Jade~Fox wrote:Ok, so I met my crush at summer camp and now I go to his school. My friend told him when he was in front of us in the lunch line and I was RIGHT THERE. And now he won't talk to me. It is really awkward when we pass each other in the hall or at PE (We have the same period PE)...Help???
That sucks. =( I wouldn't try to force things right now, though. Keep it low-key and casual. Say hi when you pass by him, but don't go seeking him out or trying to start a conversation with him. For whatever reason, he doesn't want to engage with you, so save yourself the heartbreak and let him work through his issues on his own. *offers hugs*
kiffell wrote:having a crush on your best friend is hard,,,
i already tried confessing to her (calling her J), but i dont think she got the message
and its really hard to talk to her because the only hours we have together are Science and Orchestra, besides lunch
which she is always hanging out with her other "friends" in the morning and lunch, and they are also in orchestra
so that leaves science, which i sit in the back and she is in the front, so no way there
its getting harder, because one of those "friends" (calling her D) is really rude and she lies, and said some really bad things about my other friend who just moved to a different state. J doesn't like D, because of this, but she can't find anyway to like not be friends with D anymore. Its really hard, and J makes me so happy, but when i cant talk to her im just always depressed..
Ask for her number/email/discord/snapchat/whatevs so you don't have to depend on school to talk to her?
6sammie6 wrote:so I've given up on Abby since it's pretty clear she doesn't like me
but there's this other girl in my japanese class, i'll call her amy
she's nice and pretty and she seems to enjoy my company and i invited her to watch a movie with me before thanksgiving break and it was a good totally non romantic time, but i don't know if she'd be interested in something more
and there's this dance at my school on the 8th, and i'm not even sure if people who go to other schools are allowed to attend (i just asked hopefully they reply soon) and i would like to ask her to go with me but i don't know if she'll think it's like. romantic. idk. what to do.
Invite a small group of friends (if you can do a get together before so she can meet people, that's be cool) so there's not too much pressure? I know everyone's always "aaaah romantic dates dances it's the only way to do it" but honestly, dances are way more fun with a group of friends, anyway. Or skip the dance and you two can hang out that night and just have fun doing something else.