mrs. spaghetti wrote:mrs. spaghetti wrote:ok, so this probably going to sound weird, but whatever. i like this guy, and i've liked him for a while, but we've never talked. then, out of NOWHERE he sent me an email, asking me for help with some school related stuff, even though we're not friends, and we don't talk. i honestly don't even know how he knew my name. . . . i just don't know what to do, as he sent it yesterday, and i only saw it a few hours ago, so i don't know if he thought i was ignoring him or what. . . anyways, he has other people he could have asked, but he asked me, so i don't know if its a sign he likes me, or if i'm just hoping he does.
feel free to give advice through pm or on here, doesn't really matter, although i'm more likely to see it if its through pm! thanks in advance!
okay, so, update! i said I'd help him, and so we kept emailing each other after school ended, when he asked if i had social media, bc talking over email stressed him out since he didn't get a notification when i replied. So we started talking over Facebook, and we talked until 11pm, and we had been steadily talking (about non school related stuff i mean) since 5 pm. He's so sweet, and he makes me smile, no matter what he says. So finally, when he had to leave, he said "well 'insert name here', it was a pleasure getting to know you more" and when we said good night, he said "farewell" and then the last thing he said was "sweet dreams". . . I cannot stop smiling. He makes me incredibly happy, and i can only hope that tomorrow won't be awkward bc he doesn't really talk much in person. He told me that his parents are often disappointed with him because he doesn't talk to others much, and my response was "you can always talk to me" i know, cheesy. But he said "we'll see " so i really am not sure where to go from here. . . Any help/advice is GREATLY appreciated!
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ok, so we've been talking for a few days, and last night we were talking abt when he first saw me, and our first impressions and stuff, and at one point, he had thought I was dating this other guy in my class, my only other friend in that class. So I decide to tell him, BC he has been dropping a lot of hints lately, and said, "umm, no I like someone else. . ." and he said "really?" and I was like yeah (sorry I'm drawing this out) and he said "do I get a clue?" and so I literally started describing him, and how he's funny, sweet, smart, and its a plus that he's cute, and he's like, "well, whoever he/she is (no judgment), I'm sure you'll make them very happy" and my heart kinda broke, BC I was talking abt him! I even dropped little clues in, BC he has a terrible self image, so whenever I try to complement him, he says thanks but I'm really not, so when I said the guy I like was cute, I also said, even if he can't see it, and he was like, "wow, he's cute, funny, aND modest? You can't pass this up" and I was like omg, its you. And he laughed and said "your descriptions kinda threw me off" and then says that over the past few days, he's really grown to like me. It makes me sad that he has such a terrible self image, he said "I still can't believe a cutie like you likes me, it kinda makes me forget I'm not cute and stuff" Aside from that, I cannot stop smiling, thank you guys for all your help!