sent it yesterday, and i only saw it a few hours ago, so i don't know if he thought i was ignoring him or what. . . anyways, he has other people he could have asked, but he asked me, so i don't know if its a sign he likes me, or if i'm just hoping he does.
feel free to give advice through pm or on here, doesn't really matter, although i'm more likely to see it if its through pm! thanks in advance!

okay, so, update! i said I'd help him, and so we kept emailing each other after school ended, when he asked if i had social media, bc talking over email stressed him out since he didn't get a notification when i replied. So we started talking over Facebook, and we talked until 11pm, and we had been steadily talking (about non school related stuff i mean) since 5 pm. He's so sweet, and he makes me smile, no matter what he says. So finally, when he had to leave, he said "well 'insert name here', it was a pleasure getting to know you more" and when we said good night, he said "farewell" and then the last thing he said was "sweet dreams". . . I cannot stop smiling. He makes me incredibly happy, and i can only hope that tomorrow won't be awkward bc he doesn't really talk much in person. He told me that his parents are often disappointed with him because he doesn't talk to others much, and my response was "you can always talk to me" i know, cheesy. But he said "we'll see :)" so i really am not sure where to go from here. . . Any help/advice is GREATLY appreciated!

Don't rush it and don't get too absorbed, like I said before. He is showing some signs that he could be into you but you don't want to scare him off by being too forward. Just continue forward as friends for now and wait for things to develop. It's healthier and will prove to be more effective in the end.

[rainmaker]

ok, so this probably going to sound weird, but whatever. i like this guy, and i've liked him for a while, but we've never talked. then, out of NOWHERE he sent me an email, asking me for help with some school related stuff, even though we're not friends, and we don't talk. i honestly don't even know how he knew my name. . . . i just don't know what to do, as he sent it yesterday, and i only saw it a few hours ago, so i don't know if he thought i was ignoring him or what. . . anyways, he has other people he could have asked, but he asked me, so i don't know if its a sign he likes me, or if i'm just hoping he does.
feel free to give advice through pm or on here, doesn't really matter, although i'm more likely to see it if its through pm! thanks in advance!

okay, so, update! i said I'd help him, and so we kept emailing each other after school ended, when he asked if i had social media, bc talking over email stressed him out since he didn't get a notification when i replied. So we started talking over Facebook, and we talked until 11pm, and we had been steadily talking (about non school related stuff i mean) since 5 pm. He's so sweet, and he makes me smile, no matter what he says. So finally, when he had to leave, he said "well 'insert name here', it was a pleasure getting to know you more" and when we said good night, he said "farewell" and then the last thing he said was "sweet dreams". . . I cannot stop smiling. He makes me incredibly happy, and i can only hope that tomorrow won't be awkward bc he doesn't really talk much in person. He told me that his parents are often disappointed with him because he doesn't talk to others much, and my response was "you can always talk to me" i know, cheesy. But he said "we'll see " so i really am not sure where to go from here. . . Any help/advice is GREATLY appreciated!

aNoThEr UpDaTe

ok, so we've been talking for a few days, and last night we were talking abt when he first saw me, and our first impressions and stuff, and at one point, he had thought I was dating this other guy in my class, my only other friend in that class. So I decide to tell him, BC he has been dropping a lot of hints lately, and said, "umm, no I like someone else. . ." and he said "really?" and I was like yeah (sorry I'm drawing this out) and he said "do I get a clue?" and so I literally started describing him, and how he's funny, sweet, smart, and its a plus that he's cute, and he's like, "well, whoever he/she is (no judgment), I'm sure you'll make them very happy" and my heart kinda broke, BC I was talking abt him! I even dropped little clues in, BC he has a terrible self image, so whenever I try to complement him, he says thanks but I'm really not, so when I said the guy I like was cute, I also said, even if he can't see it, and he was like, "wow, he's cute, funny, aND modest? You can't pass this up" and I was like omg, its you. And he laughed and said "your descriptions kinda threw me off" and then says that over the past few days, he's really grown to like me. It makes me sad that he has such a terrible self image, he said "I still can't believe a cutie like you likes me, it kinda makes me forget I'm not cute and stuff" Aside from that, I cannot stop smiling, thank you guys for all your help!

