crawling back to this thing just to complain a bit.
Say you've been friends with someone for years and said friend is going through a very rough time do you:
A) support them
B) abandon them
Well guess what my friend did? She didn't talk to me for over a week with no explanation fully aware of how much i needed her and then she texts me a full on rant about how me being upset was stressing her out and how i should get more friends (like it's that simple) and she SAVED it in the chat (why?).
A whole month later of no contact and she rings me last night and acts like everything is fine after i managed to move on with my life but she'll probably ditch me again for her oh-so-amazing boyfriend who bodyshames her, she probably just wants me to go back to playing rdr with her (but guess what? i sold my playstation so i could buy a fursuit) and for me to go back out to the stables cause she's lonely by herself (but she ruined that hobby for me and i haven't rode in nearly 2 years cause of my mental health and you know what? i don't miss it).
Her justification is she's not my therapist (and i get that) but it's no excuse for abandoning someone and not saying why for a whole month, no excuse for confronting me the day after my dad upset me and no excuse for sending a whole angry essay full of block capitals to me while i'm crying so loud my mum runs to my room to make sure i'm ok.
The one person i thought i could trust, someone who also went through a lot at a young age, someone who I thought could understand me but no, i was stupid to believe that anyone would get it.
I can't go into detail because CS is child-friendly but i'm sure you can fill in the blanks at least semi-accurately.
Sorry if anything is against the rules here