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by frogs_r_cute » Mon Mar 02, 2026 6:57 pm
Hi so I’m struggling lately to get even a decline or any type of response to a trade request when I send it, and it’s just making me feel like I’m off putting? I would just like some advice about how I could improve my profile like editing my trade rules? Or writing my messages certain ways? Thank you for your time!!!!

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by reaptherisk » Mon Mar 02, 2026 7:04 pm
aw i don't think it's anything you're doing : ( more often than not, even when i send people simple trades 2 seconds after they bumped their trade post, it takes hours to days for me to get a response. on top of that i have to clear several rotted trades a week (and lots of the time the people in question are still bumping their post all day every day)! some people dont have the time to respond to trades same-day or within a couple days, some people just don't seem to care.
i am always as polite and communicative as i can be but these things don't change. unfortunately i think you just need to take it as a given that you'll run into this issue. what ive started doing is just sending out trades without caring about pets being tradelocked (unless im waiting on an important offer). if one gets accepted and 5 are canceled with it, then so be it. they were likely going to forget or cancel anyway so i need to keep moving : )
.reap, he ✦ always looking for trades..
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by Papillon_Carmel » Mon Mar 02, 2026 7:31 pm
frogs_r_cute wrote:Hi so I’m struggling lately to get even a decline or any type of response to a trade request when I send it, and it’s just making me feel like I’m off putting? I would just like some advice about how I could improve my profile like editing my trade rules? Or writing my messages certain ways? Thank you for your time!!!!

Don't take it personal. As for me, seems it's not 100% polite to send something without any message, but a lot of people don't want to be mean, just...act in their own manner. Come to trade with me sometime, I'll sent you a message for sure)
Hi! Back from 10 years break. Missed a lot, but still trying to get it! 🧡
For mods: Integer_Tiger is my husband, so we have trades from the same ip, don't worry, they are fair enough <3
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