I myself actually want to be a homosexual male, so I don't see the point in having kids unless I adopt. On the other hand, a good spouse for myself but a terrible one for him/her? My dream job for him/her to get a job at McDonalds? No way.
You get to change how the future will turn out once
but
you don't know the result, you can only change what's wrong in the world right now.















