x3numnumx3 wrote:My crush - he's really nice and I have to admit that he's really cute, and he helps me through bullying and things - but online. Online is the only time we talk and interact, and in real life at school if we see each other we somehow have eye contact for a split second and then hurry off pretending that we never saw each other. Being honest idk why I'm doing this, and if he actually doesn't like me or anything, since he's the really quiet but confident one in his friends group.
I was in a similar situation about a year ago. While I'm not the best advice giver on these types of things, I can tell you this:
- There's a high chance your crush likes you back if he's also very shy around you. If you were to be friendzoned/ not liked by him, he wouldn't be shy around you, as you mentioned his personality type as being confident around his friends.
-While it might be scary at first, try inviting him to get some coffee or just hanging out sometime. If you're legitimately interested in being in a relationship with your crush, it's going to be a lot better if you can chat at least a little in real life. The first time trying to chat can be quite awkward, but I can promise you that if both of you are interested in meeting again after one awkward time, things will get a bit less weird between you two. If you'd like to try my advice (meeting up with him), PM or reply me :)