[moonkin]

okay so i took the advice here and i have to say, it's made talking to my crush a whole lot easier. instead of barely any convo, we've had so many multiple ones. it's really great actually and i can send him random messages without being scared that he'll think i'm silly. today we talked about the football game going on and he got excited about it which... was kind of cute, i'm going to admit. i'm glad he feels that comfortable around me to be so lively, i guess? we talked about the blood moon too, except it's turned into a more personal topic of who we were in school, etc.

i'm being cautious about it all still because i'm not sure where we stand nor if a relationship is what i really need (although do want) right now. i wanted to give a lil update though from my last post :D

[Constellation.]

I can't decide and I hate this.
So I've been friends with my ex and it's great because he's a great person. Problem is that he was my first boyfriend and I can't forget about him and still hold a flame for him even though sooo much time has passed. I know it's not gonna go away but that's not my dilemma.

On one hand, I really really really want to keep being his friend. He's fun and friendly and I love hanging out with him. The hard part is he's naturally flirty and usually doesn't realize it until after the fact, and that combined with my feelings is a recipe for disaster.

On the other hand, I feel like I can't not be his friend. I value his friendship so much and love being around him and I hate it when I try to avoid him a little or not try to talk to him. We're also both seniors so in 6 months I won't see him in person in a long time because his idiot butt didn't apply to some of the universities he wanted to go to because of the self-sabotaging fear of rejection and we'll probably not go to the same college. I don't want to lose contact with him.

Idk if this requires advice or not, I don't think I'll be able to make a set decision. It'll all be over in 6 months anyway.

[DYANII]

WARNING RANT:
PLEASE DO NOT OFFER ADVICE! I DO NOT CARE I DID WHAT I DID AND NEED TO GET DONE TO HELP MYSELF!
Supporting words r always cute and nice though but definitely not needed :)! I already know what I’m doing for myself is right and that’s all I care about.


me and my boyfriend broke up.
we hit 6 months and then after a few days everything went up in flames. I called everyday the past week to just FaceTime and talk to each other. What did I get? Declined. Wouldn’t even give a respond why he declined unless I said something and his excuse was he was tired or doing homework. What happen to the days we would FaceTime and not talk? Just doing homework in slience just to be in each other presence. Or the days where we would talk for hours asking dumb would you rather questions? what happen to the days you would still answer and I would just ramble and you would end up falling asleep?

finally he answered,
And I was thinking hey maybe we should take a break! School work and sports games are kind of ruining the bond so yeah know!
and he said it wasn’t working out and I was just too awkward and weird and overall he kind of hinted towards ending it all together.
Had to totally hide myself crying and said it was okay we are still cool and good friends like before and he said yeah and I hung up before he could hear me crying. am I really that ugly? Dumb? Weird? I guess I’ll never know.

Blocked him on everything. Changed his contact name.
And Incase someone reads this and asks why I did that if we were going to stay friends and hes probably confused if he ever tried to contact me and wondered what he did wrong,

LET ME JUST SAY,
if your partner doesn’t understand why you guys are breaking up or needs a reason, they absolutely don’t need one.
All you need is for ,yourself,to understand and give ,yourself, a reason. There’s plenty of fish in the sea. Trust me. Better to move on now and be a little sad than later and be miserable.

anyway back to me crying and ranting,
Idk why he still tries to text me. It’s over. Done. Gone. DEPLETED. You would think he would pick up on the hint that I do not want to talk or be friends for the time being. I don’t even answer his texts and if I do it’s 6+ hours later and are max 3 words.
Am I overreacting and being petty? Yes :)! Do I care? Absolutely not :))!

[ClarcenRoxy]

Soo it’s really late and I found this thread out of the blue and I was like wow this exists time to vomit some vent i’v been keeping to my self for a while.

I like this one guy and I have for about 2 years and adding and I’m just utterly confused on what to do to be honest. Two months after I started to like him I told him I liked him and I never got a clear answer he just smiled and left it at that. It’s been a long while since then and throughout the years he’s been complementing me about things people usually don’t, like what I’m wearing or my ability to dance. He tends to be very protective and when ever I have an issue with other people he ends up confronting them if it’s serious and honestly I’m so glad for that. Especially when the person I’m having issues doesn’t wanna talk to me. Besides that, I have been to his house, recently for the first time. He showed me everything he had and tried giving me a ton of stuff.

Now that’s out of the way, I don’t know what I should do, I already told him I liked him about 1 year ago yet never got an answer and I feel as if sings are flying at me. Should I tell him I like him again??? Or is their another way to do this without doing so?? We’re freashmen- and we’re both extremely introverted so relationships are out of the question.

Dear lord I just to put out this fire before I move away :,)

Thank you and have a lovely day~!💕💕