♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[Marinee]

**inhale**

Ok, so, there's this kid I had been kind of good friends with. It was to the point where my friend and I could give him nicknames that were a mean/joking kind of name.

This year, I have three classes with him, and I really like him.
I think he does too, because I can easily catch him looking up at me during Lunch. Like, ALOT, too.
I'm not even close to ready to tell him though.
It's almost the end of the year, though, so I feel like I should.
Or maybe I can leave a note on his locker or in his desk?

I'm not sure because I'm worried the annoying and troubled children will hear/see me and I'll get bullied or something because school.
(One of my friends was in a "relationship" with his twin brother for a while though, and it ended really badly because she forgot they were dating and whoops.)
I had a crush on one kid for 2 years and I didn't say anything to him and then it kind of faded.
Except this guy's different? Like instead of getting nervous around him, I just feel kind of.. uhm kind of like I'm sitting next to a fireplace in a blanket.
Only way I can explain it.

Ok I'm sorry this is kind of long and random byE

[acura,]

ugh, nothing’s gotten easier,,
I’ve fallen harder for my crush.
aka my close guy friend. he doesn’t like me back... i think that’s pretty clear, i think... but, he always hangs around me, talks to me, sits next to me in the 2 classes we’re in. he and i are quite the jokesters and we always get each others jokes.

i told myself i wouldn’t fall any harder for him, and i would forget about telling him i liked him, but my emotions have grown so much for him, it’s killing me. i like him more than i ever have. what do i do... i don’t want to tell him i like him, but i can’t keep it to myself. no one ‘understands’ these emotions I have for him. it’s so painful. it hurts me so much ah.

especially since we’re such good friends. after he dated my friend, for a month, things have gotten awkward between the two of us... well, nothing much for him, but a lot for me. he use to joke about him being ‘irresitible’ and basically extremely handsome,, he’s called me these names before, like babe, bae, darling, yea. he use to do those things, anyways.. ugh. things have just changed. i just want to go back to before, where everything was coolio and we both were chill with eachother. everytime i see him my heart beats faster... before i was questioning if I actually liked him or not. but now, i know i do.

my friend and i did this ‘prank’. we basically made up a fake convo where she dared me to tell him i like him, I took a screenshot of the ‘dare’ and then messaged him saying ‘(HIS NAME) I think I like you’ all he replied with was ‘um ok’, then i said ‘JUST KIDDING’ and sent the screenshots of the fake conversation. idk anymore, idk if he likes me or not.

he always talks to other girls, well... not really. mostly me and my friends.

can someone help me. what do i do again, im too scared to tell him i like him, but my emotions have grown and i sort of want to tell him, but again, im afraid our friendship will slowly fade away,, damnit. why did i have to fall for you?

[appi]

I want to say ‘I love you’ when we call but I’m just so nervous to

aww so cute! no rush of course <3 every one has their time to do it. just take a deep breath and go for it . i have the same problem hehe, but the other person will definitely appreciate it for sure

[meerkat boi.]

I have this one friend that screams my name when one of my crushes walks by ;-;

I was talking to my crush about a girl fight that was going on and that friend leans on my shoulder and shouts my name while he was right in front of me!
It's kinda annoying and I hate it, thank God she's in none of my classes

[WastedSpace]

I have this one friend that screams my name when one of my crushes walks by ;-;

I was talking to my crush about a girl fight that was going on and that friend leans on my shoulder and shouts my name while he was right in front of me!
It's kinda annoying and I hate it, thank God she's in none of my classes

? If you have a question, please be clear and ask it. I do not know why you are reposting this. It just looks like a vent to me.

[An Shiraishi]

So,I was at a party last night, and my crush and his friend were there.

I thought he may have liked me back but then made it very obvious that he liked her.
Im feeling heartbroken but I knew I never had a chance because im ugly and un likeable.
I want to tell him how I feel without ruining our friendship, but I don't feel like its the right time.
I had also found out that they both like eachother and may have dated before.
Im quite upset over this.
I guess im asking for help on how to deal with it? I have no idea how. I want to be able to move on and just be his normal friend but i can't.

[zenisiti]

So,I was at a party last night, and my crush and his friend were there.

I thought he may have liked me back but then made it very obvious that he liked her.
Im feeling heartbroken but I knew I never had a chance because im ugly and un likeable.
I want to tell him how I feel without ruining our friendship, but I don't feel like its the right time.
I had also found out that they both like eachother and may have dated before.
Im quite upset over this.
I guess im asking for help on how to deal with it? I have no idea how. I want to be able to move on and just be his normal friend but i can't.

OKAY. First off, never saw you are ugly, you're not. Second, try to not get upset about it by talking to him, perhaps saying "Hey I like you, but I think you don't like me." See what he says, if he acts akward after, then he is not worth your time!

[past3lbumblebee]

lol yesterday during lunch a girl just walked up to my boyfriend and i? and ask if we were dating???? we said ya and she said we looked cute together?????? but we didn't know her??????????? who?????????????????? why????????????????????????????? what was her purpose im so confused she walked away we gave each other a weird look looked back and she was just????????????????????????????????????? gone??????????????????????????????????????????????????? nowhere to be seen idek just a weird little vent

[WastedSpace]

So,I was at a party last night, and my crush and his friend were there.

I thought he may have liked me back but then made it very obvious that he liked her.
Im feeling heartbroken but I knew I never had a chance because im ugly and un likeable.
I want to tell him how I feel without ruining our friendship, but I don't feel like its the right time.
I had also found out that they both like eachother and may have dated before.
Im quite upset over this.
I guess im asking for help on how to deal with it? I have no idea how. I want to be able to move on and just be his normal friend but i can't.

I think you should really work on that self-esteem of yours. People are attracted to different people sometimes. That doesn't automatically make either of them "ugly" or "unlikeable" just because they have different tastes. Not only that, but if you worked on realizing positive things about you, life's little downfalls like this would be a lot easier to get through. Here's a really great post of advice on how to start:

So far for me it’s been something like:

1. Become aware of how and when you tearing yourself down.

2. Now that you can catch yourself doing it. Offer counters to the negative self talk. A really useful thing I read was to talk to yourself almost the way you would child. Gentle and patient. Even when they - up.

3. Take time to celebrate your small accomplishments. You’ve been attacking yourself for every little mistake. Apply that same fervor to the positive things in your life. Did the dishes even though you didn’t want to? - yeah! Got up and took shower? YES!!! You are taking positive steps to feeling better. Celebrate it.

4. Make lists of things you’re good at/ like about yourself. The first time I did this the only two things in my list we’re that I liked my hair and I had good friends. It was start.

5. Don’t beat yourself up if you screw up steps 1-4. It’s counter productive. When I catch myself calling my self stupid for some mistake or other my response now is,“We don’t talk to ourselves like that anymore. What’s something constructive that could actually help solve the problem.”

Most of the time that seems to work. Not always. But more and more Everytime.

I hope any of that made sense.

I have found that when I struggle with the self-affirmations, and they get eaten by my self-loathing, speaking them out loud in either the royal we or in the third person helps me get around that. Its like tricking my brain into thinking Im speaking to someone else, but Im also the only one listening.

[Shiny Sylveon]

Any ideas on a cute way to confess? I'm about 99% sure my best friend likes me, and I'm pretty excited to share my feelings. I was thinking of letting him take one of my video games home and confessing through the profile names, because it wouldn't be face-to-face, but still cute and personal, but I'm up for other ideas.